Changes after the start of school

What has changed since the beginning of school? Pupils' answers are bright! Netizen: Children's words are unscrupulous.

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Affected by the epidemic, this year's children generally spent the longest "winter vacation" in history. The epidemic situation in various places has ended one after another, and schools have started in batches. After a few months, the children and teachers have changed a lot. After the children met, they were full of curiosity about the people and things around them. While enjoying the joy of going out for the first time in a few months, I feel the changes of people around me. Because the time span is relatively long, all the changes are relatively large, and at one time they seem a little confused, but they are gradually accepted.

What do you think is the biggest change since the beginning of school?

The children were very excited when school started. When someone asks, "What do you think is the biggest change in the beginning of school?"

A child said, "The biggest change is that the winter vacation has become longer. We stayed at home for several months. "

A child replied: "The biggest change is that students have grown taller."

A child replied: "The biggest change is that the students have become fat, because they eat at home every day and gain weight."

Other children replied: "The biggest change is that the teacher has become beautiful. After staying at home, she is much whiter!" "

Some children even said that the biggest change is to teach our female teacher to be pregnant and feel much bigger.

analyse

Children are curious about the things around them and express their feelings through their own observation. But some of them are true. For example, students are getting fatter and fatter, but it is not necessarily true that the female teacher who teaches them is pregnant. It may be a child's guess, because many people will get fatter more or less after staying at home for a long time. Perhaps the obesity of the female teacher led the children to mistakenly think that the teacher was pregnant.

What should adults do in the face of children's childish words?

Don't scold in front of outsiders, protect children's self-esteem.

Children are still a blank sheet of paper in many ways, and they don't necessarily understand things so thoroughly and make them so clear. Maybe he has heard such similar words in his life, and maybe he will say them in front of everyone. Don't scold the child in front of everyone at this time. In fact, the child is not talking nonsense, she is expressing things with her own cognition, and the child is not wrong. Children's self-esteem is also very strong. When you are reprimanded in front of everyone, your self-esteem will be strongly suppressed, and then you will become inferior and cowardly if you dare not express your thoughts in front of everyone.

Don't discourage curiosity, guide actively.

A child has a strong curiosity. When he is curious about something, he will ask questions about it and express his thoughts and opinions. Children may make jokes because they don't fully understand those things. At this time, adults should not only laugh at children, but also explain the ins and outs of things to children, so that their curiosity can be satisfied, which is also a way to broaden their horizons and let them gradually understand more. In this way, he will remain enthusiastic about curious things. If a child's curiosity is ruthlessly suppressed, then he will lose the desire to explore the world and be not interested in anything in the future.

Understand the child's psychology and solve problems from the child's perspective.

Many times, children think differently from adults. We can't treat children completely in an adult way, which is easy for children to misunderstand. For example, a child desperately pushes the duckling's head into the water. Adults mistakenly think that this child is abusing small animals, hurting creatures, having no love, and loving to destroy things. And indiscriminately reprimand or even beat and scold children. But when the child spoke his mind, he found that it was not like that. The child's idea is childish. He just thought it was too hot and the duckling would be thirsty, so he let the duckling drink water. But the duckling can't drink water, and the child is in a hurry, so he puts his head in the water and lets him drink water. At this time, tell the children that the duck is thirsty and go back to drink water. Just prepare water for the ducks. Don't force the duckling, because it will be very sad.

Write it at the end

In the face of children's "childlike innocence", we still need to analyze the specific situation, but we must never reprimand and blame. In most cases, children's ideas are naive and harmless. If it is indiscriminate, it will leave a shadow on children and even affect their lives.

Today's interactive topic: Have you ever met something about "children talking without restraint"? How did you handle it? Welcome to communicate.

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