What did you think after the breakup and how did you get through it?

Get over it, and find someone else to relax.

When he said "Let's break up" on the phone, the feeling at that time was that he was not distressed, but his heart was heavy and empty, just like losing his pillar. He thought he might fall down if he didn't sit down, but instead of crying, he smiled and said "OK". At this point, Xiaoke's first love is over.

After hanging up the phone, Xiaoke drank a catty of white wine, the kind of 32 degrees, and there was no snack to eat, so he drank it as water.

For the next three months, Xiaoke has been living a life of walking dead, having meetings with his boss every day. At this time, he has been reminding himself not to make mistakes. When he works, he will focus all his attention on the speaker and then record the content quickly.

I began to participate in the conversation with my colleagues. Even if I didn't want to laugh, I was the one who laughed the loudest, and I began to have more contact with some excellent single male colleagues. In fact, there is really a saying of transferring love. Xiaoke is close to his male colleague, accepts his kindness to himself, and lets himself be accompanied and cared for by people around him.

Slowly, I forgot what that person was like. Being with friends and colleagues around you, a person who is kind to himself will really feel less painful and have less time to think about him. At first, as long as I was alone, I would cry silently, without sound, but my tears could not be controlled.

Later, he became a person who silently thought about what he had done together in the past, and later found that he could actually live well without himself.

In fact, some people like to lock themselves up and don't like others to get close, which will only make them more sad. If you can force yourself to go out, walk into the crowd and find someone who is good to you, it is really easy to put yourself in the other's shoes.