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On April 1 day, the sky turned cloudy and sunny, with a light breeze and light rain.

Grandma has been dead for more than twenty years. Although I have never met before, the annual worship is somewhat warm. It's been seven years since grandma left us, and I've never lost my grandfather, always so kind and clear, but I haven't seen him for three spring and autumn!

Bumping all the way, we came to grandma's grave. The air in the country is still so fresh, and everything around it is the same. There are barren fields, messy trees and weeds everywhere. At this time, the humid air, the gray sky and the dead silence around me made me feel heavy, and my sadness spread all over my body. Dad, uncles and aunts are busy in an orderly way. They often recall some past events in conversation. They are remembering. I also learned about my grandmother's life intermittently. I know she must be very smart and capable when she was young, and she is definitely a first-class master in farming and cooking. Five brothers and sisters, it is not easy to bring them up. As a teacher, dad certainly carried a lot of burdens during the Cultural Revolution, and followed his grandmother without any regrets. But the sudden stroke is probably the injustice of heaven. I know my grandmother was so young at that time and died in despair! Here, I can only silently wish my grandmother in heaven to enjoy retirement and take good care of her children. Here, I extend my highest respect to my grandchildren.

It rains in the Qingming Festival, and it is always foggy and rainy in the spring of March. With the gradual reduction and stop of firecrackers. After paying homage to grandma, we left slowly in the car with deep nostalgia. The golden color everywhere adds a bit of joy to the weather and relieves the heavy hearts of heavy people. Accompanied by the splendid rape blossoms, our family came to the graves of grandparents. Seven years ago should be my first taste of where you are going! At this moment, grandma's kind eyes and gentle smile came to my mind again. She is great and ordinary. Doing what ordinary people do, but they can do extraordinary things in the ordinary. I know my mother and sisters, who were brought up by her. Meticulous and hardworking, she promised the word "dedication" with her life. Grandpa is omnipotent, and peaches and plums are all over the world. This should be his portrayal. He has a typical intellectual temperament, writes good calligraphy and always maintains a good attitude. I admire his peace and stability, his elegance and nobility. Seems to be born with respect. A thorough understanding of life, indifference to fame and fortune, and contempt for money. He has always been a bright light in my heart. The fire in front of your grave today hopes to warm your heart and comfort your soul in heaven. I only hope that this fire can illuminate the distant and foggy journey of our struggle in the world and guide us to the road of success and happiness. I only hope that here, we can be compatible with heaven and earth and have mutual affinity. I only hope that this flying spark can bring us the best wishes.

The dead are gone, but I hope I can feel at ease. On the way home, I prayed silently that God should be just. I suffered too much before my death and shed too many tears. I should be happy after my death!

On April 2, it was still rainy.

For the dead, we can only miss them. What about the dying old man? What's the point of living if children can't be filial? "The tree wants to be quiet, but the wind does not stop. The son wants to be filial and the relatives are not there." Familiar words always resonate with us a little. Back at school, I miss my grandpa crazily. Parents are filial, try to meet their material needs, and always seem to be involved in their behavior. My uncles and aunts also care about my grandfather from the heart. But children still have to know how to be filial! The young scenery often makes the old people proud, while the loneliness of the old is ruthlessly hitting their self-confidence. They have their own value intentions, and how much we care about can be analyzed from their perspective and taken care of each other.

I have great respect for grandpa. There seems to be no words to describe my inner feelings, nor is it pity for my grandfather. I know it's helpless. I don't have any capital, and I'm not qualified to judge any relative by the provision of my parents. Grandma's early death, I understand that grandpa was lonely for half his life. Maybe I'm always a little estranged from my parents. They don't seem to have really talked. For his uncles, he just cares and helps and never asks for anything. I know he has been short of a real heart-to-heart person for most of his life. Now that you are old, grandpa, do you know the hearts of children and grandchildren? Do you know how much you want to be a grandson as soon as possible, how much you want to be filial in your last days, and how much you want to really enjoy your old age?

I can't sleep tonight, for my grandfather who is still lonely!

