Classic quotations said by Tsai Kangyong

1. If you talk about specific things rather than abstract principles, people will be more likely to listen, understand and remember it more easily.

2. In the past twelve years, there have been laughter and tears, and there have been clouds and clouds. It is just daily life accompanied by people coming and going.

3. After two people get together, they feel disillusioned with each other, but they are still together. This is the second stage of love. We are relieved of each other and there is no need to pretend anymore.

4. You are in love, but the person you love sometimes does not really exist. He may be just an innocent white wall, and you are so enthusiastic that you project all your favorite love movies on him.

5. If you love the other person, you should compromise with the other person’s taste. People who live in love find that part of the fun is self-torture, self-humiliation, sacrifice, and dedication.

6. Through studying and speaking, you will understand more fundamentally the relationship between yourself and others, what you and others are thinking, and, most importantly, what kind of person you are. people.

7. Many New Yorkers are very impatient. They may not be in the mood to listen to you if you ask your heart and soul.

8. The more specific the question, the easier it will be for the person to answer it. The less effort the person answers, the more energy he will have to continue the conversation with you.

9. As human beings, if we are inferior, it is because our desires are inferior. If we are noble, it is because our desires are noble. Civilization shows us taste, and the function of taste is to allow us to distinguish whether desires are inferior or noble. But it does not teach us to become people without desires. Without desire, I'm afraid it can only become boring, not gain wisdom.

10. The promises that are blurted out when you are in love are all sincere, as true as the fruits that bear on the treetops when the season comes. But you also know that the fruit begins to expire quickly from the moment it leaves the tree. If it is not eaten in time, no matter how fragrant the fruit is, it will become rotten and smell bad. Therefore, promises in love often make us uncomfortable in the end, not because they were false at the beginning, they are very real, but they have expired.

11. People with a weak sense of existence don’t have to speak out often.

12. Selfishness is our nature, but mature people will understand: Being selfish does not mean that only oneself is good. We can all be selfish by nature and still wish others well, and then we can hope for a better life for ourselves.

13. The boy in the tight-fitting uniform played tricks on me and made me get an extra amount of money out of nowhere. However, he probably lost something somewhere else.

14. I don’t like any type of person. If I like you, all I like is you.

15. Don’t be too willful, because you are living for your future self. Don’t let your future self hate your present self.

16. Wedding ceremonies are already very cruel. Everyone who is forced to stand has to tell a lot of lies, swear a lot of oaths, and try to pretend to be civilized. But now she is like this It's so rude to say that even wearing rings on each other has become a very rude thing.

17. If you care about someone, you will find something to talk to him and let him talk. I believe that "talking" is human instinct and a way of survival that primitive people have relied on. Primitive people always have to tell their friends, "The flashes in the sky sometimes make the trees burn. Those kinds of fruits will make you vomit if you eat them. I saw it last time. This child is not mine. Throw him outside the cave as soon as possible" and so on. talk.

18. Dear baby: It turns out that we have been stubborn and insisted on tying beauty and love together, just like the love picture books we read one after another filled with beautiful illustrations when we were young. In fact, we still prefer childish love, and do not mix money and status, which are things that adults only consider. We just want to bless a beautiful love like a flower.

19. However, most people living in the real world are very afraid of pain. Once they have to donate a cornea or a kidney to the other person, the sacrifice in love immediately becomes very tangible. , it is an unbearable weight in life.

20. Saying no is a very happy thing. Because you don’t have to force yourself to fall into a quagmire that you can’t get out of, which makes you lose the right to say no. You will lose your sense of happiness because you can’t say no to many things. When making major decisions in life, we should always think about whether this major decision deprives us of our right to say no. The more rights we accumulate to say no, the easier it is for us to be happy.

21. A person who chases money will be very happy if he really makes a lot of money in the end. People who chase dreams will be very sad if what they get in the end is a dream.

22. Keep it mysterious and give others room to use their imagination.

23. You don’t have to pretend to have depth, as long as you know how to appreciate the depth of others, it is already a virtue.

24. We will encounter all kinds of problems. We push it ten times, but it doesn't fall; we push it a hundred times, and it doesn't fall; we push it a thousand times, and it still doesn't fall. ?We won’t fall, but we will become muscular and powerful people. ?Failure to fail should not be an excuse for us to voluntarily be weak.

