Children, don’t refuse your parents to send you to college! This is the last time I treat you like a baby

My child, I went to the street with you when I was a kid

I always urged you to walk quickly

This time I’m sending you to college

What’s the matter? It’s over so soon

Let mom and dad help you carry your luggage again

The road ahead

We can’t be by your side at all times

< p> You have to learn to walk alone...

The freshmen of the class of 2021 are starting to start school one after another!

When it comes to college registration, parents often have more mixed emotions than their children.

Parents put aside their family affairs and take leave early to see the city where their children will live for four years...

Sending their children to school is not traveling to relax, nor is it real Worrying about not being able to carry the child's luggage is a ritual that is very important to parents.

For children, going to college is the beginning of an era.

But for parents, this is the end of an era.

College is a watershed.

When a child leaves his hometown and enters college, his parents gradually become a kind of eternal watcher.

From now on, there is no spring and autumn in my hometown, only winter and summer...

The mother is worried when her son travels thousands of miles.

When parents send their children to college, it is not only a kind of companionship and witness, but also a family trip. There is nothing wrong with visiting the place where their children go to school.

A lot of love in this world aims to stay together forever and never be separated.

There is only one kind of love, the farewell comes from constant watching and the fulfillment comes from mutual separation, and that is the love of parents for their children.

@ Ziyun Feiying:

When I was in college, my father went to see me off.

He felt it was inconvenient to stay in the girls' dormitory for a long time, so he only sent me to the door and took a look at the bed I chose.

I sent him to the stairs, but he refused to let me go downstairs. When we turned around, we could see each other's tears.

Later I heard from my mother that he burst into tears after coming home. This was my dull, unsmiling father.

@Bonjour88

It was only after I went to college that I discovered that I had worked so hard to take the college entrance examination, but I was getting further and further away from home.

@大白

There are always two weather forecasts on the phone: one for the location of the university and one for the location of my hometown.

@不了this life

In September, my mother, who had a junior high school education, insisted on sending me to the station.

The 26-inch box should be too heavy for me, but I think it is also very heavy for my mother.

I didn’t want her to help me carry the weight, so I stubbornly carried the box by myself.

When taking the bus, I struggled to pull and drag the box onto the bus. After going back and forth for the last bus, I broke the handle of the suitcase.

The already heavy box suddenly became more troublesome.

My mother scolded me: "I told you not to lift it. If you can't lift it, lift it for me. You don't listen. Now it's okay..."

In fact, I just don't want to Let my mother carry such a heavy box.

After struggling for a long time, we finally arrived at the train station. After a series of twists and turns and a messy security check, my mother and I walked into the lobby and headed to the waiting room together.

But I couldn’t get into the waiting hall without a ticket. My mother said that you should go in by yourself.

I’m still thinking, it’s nothing, I’m not that reluctant to part with it.

But the moment my feet crossed the threshold of the waiting room, my nose suddenly became sore involuntarily, and tears suddenly filled my eyes.

Looking back, my mother also had tears in her eyes just like me...

@大头txinrui121121

I am looking forward to my children growing up, but I am also afraid that my children will grow up. !

We hope that our children will spread their wings and fly high, and we don’t want to put any restrictions on them, but we are afraid that our children will be too far away from us when they grow up!

I’m really afraid that that kind of hopeless longing will torture each other...

Children have heavy studies and can only complain to their parents when they are in a bad mood. Maybe they want to listen to it in the future. It is a luxury for children to complain...

Think about it, the children will only stay with us for a few years.

People often accuse Chinese students of being squeamish and doting by their parents. Little do they know that foreign parents spend a lot of money to send their children to college. Perhaps no matter where they are in the world, the parents' hearts are always the same.

Take a look at the scene below:

Parents are the same all over the world. Even in the United States, where cultural differences are huge, it is normal to send your children to college.

Therefore, San Diego State University suggested this:

A rough translation is as follows:

Parents sending their children to college does not mean that the children cannot be independent, but that the parents and Children enjoy the joy of entering college, which is a way to express love.

Sending a child to college is a ritual, a ceremony to witness the child's growth.

For parents, this is a kind of sharing, a kind of reassurance, a kind of steadiness, and a kind of companionship.

In particular, many parents have not gone to college, because their children finally have the opportunity to enter a college campus.

Step on this land, look at the sky, stroll around this city, look at this campus, meet teachers and roommates...

They are happy in school Taking photos and group photos at the door, curiously visiting every corner of the school, and greeting other students and parents enthusiastically...

I believe many students will always remember this day and the backs of their parents helping them carry their luggage...

Children, no matter how close the school is to home, never refuse or give up the opportunity for your parents to send you to college.

Parents want to send their children away at this time, and your "entrustment" to refuse will make them sad.

Don’t let your parents think of you every time after we say goodbye, they can only imagine your face in childhood, elementary school, junior high school, and high school, except your smiling face on the college campus.

Let your parents send it to you.

Only by giving it to you can they convince themselves to feel at ease. When they call again, they can capture more satisfaction from the minute-to-minute call.