The weather turned fine on April 4th.

Tomorrow is Tomb-Sweeping Day, and we have already worshipped our ancestors. Now at school, I have never felt the atmosphere around me. I don't know how to express it Young people in the new era in universities have great ambitions. How many of them remember this Tomb-Sweeping Day? I don't know how many students will call, and I don't know if all the students who haven't come home know how to let their parents and brothers pay homage on their behalf. Every holiday, I will miss my relatives. Even when I went home a few days ago, I still miss them, everything at home, the emptiness of my hometown, the huge levee, the green grass and the rippling river. Today's mood is still difficult to calm down.

It was sunny on April 5.

The Qingming in memory has been rainy for many years. This year is an exception, great! It saves a lot of trouble for people who go home to worship their ancestors. It's just that firecrackers are hard to hear in this city. In the school, I can't find any signs related to today's Qingming. Life is like old times, nothing special. I think too much these days. When I really get to Tomb-Sweeping Day, I'm speechless.

At the age of 20, can I pay tribute to my dead relatives with adult etiquette and adult mentality today, and solemnly declare that the future depends on myself. May god give me shelter.

Winter has passed and everything has revived. At this time, the annual Tomb-Sweeping Day arrived again. As long as I can remember, every year on this day in Tomb-Sweeping Day, my mother asked me to change into military spring clothes and take me to the grave with paper money.

All the people who died in our family are buried in Biandan Mountain, which is far from my home. We have to transfer to several cars. I remember going to the grave as a child was always very happy, because as soon as my mother burned paper money in front of the grave, I couldn't help myself and played everywhere until my mother dragged me into the car.

I don't know when I went to the grave, so I stopped playing, but observed the buildings one by one. Evaluation of appearance? Forever mutiny in Cape Bogor? Exhibition? Twilight # What is a liquid? Eggs? Xing Fuyi? Is it Nainaozheng? Why don't you climb the cutting base? Ba? Brave? Grain Rain? Angry bananas and two promises? Is it suitable? So I'm sorry. Wish you? Ω Ω Ω Ω Ω Ω Ω Ω Ω Ω Ω Ω Ω Ω Ω Ω Ω Ω Ω Ω Ω Ω Ω Ω Ω Ω Ω Ω Ω Ω Ω Ω Ω Ω Ω 93 Zheng?

I ran to tell my mother curiously with questions. My mother didn't look up and said slowly, "Alas! Take some paper money to his grave! " I received a stack of paper money from my mother. I went to his grave and threw paper money into the fire, muttering, "No one has ever visited your grave. You must be lonely. Although I don't know your name or you, you must have been a hero, and now your bones have been exiled. Let me burn some paper money for you ... "At this moment, my hands gently support my shoulders. I looked back and saw that it was my mother, and she gently.

This year is Qingming again. Because my mother has severe rheumatoid arthritis, she can't go to the grave, and she is not at ease if I go alone. So we burned paper money outdoors, and my mother threw some paper money and said, "Dad! Go! Xiao Yuan (my uncle) needs ... "

When there was only the last pile of paper money left, my mother handed it to me and said, "Xiao Yong, burn it for that unknown person, alas!" Sadly, no one gave him a grave. "... the fire reflected on my face, and I said to myself," Rest in peace! When I am in Tomb-Sweeping Day next year, I will definitely go to the grave for you! " A gust of wind blew away the burnt ashes of paper money. ...

Tomb-Sweeping Day again this year.

Tomb-Sweeping Day is an important traditional folk festival in China, and it is also one of the eight important festivals (Shangyuan, Qingming, Long Summer, Dragon Boat Festival, Central Plains, Mid-Autumn Festival, Winter Solstice and New Year's Eve). Generally speaking, it is on April 5 in the solar calendar, but its festival is very long. There are two kinds of sayings: eight days before the tenth day and ten days after the tenth day, and these 20 days belong to Tomb-Sweeping Day. It is said that the origin of Tomb-Sweeping Day began with the "grave-sweeping" ceremony of ancient emperors and generals. Later, people followed suit, and it became a fixed custom of the Chinese nation to worship ancestors and sweep graves on this day.

