How bad can a bad mother be?

A mother is just a mother. I haven't called my mother for a long time. My mother left me 13 years ago, and she still hasn't got over the pain. Every time I see my colleague's mother come to see her, I look at her straight. How I envy her! If only my mother were still here! No matter how bad she is, I can forgive and respect her. Bad mother is bad. How bad can she be? For example, a stepmother may do something out of line and break the law for a child who is not her own. There are a lot of TV news and such reports, which make us hate it after watching them. But she is really good to children. Most mothers show great concern and love for their children. I am also a mother and have done bad things, but I have never been a bad person and never touched the bottom line. I think every mother has done terrible things. But most of it is because of love. Because tiger poison doesn't eat children! How bad can it be? Bad depends on the cause of things to some extent. I don't know if it's right or wrong. Everyone looks at things from different angles ... I really don't want to blaspheme the word mother.

Seeing this question reminds me of two mothers I know. One is that a mother told her child to shut up because she wouldn't let her child talk. The child can't talk at school, and she can't keep up with the class. She was discovered and questioned again and again. The child said she had shut up! The other is that mothers in the mountains let their children go up the mountain to cut firewood every day, and they don't have enough to eat when they go home. Sometimes giving children moldy rice and lettuce has been poisoned several times. There is no mattress on the bed where they sleep, and all the bedding is straw. I think what these two mothers have done should be even worse!

What a sacred word mother is. For me, I have great respect for my mother. When I was a child, our family was poor because my father failed in business and ran away. My mother has to work to earn money to support my brother and me. At that time, I hated her very much and always had no time to accompany me. Said I wasn't good at this, that, and I didn't understand her very well. When I grow up, I gradually feel that my mother is working hard for this family. So later, I respected her very much and always wanted her to live a little easier.

If a mother is bad, please try to think from her point of view, and you will find that the mother is a person that our children can respect. Poor inheritance, let the parents of the world live!

A bad mother can be so bad as to be inhuman, shameless, morally corrupt and despicable.

10 years ago, a friend who worked in the court system told me that he had experienced such an annoying so-called mother when handling cases in real life. Pre-marital style is decadent, there is no moral bottom line, and many people don't have proper relationship. In order to make her brother a soldier, she actually had a relationship with the notorious local martial artist who was in charge of conscription.

After marriage, she still kept her bad habits, and all the men she could contact in her life became her prey. Regardless of age, beauty and ugliness, they all eat. She also gives financial support to these men, using her husband's money to buy clothes for her wife, pay tuition for her children and charge her mobile phone.

Moreover, I don't care about things at home, I don't buy clothes for my children, I don't cook, and I don't ask my children about their growth. She doesn't do any housework at home, washing clothes, cooking and doing farm work in the fields. Her father is the only one who undertakes it. For decades, she didn't even wash her bowl or even her underwear, which was arranged by her father. She even shamelessly said in court; "The child's father deprived her of the right to buy sanitary napkins, clothes and cook, and deprived her of the right to be a woman."

She calls these men every day, sometimes fifty or sixty times a day; The longest call I have ever had was more than 50 minutes, and the shortest was one or two minutes. The call list in January was six meters long, all with these men.

She doesn't care about her children's college entrance examination, nor does she ask them to go to college. She is obsessed with finding a lover and is not picky. Affectionate to his lover, often abusing his husband and children, but also turning black and white, fabricating right and wrong, slandering the father of the child, fanning the flames, creating contradictions between father and son, making the family restless and cursing the child or husband for no reason.

Seeing this problem, I think of an example around me. In fact, she is not bad. She belongs to our village, but she didn't play the role of mother.

Let me start by saying what I think is bad about her as a mother:

1. I don't like being clean and tidy. I don't tidy my house. Throw things casually. When there were no new houses, old houses were thrown everywhere. With the new house, there is still dust everywhere and the dining table is sticky.

2. I love to play so much that I don't know how to allocate it when I'm not working. If someone asks her to play cards, she doesn't wash the dishes. She can just run over and soak the bowl in the washbasin. We usually wash clothes and dishes in separate pots, but not in her house. It's all a mess.

There is no sense of responsibility as a mother. For the sake of her daughter's studies, her son's studies have been neglected. I'm just saying, if you don't understand, stop reading and go out to work. So none of her three children went to junior high school. Seemingly reluctant, it actually belongs to you, and you are too lazy to care.

4. It's not good for her husband. When she was young, she cursed early in the morning.

5. The relationship between men and women is chaotic. When her husband was alive, he also had sex with his elders in the same village who were eight years older than her.

6. I am not good to my children and have no plans for their future. Although I work hard to make money every day, I say I want to get a daughter-in-law for my son. My son got three daughters-in-law, and she gave out more than 6W in cash for three times, which is 18W. All this money was wasted and the daughters-in-law ran away.

