Examples of poor interpersonal relationships in history win politics.

Cooperation can complement each other.

Cooperation should be based on principles.

Cooperation should have a certain division of labor.

Cooperation can coordinate the relationship between people.

Cooperation should give full play to everyone's ability.

Choose a good partner.

Cooperation can produce a win-win situation or a win-win situation.

We should cultivate a sense of cooperation.

Cooperation requires a relaxed environment.

Cooperation can make weak forces stronger.

The spirit of cooperation is the guarantee of success.

well-known saying

Only people with a strong spirit of cooperation can survive and create civilization. Tagore

A flower can't make a beautiful spring. An advanced person is always lonely, and every advanced person can move mountains and fill seas.

-Lei Feng

Without people, there is no hero. -Li Dazhao

People together can do things that a single person can't do; Wisdom, hands and strength together are almost omnipotent. -Webster

With more people, the responsibility on everyone's shoulders will be lightened. Ibsen

Opportunities vouchsafed by Heaven are outmatched by terrestrial advantages, which in turn are outmatched by the harmony among people. -Mencius

Without unity, any force is weak. -Lafontaine

It is difficult to make a song if it is monotonous, but the pillars can be towering. -Xu Teli

No matter how talented a person is, the collective is often smarter and more powerful than him. Ostrovsky

The expectation of recognition and respect is deeply rooted in human nature. Without this kind of spiritual stimulation, human cooperation is completely impossible. -Einstein

Everyone gathers firewood and the flames are high. -Proverbs

Classic material

The victory of team spirit

(Cooperation requires sacrifice of spirit)

In the 27th Olympic Games, the women's 20km race walk began. Liu Hongyu and Wang Liping of our country took part in the competition. Liu Hongyu walked in the first group by her own strength, but she has already received two red cards. According to the regulations, she was warned by three red cards that the athletes would withdraw from the competition. It is impossible for Liu Hongyu to catch up with the leading three foreign players without playing cards, but she observed that her teammate Wang Liping was in the leading position in the second group and decided to sacrifice herself. Before the final sprint, Liu Hongyu suddenly dashed forward, and the tactics of leading foreign athletes were disrupted. Some of them can't continue to lead because of physical exhaustion, and some are sent off because of excessive physical exhaustion and technical movements. Wang Liping finally won the gold medal.

Work in great harmony

(cooperation can succeed)

Hilton Group is the leader of the hotel industry today, and its business is distributed on five continents, with more than 200 towering and spectacular high-rise buildings all over the world. Hilton Group can be in an invincible position in the fierce competition, and its most commendable thing is that the group is United from top to bottom. Donald? Hilton once said, "I may be the luckiest person in Texas, and I am blessed. This blessing comes from friendship and like-minded partners. I hope that I can always get along with my colleagues in this life, because my blessings come from them. "

Not only Hilton Group, but in fact, in today's world, strengthening cooperation is increasingly becoming the requirement of the times. Small countries, individuals and big countries need various forms of cooperation.

A jackal sword

Cooperation can make you stronger.

A Gou, the leader of Tuguhun, a northwest minority in the Southern Dynasties, had 20 sons. One day, the jackal said to them, "Each of you brings me an arrow." The jackal took the arrow, broke it one by one and threw it to the ground. After a while, Awan called his younger brother Mu Liyan and said to him, "Take an arrow and break it." Mu Liyan broke the arrow. The jackal added, "This time you take 19 arrows and break them together." Mu Liyan can't do it. The jackal said, "Do you know? One arrow is easy to break, but many arrows are difficult to break together. Therefore, only when Qi Xin and Qi Xin work together can our country be consolidated. "

On his deathbed, Gou Jian, the leader of Tuguhun, used the metaphor of "one person is easy to break, but two people are difficult to destroy" to warn his sons to make concerted efforts with Qi Xin to manage the country well.

Tycho's Cooperation with Kepler

(cooperation can learn from each other's strengths)

The two weapons of scientific discovery are scientific experiment and dialectical thinking. Simply put, it is "trying" and "thinking". Through observation or experiment, or asking for first-hand information from nature, or discovering new phenomena, these scattered materials are linked through thinking, making it a complete new ideological system. Experiments and thinking should not be neglected.