Tomb-Sweeping Day originated in the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period. It is one of the traditional festivals of Han nationality in China and one of the 24 solar terms in China. The time is around April 5 of the Gregorian calendar every year. After Tomb-Sweeping Day, the rain increased, and the land showed a scene of spring and tranquility. At this time, everything, whether it is the vegetation in nature or the human body in natural places, has changed the filth in winter, ushered in the breath of spring and realized the transformation from yin to yang.

In ancient times, it was said that the day before Tomb-Sweeping Day was the "Cold Food Festival". According to legend, it began in the Spring and Autumn Period when Jin Wengong mourned the event of "cutting stocks to satisfy hunger", and then gradually the Qingming cold food became one. The date of grave sweeping in the Tang Dynasty was generally on the Cold Food Festival, and it was moved to Qingming after the Song Dynasty. Legend has it that the origin of "Cold Food Festival" is Jiexiu in central Shanxi. The origin of Jiexiu is to commemorate Jietui's "cutting stocks to feed his hunger" and finally died here in Yamakaji, so Mianshan is also called "Jieshan".

According to legend, after Dayu's flood control, people used the language of "Qingming" to celebrate that the flood had been eliminated and the world was at peace. At this time, spring blossoms, everything recovers, and the sky is clear and bright, which is a good season for spring outing. Going for an outing began as early as the Tang Dynasty and has become a habit throughout the ages. In addition to enjoying the beautiful scenery of nature, we also carry out various recreational activities to add interest to life.

A drizzling rain falls like tears on the Mourning Day; The mourner's heart is going to break on his way.

Excuse me, where is the restaurant? The shepherd boy pointed to Xinghua Village.

Everyone knows that this is a Qingming ancient poem written by Du Mu.

Today is Saturday, and my father said early in the morning, "Tomb-Sweeping Day has arrived. It is our custom in China to pay homage to the ancestral graves." I proudly said, "Who doesn't know! As if you knew. " My mother and I sang together, making my father afraid to say a word.

Our family of three came to the ancestral grave. We took out our lighters first, and then set off some small firecrackers. At first, I hid in my parents' arms and didn't even dare to look outside. Dad said, "Don't be afraid, son, there is nothing to be afraid of setting off firecrackers." Mother said, "Yes, don't be afraid to set off firecrackers." I said, "I'm scared, I'm scared!" "I used to be a person who likes to set off firecrackers. Why are you so scared now? All because of a small firecracker. That was when I was six years old. When playing again, I found a small firecracker. I let go, but it exploded so fast that my hand was bleeding with a bang. I cried in pain at that time. My neighbors saw my success and told my parents at once. My parents were frightened and rushed me to the hospital. After we set off firecrackers and lit a few incense sticks, I learned from my parents, bowed first, and then said a word. I can't hear what my parents are saying, but I'm saying, "I'll study hard and go to college in the future, so that I can remember my parents." I know it's useless for me to just talk and not do it. I need to take practical actions. Finally, my father took out some food and wine. He poured the wine into a small teacup and then poured it on the ground in front of the tombstone. On the way home, I said, "aren't you afraid that the weeds next to you will catch fire?" They said, "Of course! But be careful. "

At home, my father took out some "clear fruits" he made for the first time. He said: "I haven't done Qingming fruit, so this Qingming fruit may be much worse than grandma's before." I tasted it and thought it was not delicious, but I ate it anyway, because I believe my father will do better next time!

Today is the first day of Tomb-Sweeping Day, and it's also the day of grave-sweeping. My brother, father and mother went to my grandmother's house in the country together, and we are going to climb the mountain and sweep the dust together.

"It rains in succession during the Qingming Festival." Yes, it rained lightly yesterday, so we have nothing to say, only stepping on the muddy Shan Ye to climb up step by step.

