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Most people want to find a lover in two of a kind and get married hand in hand, but a few people are more realistic. They value each other's economic conditions more, in order to provide a certain guarantee for their own lives, rather than taking a fancy to love for the first time.

Whether it is the love of young people or the love of middle-aged people, they will choose each other and find the right partner. Often those who value family conditions first, and don't put their feelings in the position of 1, may be like opening a blind box after marriage. It is not difficult to have enough understanding by comparing the three views and personality once.

A person's character is hard to change, and it is often deeply rooted in his thoughts. Just as many people want to pursue true love, they will believe in the coming of love even in their later years. Just like a 62-year-old grandfather, he thought he met true love when he found a beautiful young wife, but he was left speechless after marriage, and finally regretted what happened to this grandfather. We continue to look down.

62-year-old Uncle Fang:

My surname is Fang, and I am 62 years old. I retired for the second year this year, and I feel that my life is very boring now. I was going to travel with my wife after retirement and take her to the outside city. I know my wife has been following me, and my life is very hard. Now in my old age, my health is getting worse and worse. I just want to take her out for a walk while I am young.

The ideal is beautiful, but the reality is cruel. Two years before we retired, my wife suddenly became seriously ill. I was caught off guard and didn't know what to do. During that time, I asked for leave to take care of my wife at home all day, hoping that her illness would get better soon. Unexpectedly, God played a joke on me and my wife left me.

Her death made me very sad. I feel that things are impermanent, so I should cherish my existing life. Unfortunately, I didn't understand this truth when my wife was alive, and now I regret it.

My wife and I have two children, a son and a daughter. They all live in big cities and settle down. After my wife died, the children saw that I was depressed and wanted to go back to my hometown to accompany me, but because I couldn't get away from work, they had to give up. Later, my children invited me to live in a big city, which was also convenient for me to take care of. But I think it's good that I stay alone in my hometown. Don't want to disturb the children, keeping a sense of distance will make us.

And you are very filial to me. They told me that they were very sad because their mother left early, so they would cherish it next. Although they can't stay with me all the time, they will do everything possible to provide me with better old-age care.

To discuss with you, I don't want to live in a big city, so let me stay in my hometown, but they don't trust me alone, so they discuss letting me find a wife, but I don't want to find another one, because it's too much trouble to be so old and involve a lot of property and future support. If you meet the right person, you can get along slowly. But now I still feel too embarrassed to go on a blind date to find a wife.

After discussion, my children decided to find me a nanny to take care of my daily life. After all, I am getting older now and need someone to take care of my life. So my children went to the domestic service center, and through mutual understanding, they hired a nanny, Xiao Su, who was 10 years younger than me.

Xiao Su has more than 65,438+00 years' working experience in domestic service center, and she has a lot of experience in caring for the elderly. I felt embarrassed when my children brought Xiao Su home. After all, it is more or less embarrassing for a young woman who is 10 years older than me to live under the same roof.

My children advised me not to be too feudal. This situation is normal now. They invited Xiao Su home and valued his work experience. That's why they chose the right nanny. After listening to the child's explanation, I was relieved.

After a period of contact, I found that Xiao Su is really a capable woman. She is considerate both in life and eating and housework. She will cook me good food according to my taste, three times a day.

Slowly, I began to enjoy her service to me, and felt that my life had undergone earth-shaking changes, much better than when I lived alone. I am also very grateful to Xiao Su for taking care of me in my life. I will also give him free space to go out for square dance or take a walk when he is not busy.

Xiao Su is a particularly talkative person. If she is not busy at work, she will talk to me and chat with me occasionally. When the weather is good, she will also offer to take me out in the sun to supplement calcium. I think she is very considerate. Since Xiao Su went home to be a nanny, I feel that my life has become more comfortable and my mood is much better than before.

Maybe I have emotional attachment to her. After a long time, I finally had an idea that I wanted Xiao Su to be my wife. I feel more and more that I can't live without her. Of course, I'm afraid she doesn't like me. After all, I am 10 years older than her.

After a lunch, I tentatively expressed my thoughts. I didn't expect that Xiao Su didn't object and seemed to have feelings for me. Of course, Xiao Su is most worried about the opposition of her children. If my child doesn't object, she is willing to stay with me.

Since Xiao Su is also interested in me, and we are both two of a kind, I told my children the idea of marrying Xiao Su and hoped to get their blessing. At first, the child disagreed, thinking that this woman must have wild desires, and the age difference between us is too big, and there are too many unstable factors in the future. But when my children saw that I liked Xiao Su very much, Xiao Su was also very kind to me. For the sake of my happiness in my later years, they had to agree that we should be together.

In this way, I married Xiao Su as I wished, thinking that she was younger than me, and I would spoil her and love her all my life. I used to plan to take my wife out for a trip. Now that you have a wife, you must cherish this opportunity. As long as I am energetic, I will take her everywhere.

I know that all women love beauty. I will give Xiao Su some extra pocket money as her daily expenses so that she can buy something she likes. We were very affectionate at first, and I didn't find anything unusual. But after a long time, Xiao Su will find various reasons to ask me for money, and if I don't give it to her, she will even give me trouble.

At first, I didn't think it was necessary for husband and wife to haggle over every ounce. Maybe Xiao Su is in financial difficulties, so it doesn't hurt to give her more pocket money. But after a long time, I found that my pension was all spent by Xiao Su, and even the lucky money saved by my children was almost spent.

What annoys me most is that once I was ill in the hospital. At first, Xiao Su was still taking care of me in the hospital. I didn't expect to find an excuse to leave after taking care of me for a few days. It turned out that her grandson was also ill in hospital, and her daughter-in-law asked her to go home and take care of her grandson. Obviously, I'm her wife. Now I'm lying in a hospital bed so fragile that she ignores me. At that moment, I finally understood that Xiao Su had no real feelings for me. She just ...

Now that I have certified my family, I dare not tell my children about the grievances I have suffered these days. I'm afraid they're worried, so I have to submit to humiliation, but I don't know how long this day will last, and I don't know whether he will change his mind to me in the future.

Conclusion:

Many single old people want to find a younger and more beautiful woman than themselves. As wives, they think they have met true love, but in fact others are using him.

When people get along with each other, they are always hypocritical and enthusiastic at first, which blinds people and makes them unable to tell the truth from the false. If the uncle had listened to his children's persuasion and kept a certain vigilance, he would not have fallen into such a miserable situation and would not have been lying in the hospital bed.