The predecessors said: "Learning a skill can bring wisdom and practice at the same time". Wisdom refers to thinking, and action is practice. To develop the habit of careful consideration, Tang Zhen said in "Hidden Book": "The heart is also spiritual. If you don't use it, it will last forever. With a little use, you will achieve a little. If you use it a lot, it will be a great success. " It can be seen that predecessors all know that the more brains you use, the smarter you are. British Harley (1656- 1742) asked Newton (1642- 1727): "Why did you make such a big discovery?" Newton said, "As a result of constant thinking." Some people are good at experiments, while others are good at thinking. Both talents are important, but they are not easy. Some important discoveries in history are the products of the cooperation between these two kinds of people. The discovery of the three laws of planetary motion is an example of this. The Danish astronomer Tycho (1546- 160 1) has spent 30 years observing the motion of planets for a long time and accumulated rich data. His observation ability is excellent, but unfortunately it is shorter than theoretical analysis. Fortunately, a year before his death, Kepler (1571-1630), a German youth, was invited as an assistant. On the contrary, the latter is not clever in observation technology, but very talented in theoretical research and loves mathematics. Based on the analysis of Tycho's data, he initially assumed that the sun revolves around the earth, and the error is always large, which is inconsistent with the observation. So using Heliocentrism, assuming that Mars goes around the sun once, the calculation result is still not ideal. Finally, he boldly innovated and put forward the hypothesis that "the orbit of Mars is an ellipse and the sun is at a focus of the ellipse", and the results are in good agreement with the observed data. In this way, Tycho's precise observation combined with Kepler's profound research led to the discovery of three laws of planetary motion. Without Kepler, Tycho's hard work may become a pile of waste paper; On the contrary, without Tycho, there would be no outstanding achievements of Kepler.

Team spirit of biology

Cooperation can turn weakness into strength.

Biologists have found that mutual assistance is the sharpest weapon for all kinds of animals to defeat powerful enemies. An insect and a solitary beast are doomed to complete destruction. Ants have many natural enemies, and their eggs and larvae are food for many animals. An ant has little defensive value, but thousands of ants are either wiped out by birds or anteaters, or are feared by many insects and wild animals. Because of collective living and working together, the individual strength and safety factor of bees have increased several times. Parrots are very gregarious birds. They love each other and share weal and woe. There are almost no other enemies except people, and few raptors or mammals dare to attack them. Coyotes often form groups of twenty or thirty to chase the occasionally wandering bison. Groups of wild dogs can defeat bears and tigers. As long as the horse is not lost, bears, tigers and lions can't hurt it.

The cooperative life of mutual assistance and unity can make animals from weak to strong, from foolish to intelligent, which is conducive to resisting strong enemies and adapting to various harsh natural environments.

The birth of modern weather forecast

(Cultivate a sense of cooperation and solve world problems)

The change of weather originates from the movement of the global atmosphere. The coming and going of cold, warm, dry and wet air has caused meteorological changes such as rain, snow, wind and frost, cloudy and sunny, and the continuous and all-round observation of the global atmosphere is the basis of weather forecast. Lao Lun's famous saying tells the integrity of the global atmosphere: A butterfly flapping its wings in new york today will cause a downpour in Beijing ten days later. The borderless movement of the atmosphere makes global meteorological cooperation a prerequisite for accurate weather forecasting, and also makes meteorology a model of global cooperation.

1855, French scientist Laval was ordered to track the storms that occurred during the Crimean War and discovered the mystery of storm movement. He pointed out that as long as the meteorological observation records in different places are collected, the storm forecast can be made, which reveals the necessity of international meteorological cooperation and thus opens the prelude to the development of modern weather forecast.

1872 International Meteorological Conference was held in Leipzig, and the first meteorological conference was held in Vienna the following year, and then the International Meteorological Organization (IMO) was established. In order to further strengthen cooperation, in 195 1, the International Meteorological Organization was reorganized into the World Meteorological Organization (WMO) and became an intergovernmental (that is, national meteorological offices) international institution that established relations with the United Nations. The main task is to coordinate and improve world meteorological operations and related activities, promote the establishment of meteorological and hydrological station networks and global cooperation in the transmission and exchange of observation records and data. Since then, driven by the interests of * * *, meteorological departments of various countries have been exchanging meteorological data with each other for free.

It can be said that global cooperation has promoted the improvement of the level of meteorological forecasting and enhanced the ability of human beings to defend against meteorological disasters. Without the close cooperation between modern high technology and global meteorologists, weather forecast can't become a reality. This is why people have been studying meteorological problems since ancient times, but weather forecast, or accurate weather forecast, has only appeared in recent decades.

Guo Ziyi and Li Guangbi are unified countries.