25. Stubbornly believing in superficial appearances, using only one logic when encountering anything, or thinking that if everyone says so, it must make sense. All of the above are the root causes of boring speech. The words are full of unthought-out opinions, just like the frozen meat or frozen dumplings that have not yet been removed from the ice on the dinner plate and are served to the guests.

26. I have no intention of amplifying the goodwill of the world, nor the malice of the world. I just accept the weather, sunny or rainy, in proportion to the weather. The world and I are just each other.

27. I also like some childish things in that young country: hugging when nothing happens, talking about disagreements in person, joking casually, and seriously wanting to believe in "city and justice". These simple and clear things But not a practical principle.

28. That’s not called forgiveness, it’s called forgetting. When we live for a long time, we feel tired, and we tell ourselves to forget it. We do not forgive each other, and we do not demand forgiveness for every mistake. We are just tired, and forget it later. Time has undoed and erased this matter for us, but it does not mean that we should forgive.

29. During the period of first love, you most need to avoid your mother - in the eyes of a first love, the whole world is only one person. When this person comes, the whole world will come; when this person leaves, the whole world will be destroyed. How can a person who lives in such a critical situation endure a tearful mother approaching him and asking him to go to the alley laundromat to find a fallen button?

30. The way to avoid causing trouble for others is to solve the trouble yourself. Others do not exist to serve you.

31. The purpose of criticism is to impress the other party so that the other party can realize their mistakes and get back on the right track, rather than to belittle the other party.

32. Yes, there are many things that I can’t understand. Mozart, who often wrote songs to God, also often wrote curse words into his songs. Foreigners who don’t understand are still solemn. You have to sing as hard as you can.

33. We often don’t love ourselves enough. We often need people who love us to discover how good we are. I think most people tend to ignore the best parts of themselves when they love each other blindly. In the end, we rely on the person who loves us deeply and makes us believe that we are worthy of being loved and that we are a good person. So don’t turn down opportunities that make you feel how good you are.

34. Is every injury received in love like every knife endured when wood and stone are carved? In the end, the more worthy self hidden in us will gradually be revealed. appear in front of the other party's eyes.

35. Gossip cannot be avoided. Gossip is necessary, but you can pursue a more tasteful way to gossip, instead of going around talking bad things about others behind their backs.

36. If you want to strive for performance in speaking, don’t ignore it: you can strive for performance in the ability of "listening" instead of blindly striving for performance in the ability of "speaking".

37. If you don’t fall in love, you won’t die, but if you love, you will live.

38. One day, all this will pass. Thinking of this result, I feel happy. No matter how tiring love is, no matter how tiring hate is, it will all pass away. Insomnia, being wrongly accused of racing, being too poor, will all pass. Being scorned, being forced to lie, being forced to admit that you can't change anything, or that you don't look good will pass.

39. What kind of words you say determines what kind of person you are.

40. If the means are evil, then the whole thing is destined to be evil. Some people or organizations say that he has no choice but to use evil means for legitimate and beautiful goals. This statement can never be accepted! Once accepted, his methods will only become more and more evil, and his legitimate and beautiful goals will never be realized. A world that makes endless concessions to evil is tantamount to poisoned soil, and all flowers become a luxury.

41. We don’t know each other’s names. We just often wait for the bus at the same station, stand in front of the same window, laugh when the same program is broadcast, and lose sleep under the same moon. However, this is enough for me to love you. Compared to those people whose names, addresses, education, occupations are familiar to me but whom I don’t love at all, I love you wholeheartedly and rely on this love to feel that life is worth living.

42. When you suddenly find that love has disappeared, you are often extremely stunned and don’t understand what happened. Although you can press him in every possible way at this time, pressing him may only add to your embarrassment. My suggestion for this moment is: sit down and take a deep breath, close your eyes and think back to how unreasonable and unreasonable this love was when it first came to you. It will go as it came. After looking back leisurely, you may be able to realize that the nature of love is like this after all, and then let go.

