The first lecture on innate temperament is lotte type

What is innate temperament? It refers to a personality tendency that a child is born with. Nine children are different from each other, and it is a world of difference for a mother to have three children. Everyone knows that every child is different, and teaching students in accordance with their aptitude is the best for children. Knowing children's innate temperament can help us better raise children, and knowing our innate temperament can better grow ourselves! !

At present, we can divide innate temperament into five categories, namely optimism, depression, radicalism, calmness and dedication. A person may have several innate qualities at the same time, such as 50% optimism, 20% depression, 10% radicalism and 20% calmness, then we will assume that this person is optimistic and the other two are optimistic. There must be a difference between 50% and 70% optimistic personalities.

First, the characteristics of happy children

1, positive and optimistic: Happy people usually see the advantages of others and look at themselves. If a thing is done successfully, it will be remembered, and if it fails, it will often be forgotten.

2. Good at communication: Happy people are easy to get along with and very compassionate. Others can laugh at jokes, and others can burst into tears when they tell sad things. Feelings are not deep but rich.

3, love to enjoy: Lotte-type people like to enjoy, for example, those adults who maxed out credit cards are basically Lotte-type, and Lotte-type children love to make money and spend money when they grow up.

4, eager for affirmation: Lotte-type children need affirmation, praise and recognition, and a hug can make him very energetic.

Second, how to get along with happy children?

1, quality relationship,? Optimistic children pay the most attention to relationships, and they will do whatever you ask them to do because they like you.

2, play the warm card, express him with more emotional and emotional words so that he can hear, use rationality for him, and basically ignore you.

3. Plan and responsibility? Happy children are not task-oriented, and there are likely to be some irresponsible behaviors for the sake of relationships, such as skipping work for friends and lack of planning. Therefore, our parents need to guide their children to take more responsibilities in this respect, and it is best to make some plans for some things to help their children grow up better.