Yishui, Shandong Province advocates a unified standard of betrothal gifts within 10,000 yuan. Will you support it?

If it is not supported, why do we need to unify the standard? You only get married once in your life. Some people like it to be more grand, while others like it to be simple and not cookie-cutter. The starting point of the promotion is good, but banquets, invitations, and courtesy are all mandatory, so what's the point? 01. Yishui, Shandong Province advocates that the betrothal gift fee should not exceed 10,000 yuan: there should be no more than 6 wedding cars and no more than 10 tables for wedding banquets.

On August 28, 2020, Yishui, Shandong Province implemented the reform of wedding customs. At the meeting, it was advocated to unify standards for betrothal gifts. Betrothal gifts should not be collected, or should be limited to less than 10,000, banquets should not exceed 10 tables, and participants should only be direct family members. , the wedding car costs less than 6 liang...

As soon as this incident was announced, netizens exploded, with some supporting it and some opposing it. After all, why should there be unified standards for betrothal gifts? Can't they be humane?

02. The amount of betrothal gift should not be unified, but should depend on the communication between the two parties.

First of all, betrothal gifts have always existed since ancient times. In ancient times, weddings were very solemn and ritualistic. Ancient people often married a wife, which required eight sedan chairs, three letters and nine engagements, and a matchmaker to marry her. This shows that they value the bride and will love her for a lifetime. But it's better now. Women can't ask for too much when they get married. It's best not to give a bride price, but to give birth to children, do housework, and go to work to earn money for the man...

Besides, the co-author should give no more than 10,000 yuan to the man. , can I have a free nanny? If a man has an affair, is subjected to domestic violence, etc., would he think that the cost of an affair is really low?

Just as a netizen (female) said: If I could get a wife for 10,000 yuan, I would be willing to spend a month’s salary to marry one. She doesn’t need to work or have children, I only need her. Just do the housework! ?Another netizen said: ?10,000 is not enough, this is easy to negotiate, you can give 20,000...?

In short, the amount of betrothal gifts should not be unified, we can only say that we should try our best to encourage no betrothal gifts. Stay high.

Don’t always ask for more than 200,000 yuan in betrothal gifts, as well as banquets, RVs, etc. The most reasonable thing is for both parties to negotiate instead of having to stipulate it. What do you think?