(Win-win cooperation)

Guo Ziyi and Li Guangbi were two ministers of Shuofang in Tang Dynasty. Because of their deep prejudice, they have long been at odds. During the Anshi Rebellion, Guo Ziyi was promoted to our time in Shuofang. After Li Guangbi became his subordinate, he was afraid that he would take the opportunity to retaliate, so he found him and asked, "No matter what I do with me in the future, I won't complain, just to avoid involving my wife and children." Guo Ziyi left his seat, hugged Li Guangbi and said with tears in his eyes, "The country is in crisis. We should work together in Qi Xin and stop haggling. " Li Guangbi saw that he was open-minded and led a well-documented team. Since then, the general has made great achievements in counterinsurgency and neutrality.

Development achievements of two fishery companies

(Don't cooperate blindly)

During the period of 1985, the fishery department of China and an African country jointly established two fishery companies, and China provided the same manpower, financial resources and material resources to the two companies. But the operating conditions of these two companies are quite different. Good management and high efficiency; The other company, with chaotic management and serious losses, closed down in just a few months. It turned out that the relevant departments did not know the situation of the two partners before signing the joint venture contract. The former has a good foundation and proper personnel, so it is in good operating condition; The latter turned out to be just a shell company, the person in charge was a fool who didn't understand the business, and everyone else just improvised. Because I didn't know the details of the other party in advance, I blindly cooperated and suffered a big loss.

An experiment

(Learn to cooperate with peers)

A few years ago, when a foreign educational delegation visited a school in Shanghai, an educator invited several students to do an experiment of "drawing a ball from a bottle". Put seven colored balls in a narrow bottle. Each colored ball is tied with a thread. One end of the thread is exposed from the bottle mouth, and everyone pulls a lead. This bottle represents a house, and the colored ball represents the people in the house. The house suddenly caught fire, and only those who escaped within the specified time could survive. The educator asked the seven students to take the ball out of the bottle as soon as possible after hearing the whistle. The bottle is too small to pass two colored balls at a time. The experiment began, and it took the seven students only three seconds to draw their own colored balls from the bottle one by one! The foreign teacher experts shouted again and again: "It's amazing! I have done this experiment in many countries and never succeeded. You can escape one or two people at most. In most cases, several colored balls are stuck in the bottle mouth. "

The above story tells us that cooperation is a very important spirit, and modern society requires us to learn to get along with others. Knowing how to cooperate is one of the qualities that modern people must possess.

On social division of labor from Boeing aircraft

(Modern social cooperation is more important)

A Boeing 747 needs more than 1 10,000 spare parts, most of which are not produced by Boeing alone or provided by domestic companies in the United States, but come from many companies all over the world, especially Singapore and South Korea. We in China also provide them with the balanced tail of the plane. These parts from all over the world are assembled by Boeing in the United States. With the development of economy, the social division of labor is getting finer and finer, and cooperation and complementarity are getting closer and closer. Countries and enterprises will show greater dependence like the relationship between Boeing and various parts production companies, and the world will gradually become what people call a "global village".

Yilin story

Fish and hooks

A and B met a fairy, and they asked her for help. The fairy took out a basket of fish and a fishing rod for them to choose. A asked for a basket of fish and B asked for a fishing rod. After A burned the fish basket with firewood, he couldn't get any food any more and soon starved to death in front of the empty fish basket. B was hungry and walked to the seaside with a fishing rod, but the sea was too far away and he starved to death before reaching the seaside.

Bing and Ding also met the fairy and got a basket of fish and a fishing rod from the fairy. They accepted the lessons of Party A and Party B, and they agreed to go for a walk at the seaside together. When they were hungry, they only cooked one fish and didn't finish the basket of fish. When the fish was almost finished, they also saw the sea. They fished with fishing rods, sold them after eating them, and slowly saved a sum of money. They used the money to buy a boat, a fishing net, go fishing in the sea and earn more money. Later, they built a house and lived happily.

The truth of this story is simple: help each other to survive, and you will die alone.

The story of heaven and hell

A missionary told God that he wanted to know the difference between heaven and hell. God agreed to take him to see hell first. They walked into a room and saw many people sitting around a big pot cooking. There is enough rice in the pot for them to eat. Everyone has a spoon in front of them, but the handle of the spoon is too long, so they can't put food in their mouths. They are thirsty and hungry, and they are sad and disappointed in the face of food they can't eat. "Now I'll take you to see heaven." God took the preacher to another room. The decoration of this room is exactly the same as that in hell. A group of people are sitting around a big pot, and there is a spoon in front of everyone. The handle of the spoon is very long. But people here look happy, not sad. The missionary felt strange: "the situation in heaven and hell is the same." Why is one happy and one sad? " God replied, "Don't you see that people in heaven learn to feed each other?"

