Why is the first year after a woman gives birth to a child the most desperate year for a woman?

There is a saying: mothers don't stay up late, they are free!

At work, I have a friend who likes to play. Every day after work, she invites a bunch of friends to play. Sometimes I work overtime until 9 o'clock, and she has already played almost. She came to see me. I remember once, she told me that I really didn't want to sleep, because once I slept, I would go to work the next day and then get up.

Alas, there seems to be a bleak rush.

It's not that bad.

Personally, I think the most difficult thing is the first three months, or two months to be exact.

The first month, confinement, sweating all day, constantly changing clothes every day, because considering that teammates are at work, mothers are prone to insomnia, so the children have been placed in my room, which is also convenient for breastfeeding. As a result, I can't sleep during the day and have to feed my baby several times at night. I felt that time was the most difficult, the whole body and mind, the rainy weather from the inside out, and the rainy mood.

The next month, my brother's baby had something to do, and my mother went home. I started the world of raising children alone. In the second month, children actually cry easily, often crying in the middle of the night. Because of flatulence or various discomforts, he is adapting to the world and adapting to the world in his own way.

Although children are brought up by themselves, I don't think it's too hard. Maybe I have a big heart.

On the other hand, I will also seek solutions for myself, such as:

Liberate yourself with the help of small household appliances.

Usually those small household appliances are very practical and can be used to liberate themselves.

For example, if you feed your child milk powder, the child will be hungry when he wakes up and need to eat it immediately. I bought a thermostatic kettle at that time, and it was very convenient for children to directly brew milk powder when they woke up.

I bought the kind of teapot that cooks porridge for children, or the soup specially made for children. I suggest buying a teapot directly, which can be used by adults and children. You can make an appointment at night and have delicious porridge or soup in the morning. You don't have to watch the fire at ordinary times, but you can also time it. Very convenient.

Take advantage of various applications to release time.

Now the major apps are also very convenient. Want to buy food, daily necessities, take-away, place orders at any time, and arrive in time. Ma Bao doesn't have to go out to buy food often, which is much more convenient than when I gave birth to my son.

This saves a lot of time. Ma Bao can play with her children at home. After a while, the courier will send all the vegetables and rice noodles home.

With the help of the website, the problem of parenting has been liberated.

My mother used to worry that I couldn't take care of the children, because I was a big-hearted person since I was a child, and I was a person who rarely considered all kinds of things. The main thing is that there is a girl on it. She is too strong to care about anything, so I am happy not to think about anything.

Ps: Take the opportunity to speak ill of my sister, who let her always take care of me when she was a child:)

However, after having a baby, I began to seriously study the matter of taking care of the baby. Because I didn't want my children to suffer from those drugs, I learned a lot of Chinese medicine and even read Huangdi Neijing. At one time, my home was full of books on meridians and the like.

The advantage is that I can cope with all kinds of problems when my children grow up, except for some uncertainty about whether to go to the hospital, which can basically be solved at home. Later, my mother called my sister admiringly and said, I didn't expect your sister to take care of the children.

Now that the website is also convenient, treasure moms can fully absorb the common sense of parenting and know themselves.

If you can't, you can also find more parenting books and read more books, so you won't panic when you encounter problems.