What should I do if I am silent on the first date? Let me tell you about six topics. Please tell me.

1, starting from the weather or season: "The weather is really good"

Although a bit old-fashioned, it is a natural and flawless urgent topic for people who are dating for the first time. The two sides may be unfamiliar and the atmosphere may be a bit awkward. They are desperately thinking, "What if there is an ice break? Awkward. What can I say? " The topic of weather can be said to be handy at this time. For example, ask him what kind of weather he likes, what season he likes, what sports he likes to do at ordinary times and so on. , can not only open a chatterbox, but also enhance mutual understanding.

2. Share interesting things at work: "I met an interesting thing at work recently."

Sharing interesting things at work is a topic that both sides have something to say. Because both sides have already taken part in the work, there will be some anecdotes in the work. Choosing something harmless to share can ease the embarrassing atmosphere and mobilize the emotions of both sides. Besides, as a person in the workplace, what happens at work is bound to be scolded. But it should be noted that in unfamiliar situations, try to choose something interesting and harmless to share.

3. Popular information such as movies, comics and books: "Have you seen the latest movie XXXX?"

Young people will pay more attention to popular information such as movies, TV series, comics and online events, so it is easy to find the interests of two people. If you are not sure about the other person's interest at first, ask him if he has seen the latest movie by asking questions. If he hasn't seen it yet, you might as well say what you think of it, and then ask him what movies he usually likes to watch. If the other person obviously lacks interest in a topic, change the topic quickly, and don't make a long speech there alone.

4. Talking about friends who look alike: "XXX is always like this ..."

If both sides have the same friends, don't waste this excellent resource. You can talk about interesting things that happened with this friend, and you can also talk about some embarrassing things about this friend. Of course, you can't speak ill of this friend in front of each other, even if you are joking, be careful. So as not to make the other person misunderstand that you are a person who likes to speak ill of others behind their backs.

5. An evocative topic: "If you were allowed to travel alone, where would you like to go?"

Associative topics will naturally enrich the dialogue. You can also learn about each other's hobbies, personality and personal thoughts. For example, talking about travel, places you want to go, places you have been to, people and things you met ... This topic will never be out of date, nor will it embarrass you, and the discussion will be endless and difficult to end.

6. A topic that evokes memories of childhood and school days: "When I was a child ..."

Everyone has a complete memory of his childhood or school days. At that time, ignorance, innocence and youthful love can be shared as long as you like. Sharing interesting stories about your childhood can evoke memories of both sides, lead to endless topics, let the other side know about themselves, and also help to discover the similarities between two people.