Finally, we arrived at the graves of Taigong, Taipo and Grandpa, and all of us stood in awe. Dad handed me a burnt incense and smoked from time to time. The smell is so strong that I immediately look depressed and sad when I smell it. All of us, with incense in our hands, made a 90-degree bow to the grandfather, grandmother and grandfather under the grave to show our high respect for all of them.

I turned around and picked up the flower basket I had already prepared, and respectfully put it in front of the graves of Taigong, Taipo and Grandpa. The flowers in the basket are white, and several white ribbons are tied to them. Against the backdrop of several green leaves, it is even more solemn.

After we finished worshipping, we began to burn money for Taigong, Taipo and Grandpa Xiao in the underworld. Dad knew that they were good at mahjong, so he burned them more money, with 1 100 million, 200 million,1100 million, and told them, "Don't rob them." It sounds interesting to me. They have so much money that they can't spend it all in a year. What do they need to rob?

Taigong, Taipo and Grandpa left too early, and you left me without honoring your old people. There, you are only accompanied by loneliness and loneliness, aren't you ... no ... no ... and "ruthless" spring, summer, autumn and winter and lush forests. If you are still here, I will respect you.

When we left, we bowed to them again and reluctantly left.

During the Qingming period, people paid homage to their ancestors in various ways, which did contain the connotation of "gratitude". In fact, as a society, a society without "touching" is numb, and a society without "gratitude" is difficult to develop for a long time.

If we want to cultivate people's gratitude, we might as well turn Tomb-Sweeping Day into a "Thanksgiving Day". In this festival, by thanking our ancestors, especially the revolutionary martyrs, we can deeply realize that today's happiness is hard-won, the greatness and significance of life, and consciously assume the responsibilities of family and society. "The drizzle in Tomb-Sweeping Day is sad, the wild flowers in the desert are in full bloom, and the sacrifices are on the shoulders, all for the first grave." This is a folk song with a long history. This ballad vividly sums up the sad mood of people sweeping graves. This tells us that the dead are gone. After all, we can only remember the dead, not bring them back to life. Therefore, we should cherish people, especially relatives, so that the living can live with more dignity and care. So we should turn Tomb-Sweeping Day into a "pro-plot". In this festival, we not only cherish the memory of martyrs and deceased relatives, but also care for relatives and even everyone who is still enjoying the sunshine of life. This is more conducive to caring for relatives and families, honoring parents, and thus promoting family harmony and social harmony.

At the same time, there are a series of activities such as hiking, inserting willows and planting green in Tomb-Sweeping Day's traditional festival customs. This is consistent with the idea of maintaining harmony between man and nature advocated today. Therefore, we should go out of the room, out of the city, into nature, to feel the charm of nature, to appreciate the gift of nature, to return the gift of nature, and to make Tomb-Sweeping Day a "festival of nature".

Every time I go to Tomb-Sweeping Day, there will be a sea of people on the giant mountain, so some swindlers come up with some deceptive tricks, such as gambling on something on a plate. Prop is very simple, draw a big circle on a board, and fix a rotatable pointer in the center of the big circle with a nail. The great circle is divided into 24 equal squares, and the needles in the squares can rotate. The box says 1-24 equal numbers, which are worthless in the odd box, but almost all even numbers are valuable. The gameplay is also very simple. Set the pointer to 1 first, then you dial the pointer again, and the pointer will start to rotate and finally stop in a grid. Then press the number marked on the grid where the pointer is located and dial the pointer again. N- 1 grid, where n is the number marked on the grid. This is just a little math game. In fact, no matter which box you dial, you can only lose money, not make money. Because when the pointer turns to an odd cell, the number of cells dialed is odd-1= even, and odd+even is only equal to odd, so it is impossible to turn to an even cell and nothing valuable can be obtained. If the pointer turns to an even grid and the number of grids dialed is even-1= odd, and odd+even = odd, then you won't get anything of value.

Mourning day, drizzle like tears; Pedestrians on the road want to die. (⊙o⊙) Hmm

Excuse me, where is the restaurant? The shepherd boy pointed to Xinghua Village.

