When was the last time you asked for nothing in return?

The last time I asked for nothing in return was in KTV to entertain my good friends who came back from other places. I drank a lot of wine. My friend felt that drinking and singing were not enough, so he found some girls to sing with us.

I didn't want it at first, but one of them is enough. As a result, my good brothers refused to do it, so I had to let the most beautiful girl sing with me. I kindly refused and accepted. Girls are good at chatting and praise me happily. One minute she said I looked like a star, and the other minute she said I was strong and felt safe sitting next to me. Encouraged by her sweet words, I drank five or six bottles of wine, some of which were too much.

The girl saw that I had drunk too much, and she became decent to me. She asked me for a cup of warm water to warm my stomach and sang me some songs. I went to the bathroom to throw up, and she helped me. For the first time, a woman was so considerate and gentle to me and felt that she had met love, so I said, "Beauty, are you so kind to everyone?" She said, "No, only for you."

I said, "Me too. I didn't meet anyone. Meeting you today is like meeting love. " She said, "Brother, do you really like your sister?" I said yes, of course I really like you. She picked up her glass and said, "Let's have a toast." I said, "OK, then I'll drink my wine." She said, "Brother, I am your darling now. Can I make it up to you tonight?" I said, "That's necessary, tonight is my happiest day", and then we sang a few more songs.

It is about one o'clock in the morning. My buddy said, "It's getting late. Let's go." We got up and had a glass of wine. The girl said, "Brother, take me out?" I said, "No, my brothers have work to do." She said, "When will you open the door for the baby?" I said, "Honey, do come when you have the chance." She said, "Brother, we have work to do." I said, "Today is my happiest day. I met love." She said, "Brother, give me a love tip." I said, "What tip?" She said, "Besides normal consumption, give me some." I said I had no money. She said, "Brother, I am not your little darling. How can you be so heartless? " . I opened my wallet and showed it to her. There is really no money in it. My friend paid for singing.

She's a little unhappy. I said, "Baby, I'll come to see you another day. Don't be angry. " She is unhappy, and I feel particularly uncomfortable. Such a nice girl promised me to be a girlfriend. I can't even give her this tip. Really heartless, but I really have no money.

This matter has been suppressed in my heart for a long time, and I feel that I am really heartless and hurt that girl, otherwise I would have been married long ago and my children could have soy sauce. Since then, I have inspired myself to make more money, and I must never do such rude things and hurt people who love me so much.

Once, my boyfriend insisted on living with me, and I refused rudely. Later, the ending was beyond my expectation.

Puppy love, high school talked about a boyfriend. He is a city man with a cheerful personality, but he looks a bit of a playboy, just staring at beautiful women in the street.

I come from the countryside of Qingdao, Shandong Province. Although my parents have little education, they are very strict with my daughter. Therefore, under the influence of my parents' thoughts, I am a more traditional girl.

My boyfriend and I met at an activity organized by the Student Union. At first, he was very kind to me. When I am unhappy, he will try his best to make me happy and bring me dinner every morning.

However, I seldom take me to meet his friends. Later, at my strong request, he reluctantly introduced me to his friends.

We talked for more than half a year, and he found it inconvenient to live in school, and wanted to rent a house outside with me.

He said that many of our classmates have lived together, and it is normal for college students to live together now. He even said that if I didn't agree, he would find another woman.

No matter what he said at that time, I just didn't agree. I said, others are others, I am me, and I have my own principles and bottom line.

I thought he would respect my opinion, because I think if you really like someone, you should respect her and understand her.

But I never expected that he really broke up with me because I didn't agree to live together. Besides, not long after, I happened to see him living with a girl.

In fact, I am a sentimental girl at heart, and I don't know how to refuse.

It can be said that I have never refused other people's reasonable requests or help. At the beginning, I basically agreed to some requirements of my boyfriend.

I was the only one who rudely refused his request for cohabitation. Although he left me because of this, I don't regret it!

Especially when I found that he moved on soon, I was even more grateful for my "rudeness".

Each of us, especially every girl, should have our own bottom line, and we should lead an honest and clean life. Otherwise, it is very likely that you will regret it one day.

During my junior summer vacation, I worked as a tutor in Wuhou District, Chengdu. My boyfriend hit me because of a little thing, and then he knelt down and begged me for nothing!

At that time, my boyfriend had a bad temper, and he could swear by playing a game. It's the same for me. If something goes wrong, it will give me a bad look.