7. If you have no opinion, you can't make your own decisions about some important things. You should consult your parents.

That's what I think of her. As a mother, she is not qualified for this role. It can be said that the reason why their family was so bad was that her daughter's husband beat her son, and all kinds of wonderful things happened at home, all of which were related to her failure to be a good mother.

But if she leaves her role as a mother, her heart is not bad. In a word, people are very complicated animals and cannot be cut across the board. When you have more life experience, you will understand and tolerate many things better. I wouldn't be so cynical.

If the word terrible is used to describe a mother, I don't think she wants it either! It is said that fathers love mountains and maternal love is rampant! This is the love that mothers give their children. No adjectives! I will even give my life!

However, if a mother loses the value of being a mother, then from the most basic point of view, she will not take care of her children and will not ask about their life, studies and health. She can only be a selfish woman! Thinking about how to play every day, I only have my own eyes, regardless of my husband and family. What's more, beat and scold your children and husband! Tell parents what to do, and tell them what to do. At this point, people can't be called people. How bad do you think she is!

This is not the worst. I witnessed a touching story with my own eyes, which happened right beside me. The Spring Festival is coming soon. In the cold weather, my dog gave birth to six puppies the night before the Spring Festival! As we all know, dogs that have just given birth to puppies! You can't touch them because their mother is afraid that you will hurt them! In this way, I watched it silently for a few days until one day, because of the cold weather, two puppies were frozen stiff. How do I know? Because I heard its mother's whine. I went to have a look. It turned out that the two puppies died, but when I looked into the mother's eyes again, I saw tears!

Dogs still have feelings for their children, not to mention people! If a mother doesn't even care about her children, then you are really worse than a dog!

But then again, there are really few such mothers in the world! For those who have such a mother, they must be self-reliant! Face life optimistically, because tomorrow will be sunny! Your life is wonderful! !

Tiger poison doesn't eat children. Bad mother will play the farmer and the snake. There are many colleagues, friends and mothers around. what can I say? Motherhood is the only occupation in the world that does not require a work permit. Colleagues knew it was the worst, and they left their children the next month. Looking for children at the age of fourteen, because children can earn money, ask more children for money. A lot, such things around you. No matter how the mother treats the child, the child still hopes for poor maternal love. what can I say? Poor parents all over the world. I think, no matter how bad the mother is, the child will call her mother. Today is Valentine's Day. I wonder how many little lives will come today. I believe that every life is doomed to its trajectory. Even if it's different, be happy with it. A bad mother is a mother after all. what can I do? I hate that I can't solve any problems, and quarreling is even paler. As children, it is enough for us to learn to be filial. Moral or legal filial piety. As a mother, he is bad enough. Since you know that she is bad, it proves that you know that her bad is not good. As a child, what you need to do is not to repeat the track of bad mother. Cherish the present life. Especially in the current epidemic situation. Family is the most worthy of consideration. How many epidemics are friends and family dinners? This is a little beside the point. Let's go back to this topic. What I want to say is that no matter how bad the mother is, as long as she is alive, you have a mother. If there is no mother, there will be no mother in this world. She is not good to you, you should be good to her. A small stroke knocks down a big oak tree. Don't do it because of the small evil, and don't do it because of the small good. You will have descendants, too. Your mother is just your past. People should live and look forward. Be grateful to the world and everyone around you. I believe that good is rewarded with good, and evil with evil. Don't let your tragedy happen to you and future generations. Although there are all kinds of ghosts and gods in this society. However, love and kindness are the best things in the world. Your virtue is good for yourself and your children.

