Do Northeastern people really sleep on the same kang as a family?

I saw it by chance and wanted to say a few words. I am from the north, and most small bungalows in northern rural areas or cities have the situation mentioned by the original poster. We think it's normal. First of all: the kang in the north is very big (the author can rest assured, he and her two sisters cannot squeeze into a small bed), almost as big as 2 to 3 double beds, and each person in a family of four or five can There is a space of 1 to 1.5 meters, so no matter how much you move while sleeping, there is no physical contact, unless you have the habit of wandering at night, and since we are adults, no one can take off their clothes to sleep. Wear shorter clothes in summer. Pajamas, autumn clothes and long trousers in winter, and all covered with quilts. It is impossible for the poster to imagine his son seeing his mother without clothes, or changing clothes in public, or other scenes. I think everywhere there are girls wearing pajamas hanging out in front of their dads, and boys going shirtless at home. I don’t know why the poster doesn’t understand. Furthermore: many things are incomprehensible because of lack of understanding, cultural and regional differences, and personal assumptions. There are things in some places that are not well accepted by urbanites, but they are by no means against ethics and morals. Finally, let me talk about the issue of heating in the south and the north: Summer is okay in the north. You can find an empty house, which is cleaner, and set up a bed, especially if there are girls at home. Girls go out to sleep alone, which is generally the case. . The poster mentioned that it must be troublesome to sleep with my sister. The house is only for three to five days, and you have to clean the house first and then set up a bed. It’s troublesome, so there’s nothing wrong with living together for a few days. It won't work in winter, because heating is required, and heating in the north and south is different. In the south, just put a basin of charcoal, but in the north, you must burn a kang. A basin of charcoal cannot solve the problem at all. The kang is a relatively high-tech thing, involving various aspects such as thermal insulation, ventilation, smoke removal, etc. Not everyone can build it, so many people only have one kang, and some people have several and only one can be used. It either emits smoke or leaks, or it doesn't get hot no matter how much it is heated, so the whole family can only live together in the winter. This is also a regional custom. I have never seen my son go home for the New Year and his mother would open another room for him.

But don't worry, girl, when you go to his house, you will definitely sleep alone. After you get married, you will sleep alone when you go home. This is a northern family, even if the kang is not hot and always smokes, it needs to be rebuilt. Arrived! After writing so much, I don’t know if this can solve the problem in your heart. In short, this is a regional difference. It’s the same as in the south where people only take showers without scrubbing. What I said above is how this situation comes about, so if you are a man If there is no other problem, just forgive him!