43. Being easy to anger means: someone else does something stupid, and then we take their place and act like a fool.

44. You will inform everyone of your birth with a cry. You will cry to inform everyone that you are hungry. If there are any signs of danger to your existence, such as mosquito bites, fire burns, or big dogs being aggressive to you, you will cry to remind others to help you eliminate the danger. Laughter is of no use.

45. Love is very passive and requires the other person’s reaction; love is also very diffuse and requires the other person’s personality.

46. We love that person’s heart, soul, talent, and personality.

What we love is not that person’s ability to reproduce.

47. Choosing the person I love is creating wounds for myself, choosing the person I love is giving myself a pair of armor.

48. Speaking is something that you can continue to improve by relying on yourself. And speaking well, the biggest gains are of course ourselves.

49. There is no need to say to me specially on these festivals: You love me. The day you say you love me is my day. The deepest love always goes through wind and rain; the strongest affection is always warm and cold.

50. We will encounter various walls. We push the wall ten times and it will not fall; we push the wall a hundred times and it will not fall; we push the wall a thousand times and it will not fall. The wall won't fall down, but by pushing the wall harder, our muscles will strengthen and we will become powerful people. The fact that the wall cannot fall should not be an excuse for us to voluntarily be weak.

51. A fire lit up in the darkness. It was so warm and happy. The firelight was ever-changing and intoxicating. The same is true at the beginning of love. The loneliness in the whole world recedes, making room for our fire. The test of love is not how to light the fire, but how to keep finding firewood and keep the fire burning through the long night.

52. I have kept the text messages you sent me at that time and have not deleted them. Because I still need some evidence to prove that even you loved me so much.

53. The so-called "paying" is often just the way we realize our dreams. Maybe in the process of implementation, others benefit from it, but this does not mean that others owe us. In the same way, if we benefit from something, it does not mean that we owe it to others.

54. My attitude every time I participate in Qi Pa Talk and my stance on this topic is not to clearly divide black and white, but to think about which side I lean more towards, I will like this more World, this is a simple standard I adopt.

55. I am not gay because I like you, nor do I like you because I am gay. I just like someone, and we happen to be the same sex.

56. Leave meaningless victory to the other party. Those who know how to admit defeat can speak.

57. One day, all this will pass. Thinking of this result makes me happy.

58. No matter how much you want to get out of the place, never show a cold look in your eyes. No matter what, you must show the enthusiasm of "I will talk to you again when I have a chance." What role does this person play in the next turn? Even if you just want to get away from him at the moment, you can still make fewer enemies. Because the enemy is your most valuable asset. The more you have, the faster you die.

59. In the future, you will definitely be grateful to yourself for working hard now.

60. Whoever you admire most in your heart, you don’t have to become that person, but use that person’s spirit and method to become yourself.

61. The bed will also witness many of our vulnerable moments. Sometimes I'm just too tired, lying on the bed looking up at the ceiling, wondering what the meaning of life is after making myself so tired. Sometimes I am heartbroken and cry on my bed. Sometimes when I get sick, I quarrel with my body, but I can’t close the door and walk away.

62. Gu Gu is very similar to many of us. He has observations but no inferences. This is normal. He went to Italy to play, and it makes no sense to have to worry about making inferences.

63. We make wishes and pray for them to come true, but sometimes our wishes come true in a way that makes us sad. It was like the sky was literally raining diamonds and we were trapped in the desert, dying of dehydration.

64. Living means suffering. If the taste is too bitter, spit it out quickly and rinse your mouth. If you can't spit it out and it's painful that you have to swallow it, then swallow it quickly. Regardless of whether you want to spit it out or swallow it, don't hold it in your mouth and chew it carefully. Bitterness exists to help us seek good fortune and avoid misfortune next time. It is not just for every meal.

65. But I have never really wanted to interview successful people because I feel that success should not be defined as the only value of life. When people ask me how I am successful, I usually answer that I don’t think I am successful. The second one is that I don’t think life must be successful. There must be many people who fail. Don’t those who fail deserve a good life?

66. In fact, everything is memory in the end, so please try to remember it correctly: if it is not love, don’t remember it as love. If it's not a kiss, don't remember it as a kiss. And, if it is true love, then of course, don’t miss it, and remember it as: love.