Jiao Jiao women whose fingers don't touch spring water can be upgraded to chefs who are proficient in buying vegetables and cooking Chinese and western cuisines; A weak and docile little jasper can turn into a tireless baby-care madman who cries when he disagrees with a word. The child is ill, and he will take care of him 24 hours a day. I just hope that ta will recover soon. Almost all mothers have watched the night sky once every hour with their children in their arms, and what to do the next day ... This is love and responsibility, which drives a mother to love her children with all her strength. The process of raising children is the process of keeping the mind soft. After the vicissitudes of the world, I still have a soft heart and kindness. When mothers are discussing how to have children, how to give their children a better education, and how to do a good job in sex education to prevent satyr from attacking our baby daughter, they never thought that a biological mother could be so heartless! According to Kan Kan News Network, Feng Ya, a little girl under 3 years old, recently passed away in Zhoukou, Henan. She suffers from medulloblastoma, a malignant tumor with high cure rate in cancer. Her biological mother, Yang Meiqin, did not use the money for her daughter's disease treatment after receiving hundreds of thousands of loving donations through live broadcast and crowdfunding. Instead, she took her rabbit-lipped son to Beijing to see a doctor. Why can a mother be so heartless! Retinoblastoma is one of the cancers with the highest cure rate. 95-98% of sick children can recover, and more than 90% of patients can survive to adulthood. In fact, from 2065438 to September 2007, Xiaofengya was diagnosed with a tumor, and her mother quickly launched crowdfunding on multiple platforms, calling on netizens to donate money for her daughter. In one of the fundraising videos, poor Feng Ya struggled to turn to her mother's camera and shouted "Help me", which made people cry. I have seen too much news, and my three views have been refreshed. More than ten years ago, I was shocked when I first saw the case of my biological father raping a young girl. I didn't know that parents in the world could be so scum. However, it never occurred to me that a mother can be so heartless that she can take life-saving money donated by others to treat her daughter and her son who is not dying. Respect the old and love the young. The kindness of others is mercilessly ridiculed by their biological parents, while the pattern of the old mother is too low and the three views are too high, so that she is tongue-tied. While others are helping your daughter wholeheartedly, you are thinking about how to cheat her out of their pockets 100. When a non-profit organization sent her daughter to the hospital, she went to make trouble with her relatives. What a shame and scum! That's your daughter lying in bed, suffering and dying, the meat you gave birth to in October! You love your son, but don't hinder others from helping your daughter. It doesn't cost you a penny, and you don't contribute. Why? According to the writer Chen Lan's expression in his micro-female boxing culture, this family, Feng Ya's mother Yang Mouqin gave birth to five children, four daughters, and the last one was a son with cleft lip and palate. Feng Ya's father has mental problems and can't take care of himself. Feng Ya's father has a 18-year-old brother who is waiting to get married. This mother, including her daughter, may be miserable all her life. Her husband is mentally ill and has given birth to five children in a row. The fifth is her son. A social worker who had dealt with Yang Meiping said, "There is almost no hope. Her mother is more cunning than all of us combined. No one can handle this family. " But why can a mother be so heartless! Since you don't love her, why did you give birth to her? You can have an abortion. Abortion is legal in China! There is no such thing as insurance fraud. You will have your son, and little Feng Ya can be reincarnated into a better family, where she can recover and have her own life. Ji Bolun has a deep thought: Your children are not your children, but children born of life's desire for themselves ... because their souls belong to tomorrow, which you never dreamed of. I am so naive. It turns out that there are mothers like you in the world. However, after a world trip and seeing scum, I hope to be a better self and achieve better children. A real hero understands the cruelty of the world and bears the suffering brought to him by society. He can also say from the heart, "I love this world, and I am willing to fight for my world as much as I can." Never speculate on this society. Maybe the world looks like shit at first glance, but as long as you still believe in your heart, life always shines in the shadow. What parents should do more is to paint the background of life for their children, and a sense of security is a very important part. Colorful futures are waiting for them to open themselves. * * * Whatever you want.

In fact, a good mother and bad mother are both one person.

The acquired factors of a mother's quality, that is, the mother's growth process, education level and family environment, play a vital role.

A good mother can bring positive love to her children. She can make the family harmonious and happy and the children grow up healthily. However, in remote mountainous rural areas, many mothers have no education or a low level of education. It is their simple, honest and kind actions that drive and educate children to form a positive, healthy and progressive outlook on life, world outlook and values. On the contrary, some mothers are selfish, slow and confused in thought and behavior, and their personal behavior, family life, family members, dealing with people, educating children, social behavior, patriotism and love of teaching can be said to be a mess, and the consequences are unimaginable.

We can often see some women with mental disorders in society. Are they good mothers in front of their families and children? Are some rude, provocative, unruly, unreasonable, rogue, violent and abnormal women good mothers?

Therefore, meeting a good mother is better than having any wealth. A good mother is the best first teacher for children. With a good mother, a child's life will have a good starting point. I hope those mothers with simple thoughts and single methods will become good mothers in front of their children!

1. Every time I watch a court play, I feel that the role of mother is very sad. First of all, children are tools of competition. In order to get a place in the harem, once her child is born, it will become a tool for power struggle, whether it is a boy or a girl. In Empresses in the Palace, Empress, Qi Fei, An Lingrong, etc. Only when I saw Zhen Xuan seeking peace in the Oboro Moon, I would rather entrust my child to Fei Jing; Only when the son is safe all his life and willing to let the child be a prince can he feel the feelings that a mother should have.

Secondly, it is the most terrible thing to sacrifice the child's life for personal benefit. Wu Zetian even strangled her daughter in order to bring down the queen. Later, in order to stay in a high position, she also removed the ideas of her sons one by one, which made people feel very pale.

In modern times, many people still have children with the concept of raising children to prevent old age, and then control their children's lives according to their own will, which actually blasphemes the sacredness of maternal love. Personally, I think that raising children is to fulfill the responsibilities entrusted to us by society and promote social progress in the inheritance from generation to generation, rather than the traditional worship of foreign things and flattery of foreign countries.