Let you learn to be cold-blooded in three days (how to practice cold-blooded children)

When the epidemic broke out in spring, children were too young to go out to play, so they watched other children play downstairs. Later, my daughter was a little shy when she met strangers, and my father couldn't control her. My family cried and hugged me. In June, the weather was fine and the epidemic was under control. I take my children to play in the community every day and know many precious mothers. I am very happy.

But it's a little uncomfortable. I'm almost 40 years old and very white. I can't tell my age. Many people think that I just got married and my youngest daughter is my first child, so they will tell me how to take care of my children. Hahahaha ... as a result, I asked her age, after 90.

I like to give my child barefoot in summer, because she just learned to walk, and barefoot feels more real. Besides, my daughter is very good. If I put socks on her, she will take them off, so I won't put them on her. As a result, I talked about it. After 90, Bao Ma said that your family is a girl, so you should wear thick socks, or you will have dysmenorrhea when you grow up. I didn't defend myself, just said something else. Speaking of eating, I said that my daughter 14 months eats by herself and eats everywhere, but she soon learned. I don't advocate feeding all the time. The food is clean, but the children are not happy. My daughter has been grasping the spoon, and when she is in a hurry, she grabs it with her hands. I gave her a spoon to eat by herself, and now she eats well.

That post-90 s treasure mother told me that your heart is really big. If you don't feed her, how can you eat enough? It's no use regretting when you are hungry and have stomach trouble, but you are too lazy. Another treasure mother talked about taking a bath again. I said, I never have a fixed time or a fixed number of times. Sometimes children are tired. After taking a bath in the evening, she slept well. Go out to play during the day and come home with a sweaty neck. I will give her a bath before she goes to bed. If she doesn't go out, there will be an air-conditioning fan at home to keep her from taking a shower before taking a nap. That post-90 s treasure mother, she said that she must wash her children twice a day. How uncomfortable it is for you to wash your children once. Actually, I find you lazy. You can't be lazy with children. I take care of the children according to the time and frequency every day. My baby can listen to me. Three years old, you see how honest!

Then several treasure moms present were surprised. Although we didn't ask her how old the baby was, we knew at a glance that it was about our age, that is, 16, 17 months. Her baby is sitting in the stroller, not talking, not crying, not laughing, not making trouble, not making trouble. We all praised her for taking good care of her. Let's talk about eating night milk again. Ma Baoxian, born after 90, said that her family is a girl. She gave up breastfeeding for six months and did not eat night milk for eight months. It's no use crying. She slept in separate beds at the age of 65,438+0, and now she sleeps in separate rooms at the age of 3. I am a fashionable children's educator, and I learned it from the parenting master.

I said I would breastfeed my daughter until she was two years old. I won't give up night milk according to the time, but I will say according to the child's eating situation. Eat less at night and mutter at night. As long as I hear it, I will feed her some milk and have a good sleep when I am full. Many times I'm full and I won't complain at night. We both slept until dawn. I'm not in a hurry to separate beds and rooms because it's a girl. It's okay to sleep with my mother for a long time When she was about two years old, she wanted to sleep with me, so I agreed to separate beds and rooms. I will wait until the children go to the kindergarten middle class. The little girl is timid, and I don't force her. I usually teach her to be independent.

Ma Bao, born in 1990s, told me that you are used to children, and you can't send them to other rooms in their temper. As soon as the door is closed, she can cry if she likes, and it will be fine for a few days, and crying will not be bad. Other precious mothers also said that they should not be so rude to their children and agreed with me. I said, are you all taking care of the children alone? They all said no, my mother-in-law took it for a few days and my mother took it for a few days. I said I had to take care of myself, and no one took my place for an hour. I am not lazy, but the sooner I teach my children a lot of things, the easier it will be for me and my children.

Finally, I want to tell you that my eldest daughter is a sophomore, and I brought her up single-handedly, because my mother-in-law doesn't care for a day. My boss is really good at bookkeeping, and his temper is old-fashioned, and his rebellious period is particularly long. The methods mentioned in the book are not suitable for every child. When the eldest daughter was three years old, the kindergarten teacher was very picky about food without feeding or eating. When she grew up, she couldn't take a bath for a month, because when I was a child, no matter how tired or sleepy I was. When sleeping in separate beds and rooms, I don't care if she cries. When she grew up, she had no expression and no feelings. She won't laugh at funny variety shows and sad movie plots. I cried and laughed at my childishness. What does it matter to you that I'm dead? Drawing lessons from the past, the youngest daughter found the best way-only cultivating emotions and not feeding standards. Don't open your mouth. Shut up. Everything you did was right. Everything others do is wrong. I don't want to tell you unless I argue with you. Your method is not correct. Maybe it looks good now, but time will give you the best answer! I am a very careful mother, and I will not shirk my responsibility. Sometimes I really don't understand how the eldest daughter became like this. Looking at the current knowledge of parenting, it is not difficult to understand why I chose to have a second child, big, cold-blooded, rebellious and talk back. The most unacceptable thing my eldest daughter said was, "You gave birth to me, aren't you great?" Do you care about me? ") No way, then I'll build another trumpet! Self-reflection, efforts to change, cultivate an emotional, happy child, physical health, mental health children! Come on, treasure moms after 70.80.90!