In real life, there are many such examples. If we want to succeed, we need solidarity. As long as Qi Xin works together to overcome difficulties, hell can also become a paradise.

A bird caught in a net

A bird catcher put a net on the lake and put some food in the net to catch birds. When all the birds saw food in the net, they all scrambled for food and called their friends to eat the food in the net. The bird catcher saw many birds and immediately closed the net on the shore. I didn't expect the birds in the net to fly together, soaring into the sky and flying into the Woods outside the lake. The bird catcher immediately followed the shadow of the birds in the air and pursued them. The person next to him asked, "What are you running in such a hurry for?" The bird catcher pointed to the sky and said, "I'm chasing birds in the sky?" The questioner looked up and saw that the bird had flown far away, leaving only a few dots. He couldn't help but advise: "Birds fly so fast in the sky, and you run so slowly on the ground, how can you catch up?" Aren't you stupid The bird catcher said, "look at those birds flying high and far, but they don't care." As soon as the sun goes down, the birds will go home to roost. At that time, they will fly around and the bird net will fall. "So, as long as they don't fly out of my sight, I can catch them sooner or later." As he spoke, the bird catcher continued to follow the direction of the flock.

It's getting late and birds are tired of flying. Some birds want to go to the east, and some birds want to go to the west. Some birds want to fly to the Woods, and some birds want to fly to the mountain stream. They spread their wings and flew, arguing about where they were going. However, they couldn't go anywhere and fell with the net. The persistent bird catcher finally caught the birds.

In our life, it is inevitable that we will fall into the net. When we are caught in a trap, our relatives and friends who have deep karma will also suffer with us. At this time, the only way to fly out of the net is to work together, instead of complaining to each other in the net and consuming the energy of life.

Life is a big net, as long as we are United, we can fly higher and farther. If we fly high enough and far enough, maybe we can fly out of the hunter's sight!

Stick it in your knife.

A company recruits employees and finally chooses two of the three candidates. The topic they gave was this: If you three go to explore the desert together and your's car breaks down on the way back, you still have a long way to go, but you three can only choose four out of seven things to take away. What would you choose? These seven things are: mirror, knife, tent, water, matches, rope and compass. The tent can only accommodate two people, and the water is just a bottle of mineral water.

A chose knives, tents, water and matches. The manager in charge of the interview asked him, why did you choose the knife first A said, "There can be no harm to others, and there can be no defense against others. The tent is only big enough for two people, and there is only one bottle of water. In case of a fight, I can make way for the girl. What if that man wants to hurt me in order to fight for the chance of survival? So I got the knife, which is equivalent to controlling the initiative in my hands. "

The four items selected by B and C are the same: water, tent, matches and rope.

B explained, "The mirror is useless in the desert, so you can't have it." A compass can be replaced by a watch, as long as there is a sun; Knives are unnecessary. In this vast desert, there is nothing offensive to people, let alone animals. Water is a necessity, although it is only enough for two people to drink, it can be saved. I believe that three people can stick to it together until the end; Although the tent can only accommodate two people to sleep, three people can take turns to rest; Matches are also essential on the road; Rope can be used to tie three people together, so that when the wind and sand are too big to be seen, the team will not be separated, and if there is a sand collapse, a companion is buried under the sand pile, and he can be pulled back with rope. The explanation of "C and B is the same.

The last three candidates were all hired by B and C. Why was A eliminated? It's simple. Nowadays, enterprises are emphasizing the spirit of teamwork, while Party A only cares about itself at the critical moment and regards the companions in the team as imaginary enemies. In fact, he can make the best use of the resources that were only enough for two people with two companions, and finally let the whole team tide over the difficulties together and get out of the desert of death.

When he chose a knife to guard against others, even when he was ready to insert it into his companion's chest at a critical moment, he actually inserted the knife into himself first.

Drifting "ant ball"

At dusk, the flood finally tore open the river bank. The small courtyard became a part of Wang Yang Zeguo. In the early morning, the affected people stood on the embankment in twos and threes, staring at their homes in the water. Suddenly, someone exclaimed, "Look, what is that?"

A black spot is floating along the waves, rising and falling like a human being. Someone jumped into the water with a whoosh and quickly leaned against the black spot, but he just stopped and turned and swam back to the shore. "An ant ball." The man said. "Ant ball?" It's puzzling.