67. The more troublesome you are in the early stages of life and the less lazy you are to learn, the more likely you are to miss the people and things that interest you and the new scenery later on.

68. "What you are doing" is interesting in itself, but silence is richer and more memorable than chattering.

69. People like their own names so much. When others write you emails or talk to you on the phone, if they mention your name from time to time, your concentration and recognition will be greatly improved. .

70. Self-deprecation is something that only confident people can do!

71. People, when others look down on you, you have to learn to look down on yourself.

72. I thought I was loved, but it turned out that I was not. Which unit can I go to to appeal?

73. Some people envy other people’s love, just like they envy other people’s clothes, and wish they could buy something exactly the same to wear. Please don't think like this, you don't know what it feels like to wear that seemingly beautiful dress. Maybe it was so tight that she was suffocating, maybe she had been starved for five years just to wear that dress, maybe the fabric made her itchy and rashy. You are not the one wearing it, you don’t know.

74. If you only read books that suit your own taste, you will always only know what you already know.

75. You thought that you missed him to the extreme and could not miss him more. As a result, at an unexpected moment, you succeeded and missed him more than before. To the extent that I miss him a little more.

76. When the other person brings up a topic that you don’t want to take up at all, don’t resist in a hurry, but gently connect the topic that the other person is passionate about to a very life-oriented direction.

77. Your life is yours. The wind is blowing when you feel the wind; the universe only exists when you put the universe in your heart. You may have to carry other things that others have decided for you, others have believed for you, and others have recognized for you, but when the time comes, you can also let go.

78. Whether love is overvalued probably depends on whether the person is at the high point or the low point of life, right? If you happen to be standing at a high point in life, you may feel that love is not that high; and if you accidentally stand at a low point in life, you may hope that love will reach out from above and pull you up.

79. However, in order to be able to say this kind of thing, you still need to do some homework for yourself in advance and change the person you are talking to depending on the person you are speaking to.

80. I like this dead tranquility. I don’t want to think about things and destroy this tranquility.

81. There are many places where you think there is no trace of love. Many people think that they have never experienced love. You have this misunderstanding just because you didn't brush it gently with your hand. If you blow a breath gently and brush it with your hand, love will appear silently and quietly, like those little stars in the night sky that you have ignored.

82. Unless that person can make you live a better life than when you were single, why bother leaving singlehood for that person.

83. People only meet each other for a period of time. I will miss mine, and you will miss yours. It’s fair.

84. Sometimes, long after the relationship has ended, we gradually realize that the way we loved that person at that time was wrong. Then, we suddenly want to get that person back and love again.

85. He actually still remembers me? Such a humble emotion is almost similar to the state of mind that a ghost would have when looking back on the human world, but it can still make us who are remembered feel a little bit of surprise and relief, and let our hearts that have been buried in ashes come back to life again. Light up for one second, because in this second, we review the love we once had.

86. We just keep learning to face the absurd and weird world with a smile, because if we can really learn to live like this, the difficult steps can sometimes become a little dance.

87. Talent is very similar to the meat frozen in the refrigerator. No matter how high-quality the meat is, it will become sour and smelly if it is frozen for too long. If you know you have talent, it's like knowing you have frozen meat in the refrigerator. It's not something to be arrogant about. Using that talent to make something is better than keeping a pile of sour and smelly meat to fill up your refrigerator. , and finally even the refrigerator was damaged.

88. Don’t worry about the depth of the problem. Everyone who speaks needs to receive encouragement from the obedient party before they can speak more freely. As long as your response is an encouragement, no matter how high-status or profound the other person is, they will be encouraged to continue talking. You don’t have to pretend to have depth, as long as you know how to appreciate the depth of others, it is already a virtue.

89. If you insist on nothing and just make concessions, how can it be called "compromise"? That's called "giving up."

90. If you are happy all the time, it is hard to hold on.

91. You have to hand over your future to him. Is this love? Still lazy?

92. It is not your fault that you are not motivated, but you will miss out if you are not motivated.

93. When I love you one-way, I can only be the sun, and I rely on my own light for support. When I am finally loved by you, I rest and become the moon. I rely on your light to confirm my existence.

94. The world is composed of people who want to remember and people who want to forget.