If you can't be your own master, you will become someone else's prop.

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If you can't be your own master, you will become someone else's prop.

Text/Zhou Minghua

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After reading this sentence, some people may accuse Minghua of being forced. But for more people to find themselves, I decided to talk about this challenging keyword. Master.

There is a fateful and sad fact. In this world, no one will accompany you through this life, including your parents who raised you. Therefore, only by keeping yourself wholeheartedly can you keep the world, your heart, and this fresh life that comes to you by chance. Since loss is inevitable and gain is a once-in-a-lifetime accident, it naturally determines that you must keep your heart in this life journey? Master consciousness? On the petals of your soft and warm heart wall, silently and truly carve the lines that belong to you? The afterlife? Personality words.

Is there an external force to activate it, this row? Words? Can only belong to you. Creating your universe by accident knows that the geese flying alone on the horizon you meet by accident know:

As long as you can keep it, no one can win!

Mr. Lin Yutang once said that you should have the courage to be yourself and stand by yourself, and don't want to be others. ? Gillerup also said,? I am my own master? . It can be seen that being your own master, although very casual, is easier said than done. Otherwise, there won't be so many masters who earnestly advise everyone to be their own masters again and again.

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Being your own master is mainly to overcome the anxiety and depression in life and dispel the fear and sadness that will eventually disappear; Be your own master, so as not to act as props for others carelessly. To do this, we need to understand that abusive or unfriendly eyes of others are not actually to be washed away? Master consciousness? The key to a deadly weapon is to see how you recognize and face it.

Sonia, a famous American actress, spent her childhood in a dairy farm outside Ottawa. She studies in a primary school near the farm. One day she came home with tears on her face, and her father asked her why. She wiped her nose and said, my classmates said I was ugly and my running posture was ugly. Saying that I came into this world is purely a misjudgment of God? .

After being laughed at by her classmates, Sonia immediately turned around and looked at her back. With her back following her bones? Squeak? It rang several times. Suddenly, her ears suddenly realized the sound, and she felt a sense of boredom. So she began to trust her classmates? To be fair, my own does look a little offensive to the audience.

She went home crying sadly.

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Father didn't speak after listening, just smiled gently. Suddenly my dad said:? I can stand without jumping. I can touch the ceiling of our house. ? Oh, her father is not as tall as Yao Minggao, only 1.70 meters.

? Is it okay? Are you kidding? . Sonia was shocked and didn't know what her father wanted to express. She stopped crying, looked at her father with puzzled eyes and asked. what did you say ? /Excuse me? Dad, do you think you brag and don't draft? Don't you have to pay taxes?

? It's true that I can touch the ceiling of our house. ?

Sonia looked up at the ceiling. Father can touch the ceiling nearly 4 meters high. She doesn't believe it. The father smiled, and the beard at the corner of his mouth became warped, and then he proudly said, does the daughter believe it? Then don't believe your classmates' nonsense, because some people are not telling the truth, they are just teasing you, and the ultimate goal is to blow your self-confidence and make you lose yourself. ?

As a result, Sonia's brain was wide open, and he finally understood that this simple metaphor of dad actually contained profound philosophy. Anything, don't care too much about what others say, and do it according to your own ideas. What others say is like a gust of wind blowing. It's over. What should I do?

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Because that meaty mouth grows on others' chins and under others' nostrils, it is the normal operation of others' physiological functions and their power, and no one can stop it. Besides, what do people say about you? Not the master? Most of the sarcasm and sarcasm is malicious. The purpose is to dampen your initiative, hurt your happiness, and let you sink into it and stop rising.

Sure, keep the layer in your heart? Master consciousness? After a thorough blow, the winner is tongue movement? Toxic flowers? The real one. Because the road you gave up happened to be caught by it, needless to say? Thank you? .

Sonia was already famous when she was twenty-four or five. Once, she was going to a party, but her agent told her that because of the bad weather, only a few people attended the party, and the atmosphere at the meeting was a little cold. What the agent means is that Sonia, as a newcomer, should spend her time on some large-scale activities to increase her popularity.

Sonia's sense of ownership at this time has actually been forged. She judged for herself and insisted on attending the rally because she promised to attend in the newspaper. As a result, the party in the rain, because of Sonia's participation, gradually, more and more people in the square, her fame and popularity soared.

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Friends who are wandering on the road of life growth, please remember that you belong to yourself, no one can replace you, don't care too much about what others say, you have to make up your mind! Be your own master! This is the only choice to avoid being a prop for others.

Destiny is in your own hands, and operation depends on individuals. The greatest learning in life is how to master your own destiny and be your own master. Only those who can control their own destiny, that is, independent people, can be called their own masters. Building a brain space for independent thinking and creating a mental space for self-improvement cannot be separated from the continuous accumulation of knowledge and the long-term superposition of experience.

Hard work pays off. When you realize it, you keep working hard. In the end, your life will inevitably radiate its own unique brilliance, which will make people look askance and admire.