While speaking, the ant ball floated over and got closer and closer. I saw it clearly: an ant ball the size of a small football! The black ants hugged each other tightly. The clouds are surging, the ant balls are drifting, and a small group of ants are constantly scratched by the waves, like paint flakes on iron.

It's thrilling to see.

The ant ball landed. The ant balls spread out layer by layer, like an open landing craft. The ant colony rushed to the shore quickly and orderly and landed successfully. There are still many ant balls left in the water on the shore. They are heroic victims. They can't climb up any more, but their bodies are still tightly tied together.

Two Buddha statues

Anyone who has been to the temple knows that Maitreya was the first to greet guests with a smiling face as soon as he entered the temple gate, but to his north, Wei Tuo was the black face of Darkmouth. But according to legend, a long time ago, they were not in the same temple, but in charge of different temples. Maitreya was enthusiastic and happy, so many people came, but he ignored everything, forgot things, and managed his accounts improperly, still making ends meet. Although Wei Tuo was a cook in charge of accounts, he worked too hard all day, making fewer and fewer friends, and finally died.

Buddha found this problem when he was looking for incense, so he put them in the same temple. Maitreya was in charge of public relations and greeted guests from all directions with a smile. And Wei Tuo impartial, let him be responsible for finance, strictly. After the division of labor and cooperation between the two people, the temple flourished.

Go to the city to eat people.

There is a new fable about two tigers discussing where to find food. The young one said, "Let's go to the nearby village to eat people, where there are few people." The elder shook his head and objected, "No, although there are few people in the village, the people there are very United. One party is in trouble, and all parties support it, and the risk is too great. " If we want to eat people, we'd better go to the city. "Tiger asked incredulously," There are many people in the city, so I'm afraid it's more dangerous? "The elder said," Although there are many people in the city, the neighbors don't know each other, so everyone cleans the snow by themselves. If we eat one, others won't care. "

Swan, barracuda and prawn

Once, swans, barracuda and prawns carried a truckload of luggage together. The three of them got into the cart together and pulled hard.

They did their best, but the cart stayed where it was, motionless. For them, the luggage is not heavy at all, but the swan is trying to fly to the sky, the prawn is trying to retreat, and the barracuda is bent on diving into the water-we don't need to judge who is right or wrong, but the car has been left in place until now.

The story of the big red fish

There is such a fairy tale in the textbooks of Japanese primary school students.

In the vast sea, there are a group of little red fish. They are thin and swim slowly, and they are a group that can't protect themselves in the sea. When a little red fish swam over, a tiger shark followed them quietly. The little red fish found the danger, and they ran away desperately, but the shark opened its huge mouth and many little red fish were swallowed. A little black fish told everyone, "Don't be afraid, we will get together." The little black fish swam over and said, let the little red fish slowly gather into a "big red fish" Then, the little black fish swam to the head of Dahongyu and became the eyes of the big fish. A huge "big ruby" with black eyes and glowing body appeared. Tiger sharks saw them coming from afar, and even the big whales fled in horror.

The price of non-cooperation

A businessman drove a horse and a donkey to the city to sell goods. Donkeys are not as strong as horses, and they are exhausted after a walk. It asked the horse to help it carry some goods, but the horse refused to lend a helping hand. Later, the donkey was exhausted and died halfway. The owner then peeled off the donkey's skin and put it on horseback with all the goods. At this time, the horse said regretfully, "I don't want to share any burden for the donkey." Now I not only carry all the goods, but also add an extra donkey skin. "

The strong and the weak should support each other and cooperate with each other in order to survive and develop better.

Application and innovation

Non-violent Non-cooperation Movement in India

After the First World War, the Indian people set off the climax of the national independence movement. The British colonial authorities adopted a repressive policy and created the Amritsar Massacre. 1920, the Indian bourgeois party Congress adopted Gandhi's "Non-violent Non-cooperation Plan", changed the attitude of cooperation with Britain during World War II, and announced that it would adopt "peaceful and legal means" to obtain India's autonomy. The measures of non-cooperative movement include: Indians give up titles and honorary positions given by British colonial authorities; A general boycott of British legislatures, courts and schools; Call on every household to resume hand-made textiles and boycott British goods; Step by step against taxes.

The non-violent and non-cooperative movement formed a massive mass movement, which attacked the British colonial rule and enhanced the national pride and self-confidence of the Indian people.

Sometimes, non-cooperation is a commendable thing, as long as it conforms to the interests of the people and safeguards national dignity, it is also respectable.