How is a new generation of chickens made?

I was brought up with a family education of "keeping a low profile in life and doing things in a low profile". Unfortunately, I am an Aries who laughs and laughs every day, so I have been carefully taught N times since I was a child.

I remember one parent-teacher meeting, and the teacher praised me for my good grades. Later, after the parent-teacher conference, some parents saw me and conveyed that "the teacher praised you."

I am very happy. I shouted "Yes" in the school corridor, but it was this "Yes", which my mother took as a starting point and then started a vivid ideological education class.

My mother will think that this "yes" is a sign of overconfidence, which is about equal to arrogance, and then ask me, "You got a good grade this time, but can you guarantee that it will be the same next time?" What about next time? "A word choked me speechless. ...

The follow-up is the next exam. I really didn't do well in the exam. I'm very nervous. Every time I finish writing a word, I wonder what to do if my grades are not as good as last time. What if the teacher doesn't praise me at the parent-teacher meeting? At the same time, I regret shouting "Yeah" in the corridor.

Taking this as a lesson, I became a very unpleasant student after a long time. When others praise me for doing well in the exam, I will say a fixed sentence pattern: no, no, I just happened to review it and was blinded by many questions. ...

Maybe many children have experienced similar family education. This family with birth value will permeate in many aspects, which leads us to subconsciously know that self-confidence is good, but many times we will take the initiative to avoid this self-confidence because we are afraid of being hit in the face, so we praise it-focus on doing big things, leave ourselves a way out, and have nothing to do.

Xiao Gu, a talented girl in the recent fire, happens to be the opposite of our generation of children. If many girls are afraid of marriage and education because of chain mothers, Gu's free and easy spirit has brought them back to their hearts as old mothers.

In my impression, athletes are very smart and convergent, just like Quan Hongchan, who came from a bitter family and then made a splash with tenacity.

However, the appearance of Xiao Gu makes people shine at the moment, and I feel that being an athlete can still do this.

Not only did I work as a flying monkey, but I also became an Olympic champion and the top scholar in the college entrance examination. Is it amazing to die? If you can have such a baby at home, you can wake up laughing when you dream under the bridge.

Ok, let's see how to give birth to a baby like Xiao Gu.

Xiao Gu was born in San Francisco, USA. She is a mixed-race Chinese-American. Her parents separated when she was very young. She grew up with her grandmother and mother, called grandma, and took her mother's surname.

Grandparents both graduated from Peking University. When grandpa died, in the words of G Media, he was "the most praised chief electrical engineer of the Ministry of Housing and Urban-Rural Development".

In that era when all the streets were illiterate, those who could enter the first institution of higher learning were either rich or expensive, and they were also nobles with high IQ.

Gu Ma graduated from the Department of Chemistry in Peking University and went to study in the United States in the 1980s. She studied biochemistry and molecular biology at Auburn University, and then studied molecular genetics at Rockefeller University.

After working on Wall Street for a while after graduation, she went to stanford graduate school of business, California to study for an MBA.

It was there that she met her later husband, Xiao Gu's father, an American white man who graduated from Harvard University, and Xiao Gu's grandfather also graduated from Stanford.

According to the domestic concept, Ms. Gu belongs to the family of late marriage, and was nearly 40 years old when she gave birth to Xiao Gu.

When I was just pregnant with my baby, my sister Gu Ling went to visit her. One day, she died in a car accident driving her sister's BMW convertible. 10 months later, Gu was born. In memory of her aunt, her mother named her Irene.

Zhang Ailing and Song Ailing are also English names. All three of them are talented girls with good family backgrounds.

After saving the first bucket of gold on Wall Street, Gu's mother has been making venture capital in China. She is certified as a "private investor and investment expert" and owns her own investment company.

My daughter also grew up in a wealthy area of San Francisco. Her grandparents and grandchildren have lived in a big house in Haiya community for three generations. Looking out from the bedroom, you can see the famous landscape of San Francisco-Golden Gate Bridge.

When Xiao Gu was three months old, Gu Ma drove her to the ski resort for four hours every week, but not for chickens, but because she liked it.

When she was still in Peking University, she was a member of the short track speed skating team. When she came to the United States, she skied for the first time in new york and suddenly found her feeling again. To this end, she specially took the ski instructor.

After moving to California, because of her love, she also went to the North Star Resort Ski Resort in Lake Tahoe, California as a part-time coach.

Take the baby with you every time you go. She skates by herself. The baby plays with grandma until mom gets off work. The mother didn't deliberately teach her, but the child was impressed and could walk and ski.

