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How do introverts chat with others?

Appropriate listening and response is enough. This kind of person is very popular.

In fact, it is not difficult to chat, as long as you follow the meaning of others. Others share his happiness with you, just follow him and feel his happiness. Chatting with others is telling his pain. Just stay with him and show your understanding of his pain.

Actually, chatting doesn't need to find a topic out of thin air. An introverted person just needs to wait, wait for the other person to open the topic, and then follow his train of thought.

For example, the other party said that the weather is really good today. Just answer: Yes, it's really comfortable for the sun to shine on you.

If the other person says: It's too hot today. Just answer: Yes, I'm a little sweaty.

If the other person is telling a story, it will be easy. We just need to open our eyes, look at his nose, show interest in what he says, and then wait for him to continue. If he stops talking, we should say at the right time: then what? What happened afterwards? So he will continue to talk.

After a chat, the other person has a chance to fully express himself, and he also feels your concern and interest in him. Besides, he thinks you two agree, so he will like you very much and think you two can talk very well.

In fact, you didn't say anything, just said yes, yes, and then what?

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