Everyone knows that this is a Qingming ancient poem written by Du Mu.

Today is Saturday, and my father said early in the morning, "Tomb-Sweeping Day has arrived. It is our custom in China to pay homage to the ancestral graves." I proudly said, "Who doesn't know! As if you knew. " My mother and I sang together, making my father afraid to say a word.

Our family of three came to the ancestral grave. We took out our lighters first, and then set off some small firecrackers. At first, I hid in my parents' arms and didn't even dare to look outside. Dad said, "Don't be afraid, son, there is nothing to be afraid of setting off firecrackers." Mother said, "Yes, don't be afraid to set off firecrackers." I said, "I'm scared, I'm scared!" "I used to be a person who likes to set off firecrackers. Why are you so scared now? All because of a small firecracker. That was when I was six years old. I found a small firecracker when I was playing again. I'll show it to my parents and tell them right away. My parents were frightened and rushed me to the hospital to dress the wound. From then on, I didn't dare to play with firecrackers. Sometimes I was afraid to hear firecrackers. After we set off firecrackers and lit a few incense sticks, I learned from my parents, bowed first, and then said a word. I can't hear what my parents are saying, but I'm saying, "I'll study hard and go to college in the future, so that I can remember my parents." I know it's useless for me to just talk and not do it. I need to take practical actions. Finally, my father took out some food and wine. He poured the wine into a small teacup and then poured it on the ground in front of the tombstone. On the way home, I said, "aren't you afraid that the weeds next to you will catch fire?" They said, "Of course! But be careful. "

At home, my father took out some "clear fruits" he made for the first time. He said: "I haven't done Qingming fruit, so this Qingming fruit may be much worse than grandma's before." I tasted it and thought it was not delicious, but I ate it anyway, because I believe my father will do better next time!

Today is Tomb-Sweeping Day, a day to pay homage to the deceased relatives. In the morning, I went to visit the grave with my parents. On the way, I found that the busy streets in the past have become much cleaner. There are few pedestrians on the road, and there are few taxis that can be seen everywhere today. This reminds me of Du Mu's Qingming Festival: "It rains a lot during Qingming Festival, and pedestrians on the road want to die. Excuse me, where is the restaurant? The shepherd boy refers to Xinghua Village. " This year's Tomb-Sweeping Day is also rainy in Mao Mao, which makes people inexplicably sad. When we came to the flower shop, we saw that the usual colorful flower shops were almost replaced by simple Huang Juhua and white chrysanthemums today. We bought a pot of chrysanthemums and then rushed to our destination.

As I approached Wang Longshan, I vaguely heard a string of firecrackers. It turned out that it was set by some grave sweepers, and there were some gray smoke floating in the drizzle, as well as floating objects in the air after the grave sweepers burned sacrifices for their ancestors. After I came to Longwangshan, my father sent flowers to the tombstones of my grandma and grandpa, lit firecrackers during menstruation, and my grandma was also burning sacrifices. After lighting the candles, we all kowtowed. Not far away, I heard some old people telling anecdotes about their childhood and scenes when their parents were alive. A few sighs came from time to time. Grandparents also talked about things when their parents were alive, saying that if the old people were still alive, how happy they could live.

On my way home, I saw many cars parked in other places. My mother told me that these are the cars of people who came back from all directions to worship their ancestors. My mother also told me about her childhood. My mother said: "At that time, my family was not very rich, but my mother could always eat some cheap fruits from your grandparents and get some pocket money." My mother was a very happy child at that time. " Speaking of which, mom is a little sad. Although I have never met my grandparents, I wish them happiness and ease in heaven! Interviewee: TOT | level 1 | 20 10-4-5 20:49.