So that she can't remember when she learned to ski, except that when she has memory, she can go straight to the snowy road.

Xiao Gu watched her mother having a good time at the ski resort and was infected unconsciously. When she was less than 3 years old, she stepped on the smallest snowboard and rolled around like a meatball.

Once, because I was too small, I slipped halfway and fell asleep in the snow. The snow is even higher than her, and my mother dug for a long time before she dug it.

Many years later, Gu Ma said, "I like playing since I was a child. If I had loved golf, my daughter might have loved golf, too. "

"My daughter doesn't have to go to Stanford as long as she likes it. The most important thing is not to give up her lifelong study. "

I understand that you think that the cultivation of talented girls is the condensation of hard work, but I didn't expect others to follow suit. Gu Ma doesn't have a baby chicken, she doesn't sacrifice herself like a nanny, and everything revolves around her children.

At first, she married herself. She studies chemistry in college, and her hobby is skiing. She stayed half of her study abroad, swished into the financial track, studied at Stanford as an investment elite, and then made money while skiing.

By example, my daughter fell in love with skiing when she grew up and wanted to go to her mother's alma mater.

The best investment is her own, but Gu Ma has not relaxed her education for her children. In the cultivation of Xiao Gu's hobbies, she did not force her children to be like others, but encouraged them to try more and find what they like and enjoy it.

Why? Because according to her growing experience, this thing can only persist if she really loves and is interested.

It makes sense to think about it privately. You see there is no shortage of talented players in sports, but if your career is long, you must love it from the bottom of your heart.

For example, many table tennis veterans are old, others are grandfathers, and he is still playing, even if he can't make it to the final, that's it.

On the contrary, it is terrible. For example, another little genius, Xiaojin, lost his enthusiasm for flower skating because of years of hard training and injuries after winning the championship.

Training is all mechanical. She said that she never wanted to skate again. She has been skating for several years and can't even ride a bike. It's too bitter.

With her mother's talent and the genes of top students, as well as the physical quality inherited by her white father, Xiao Gu learned faster than other children. She skates with her five-year-old child. At the age of eight, the school could no longer accommodate her. She advised her mother to send her children to a professional ski team.

Before that, her coach had been her mother. One day, her mother asked her, "Do you want to go to the ski resort to discuss with others?"

Then I asked her: "To become a professional athlete on the field, you need to pay more sweat, and at the same time you can't delay your studies." If you can do it, mom will accompany you. "

She nodded and became the only girl in the professional ski team in Lake Tahoe. Later, my mother bought an apartment near the snowfield.

Gu Ma has always said that she is a rabbit mother, but in the eyes of Americans, she is a tiger mother, because few Americans spend so much effort on their children.

I used to drive back and forth for 8 hours a week to go to training, not to mention buying a house is an investment. Xiao Gu studied in a private school since childhood, and the tuition fee alone was more than 40,000 US dollars a year, totaling more than 300,000 RMB 18 years.

Plus dance, piano, vocal music and so on, archery, rock climbing and cross-country running have not been delayed. Everything is expensive.

For skiing, it costs at least 150 dollars to hire a professional coach for a class, and tens of thousands of dollars for a snow season. This is not counting the accommodation and travel expenses of flight competitions around the world. It is roughly estimated that she has at least 20 million soft sisters to support the child.

But you are wrong to say that children in China don't spend that much money. Rich and poor are the treasures of the family.

Some interest expenses have accumulated enough to buy a good BMW, but duang didn't see what talent the child had, which was equivalent to wasting water. From this point of view, Xiao Guma is an expert in investment and the rate of return is amazing.

It can be seen that throwing money is a cloud, and it depends mainly on the children.

For example, when learning the piano, the average child will definitely not use it to exercise, but when playing the piano, she will associate it with skiing.

Before doing an action, I imagine it as music in my mind. After take-off, the wind in the ear sends out different rhythms, and different movements have different rhythms.

Cork 900 has a "dadada" action, and duble cork 1260 has a "dadada" action-will your child do this? She won't even consider splitting the bill.

Besides skiing, she also loves long-distance running, and cross-country running won the second place in San Francisco.

When I participated in the competition, I was temporarily ranked second. When I turned the corner, I heard my grandmother shouting: Ailin 65438 +0, Ailin 65438 +0. She turned around and found her grandmother who was 5 meters tall and a group of American mothers cheering for her.

She hasn't figured out how an old man who can't speak English did it. But she knows that victory is always important.

