What experience made you feel like you were the unluckiest person in the world?

When I was about to give birth, I heard my father-in-law say: Why don’t you have a caesarean section if you are in good health? At that time, I felt that I was the unluckiest person in the world.

Sometimes, I feel that my posture has been very low, and I am basically being backward. However, when one party is getting more and more excessive, I feel that I am really being backward. It took eighteen generations of bad luck to find a family like that. I believe that as a pregnant woman, you and your doctor have the right to decide how you want to give birth, and no one else can interfere. But there are some people who don’t understand clearly and will act like experts by pointing fingers at you when you give birth.

In other words, even if I get well, what does it matter to them? Is it their credit for my good health? During my more than 20 years, I have been in good health. My parents took care of me for more than ten years. I had food in school for a few years. I worked in a factory for more than a year. I rented a house to support myself for a few years. I stayed with my husband and lived and ate together for a year or two. , I cooked the food and bought the vegetables. During the period when I was about to give birth, I ate at that home for more than two months, and there were still people who bought the vegetables, haha? Does my good health have anything to do with this family? Do you want me to have a cesarean section because I am in good health? Crazy! !

As soon as this sentence came out, I felt that I had to get to know that family again. Later, someone advised me that so-and-so said the wrong thing and apologized to me on that so-and-so’s behalf. Haha... He has the nerve to say this, but he can't help but apologize? Where can I stay cool? Don’t ever think about seeing my child again in this life! Even if his son is the biological father of my child!

This matter is indeed the most unlucky, but it is not the kind that can overwhelm me. Anyway, I can support myself and my children. What about my family? If my man wants to go back, he won't stop me, but don't think about me going back, and don't think about taking my child back, it's that simple.