Tomb-Sweeping Day is an important traditional folk festival in China, and it is also one of the eight important festivals (Shangyuan, Qingming, Long Summer, Dragon Boat Festival, Central Plains, Mid-Autumn Festival, Winter Solstice and New Year's Eve). Generally speaking, it is on April 5 in the solar calendar, but its festival is very long. There are two kinds of sayings: eight days before the tenth day and ten days after the tenth day, and these 20 days belong to Tomb-Sweeping Day. It is said that the origin of Tomb-Sweeping Day began with the "grave-sweeping" ceremony of ancient emperors and generals. Later, people followed suit, and it became a fixed custom of the Chinese nation to worship ancestors and sweep graves on this day. Tomb-Sweeping Day originated in the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period. It is one of the traditional festivals in China and one of the 24 solar terms in China. The time is around April 5 of the Gregorian calendar every year. After Tomb-Sweeping Day, the rain increased, and the land showed a scene of spring and tranquility. At this time, everything, whether it is the vegetation in nature or the human body in natural places, has changed the filth in winter, ushered in the breath of spring and realized the transformation from yin to yang. In ancient times, it was said that the day before Tomb-Sweeping Day was the "Cold Food Festival". According to legend, it began in the Spring and Autumn Period when Jin Wengong mourned the event of "cutting stocks to satisfy hunger", and then gradually the Qingming cold food became one. The date of sweeping graves in the Tang Dynasty is generally on the Cold Food Festival. Legend has it that the origin of "Cold Food Festival" is Jiexiu in central Shanxi. The origin of Jiexiu is to commemorate Jietui's "cutting stocks to feed his hunger" and finally died here in Yamakaji, so Mianshan is also called "Jieshan". According to legend, after Dayu's flood control, people used the language of "Qingming" to celebrate that the flood had been eliminated and the world was at peace. At this time, spring blossoms, everything recovers, and the sky is clear and bright, which is a good season for spring outing. Going for an outing began as early as the Tang Dynasty, which is a habit of all previous dynasties. In addition to enjoying the beautiful lakes, mountains and spring scenery, we also carry out various entertainment activities to add interest to life.

The state has designated Tomb-Sweeping Day as a legal holiday! This found a suitable reason for me to go home to visit my parents. To tell the truth, although it is only about 2 hours' journey home in the same city, I seldom go home to visit my parents. Self-esteem I came out to study in high school and seldom went home. What can I do when I go home? I have to pay the fare. Reading at school is also good. My parents sent me out to study. I still can't enjoy life like others. I had to go home to do farm work during the holiday. At home, because I am an only child, I have no reason not to go home to work. When Ss graduated, I was assigned to a distant frontier and didn't come back to collect rice with my parents, which made me feel extremely guilty. My parents are nearly 60 years old, and they still have to work hard in the fields, which is very hard. It's far away, so I finally decided to stop the experiment and prepare to go home, leaving LP and the baby at my grandmother's house.

Now that the national policy is good, it is catching up with the development of the western region. The infrastructure development in Chongqing is not fast, the road to go home is much easier than before, and the time to go home is greatly shortened. I came home happily, the thick earth wall, the big fruit tree in front of my house, and the warm joy (my dog has an excellent memory and is obedient) have not changed at all. But my mother's white hair has increased a lot, recording the ups and downs of my mother from home to the annual ring. Dad's calluses are still so many, his legs and feet are not as flexible as before, and his back hurts recently. It seems that his father is old. Who else can take care of him but me? I really don't know who will take care of my family when I work in other cities in the future: father, mother, father-in-law, mother-in-law, grandfather and my baby. The pressure of the only child may be so great. My thoughts drift away slowly. ...

After a day at home, my father and I went to the town to have a Qingming party, which was the second party in our family. I didn't have time last year and didn't attend. I finally have time this year. Early in the morning, we went to pay homage to the first leader who left Sichuan. With the passage of time, the words on the tombstone have been damaged. Because I didn't know it before, and few people came to see it, grass slowly grew on the grave, and then many old people were swept by turns. After lunch, a clan meeting was held to discuss the cleaning and maintenance of some tombstones, the change and increase of word generation, the writing and printing of family history, and the financing. The host also explained in detail the origin of Tomb-Sweeping Day and the prehistoric records of this family.

Tomb-Sweeping Day also learned about some successful people of his own race. On the whole, Tomb-Sweeping Day has gained a lot.