This desire for first place was taught to me by my grandmother, Ms. Feng. I forgot to mention that her grandmother is 86 years old and still insists on running a mile every day.

-Kaka, for a long time or words and deeds.

She trains 65 days a year, and other contestants spend more than 200 days. She also has to attend other interest classes and study in the middle school attached to the National People's University of America. How did she do it?

Gu Ma taught her to sleep well first. I slept 15 hours when I was a child, 13 hours after primary school, and now it is at least 10 hour.

Because skiing is a control game, keeping balance depends on skill. If you want your brain to carry your body without enough rest, your brain is easily distracted. She practiced high-risk movements, and when she was distracted, she fell from the sky and probably disappeared.

Concentrate when you are full of sleep, and then concentrate on efficient training. Use every minute on the cutting edge and never be lazy.

When you encounter difficult movements, practice your skills, think while practicing, and your body slowly finds the feeling.

This focus does not mean doing only one thing, but doing anything, first staying focused and finishing it efficiently, and then switching to the next thing cleanly.

For example, if you study hard at ordinary times and are tired of studying, you will be motivated at the thought of going skiing on weekends, and you will enjoy it wholeheartedly when skiing, because you have been looking forward to it for a week, and both things are very efficient.

-Is this what domestic teachers often say: study hard and have fun?

In addition to being focused and efficient, there is also self-discipline. No matter what the weather is like, Xiao Gu can't run for 40 minutes every day, even in the hot Dubai.

I have been waiting in the waiting room for a long time, so I can play the piano and do my homework. Learn physical chemistry after skiing for 4 hours, let your body rest and adjust your brain in order to achieve a better state of exercise.

Any one of them is a top student in China.

Xiao Gu said that her mother is very powerful, the only parent who can keep up with the speed of athletes in sparring (nonsense, she is a coach), and she is the "wisdom brain" behind her.

From learning style to action, from competition mentality to competition skills, she will be scientifically analyzed and taught how to decompose step by step and finally achieve it.

If you put these things into anything, you can succeed, not just skiing.

For example, Gu Ma has been training with her daughter and never missed her work. That's it. The investment company has opened and a new track has been developed. Her name appeared on the list of China freestyle ski platform and slope obstacle skill team in the Winter Olympics.

In other words, at the same time, she broadened her career path.

Sure enough, a good baby and mother are mutually successful. Mom makes the baby first, and then the baby helps her.

I found that instead of admiring how excellent other people's babies are, it is better to see how powerful their mothers are first. People in China like to talk about weather, location and harmony. In fact, chickens and babies are the same, and genes, methods and choices are indispensable.

Xiao Gu has an ancestral top-notch gene, a mother's sports gene and a white father's physique. Then mothers have many ways, and most of our parents have no way to teach their children, only to growl.

Gu Ma studied chemistry, finance and skiing seamlessly. After learning the essence, even if the daughter wins the championship, she can stand out by learning the meta-universe.

The best thing about this mother is to help her make a choice at the critical moment of her daughter's career.

When Xiao Gu just made achievements, the Sino-American Ski Association showed her kindness, but on 20 19, Gu's mother decided to naturalize her daughter in China, which opened her daughter's glory in the Chinese world.

Skiing is a national sport in the United States, and there are many champions, but it is different in China. It is a weak emerging project and a breakthrough from zero, otherwise the "naturalization" policy of ice and snow talent reserve will not be introduced. This is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity.

The results are of commercial value, and she just caught up with the vacuum period of top sports idols.

The era of Yao Ming, Li Na, Liu Xiang and Dānlín is over. Other sports are very popular, but they are not well-known in the world. So, advertisers are not allowed to go to France from here?

An advertisement quoted 2.5 million dollars, and now there are more than 20 brands in hand. In the future, the amount is too much to think about.

Don't underestimate this choice. Zhang Benzhihe, a Japanese Chinese table tennis player as big as him, who is also a talented player, naturalized in Japan with his father and sister in order to win the Olympic gold medal.

Although the father changed his surname to "Zhangben" in order to keep his son from forgetting his roots, the child kept saying that he would beat Guo Ping and help the Japanese win the championship, which caused quite a controversy.

Fortunately, we lack everything except experts in table tennis.

Yang Zhenning said: "Under the premise of choosing the right direction, if a person works hard enough, he may not have great achievements, but with the development of China today, he will certainly have small achievements."

I don't know how Xiaolong Gu walks, but the pattern on her snowboard says it all-dragons and phoenixes among people.