During the summer vacation, because there are basically two classes in the evening, it is too late to catch the bus back to the dormitory after class. One day, when I came back from class, I got a call from my boyfriend asking me to buy fried rice, and then I hung up in a hurry. Needless to say, he is busy playing games again.

I hurried back from the bus, bought him a fried rice, and called him downstairs to get it. He said right away and waited for more than ten minutes. I called him again, but he didn't answer. Wait another ten minutes. I called again, and my boyfriend yelled at me after he got through, saying that he was busy playing games. I silently hung up the phone, threw away the fried rice and went back to the dormitory. I'm going to wash my hands. My boyfriend called and questioned me. Where are you? I said, I went back to the dormitory, and I threw away the fried rice.

The next day, in front of many people, my boyfriend said that I was not sensible, yelled at me, swore and slapped me! ! !

I completely broke out and said, just mind your game, well, that's it! ! ! I ran back to the dormitory sadly! !

My boyfriend waited for a few days to ask me for help, but I ignored him. He pestered me, but I still didn't give him a chance. Finally, he ran to my dormitory and knelt down and begged me to forgive him.

I'm disappointed in him enough. I went downstairs and said something to him. When you hit me, I was completely desperate for you. Even if you die kneeling here, I won't come to see you again. In this way, since then, I have never contacted him again.

@ 丢丢丢丢丢丢丢丢200040 Everyone pays for each other. When two people are together, they should cherish and love each other, instead of blindly taking each other as a nanny.

My most rude time was two months before I got married. I refused my husband's request to advance that. He's still talking about me. It was really rude at that time.

Although I'm preparing for the wedding, I'm also preparing to get a license. When two people were making out, it was inevitable that the gun went off, but I stopped him in time.

He advised me: Why are you shy when you have all the evidence? I said: no, wait until the day I can.

He thinks persuasion doesn't work, but he wants to do things by force. I was angry and said, if you do this again, I won't get married! Return the bride price and everything!

Seeing that I was really angry, he quickly said, OK, OK, OK. I ignored him for three days.

Then my mom thought we had a problem. I told her the truth when she asked. Mom didn't say I was wrong, but I have to be measured.

Later, I saw my husband writing critical letters every day for three days, and on the fourth day, he found an excuse to trick me into going to the south of the city to watch fireworks.

And sincerely apologize to me and promise that this will never happen again in my life. Seeing his sincere face, I forgave him.

Fortunately, he is a man of his word, which has never happened again for so many years and has always followed my wishes.

Now my husband talks about it and says I'm too rude! I don't think it's impolite, it's a matter of principle.

I think I'm doing the right thing, otherwise I may often be forced after marriage, and women have the right to defend their wishes.

I remember the last time I asked for nothing in return was a night of quarreling with my girlfriend. One night I just didn't go to work, so they had a good meal as usual and went shopping at her request.

The shopping center is not far from where I live. I went downstairs and walked for five or six minutes. The shopping center is not very big. It has only three floors. The first floor sells fruits and vegetables, the second floor sells electrical appliances, and the third floor sells clothes.

I went to the first floor, strolled around for a while and bought some snacks. Then I went to the third floor with her and visited three clothing stores on the third floor. When the last shop went in, the proprietress introduced the style, workmanship, quality and wearing of her clothes with great enthusiasm and patience.

She looked at her girlfriend and quickly matched her with a suit for her to try on. I asked my girlfriend if she liked her, and she nodded to show that she liked her, so she went to the fitting room to try it on and looked in the mirror. It fits perfectly, especially its style and color. It looks very nice to wear. I like this dress, too. I asked my girlfriend if she liked it, and she said she did. I said I'll buy it if I like it.

Then I asked about the price. The boss said it was 398 yuan and asked if there was any discount or discount. The proprietress may also see that we especially like that suit, saying that there is no discount in the shopping mall. My girlfriend immediately walked out of the store and looked back at the suit from time to time. I know she likes that suit very much, and she is a little reluctant to buy it. Maybe she thinks the price is a little high. Then she went to another store to see it. I sneaked back to a store, asked my boss to wrap it for me, and then paid for it and went to another store to find her. She bypassed another shop and came out. She said she wouldn't go home. I said, well, when she goes back, she will look back at the store she tried on from time to time. I thought I bought it for her secretly, and she would be happy to go back and surprise her.

On the way back, she didn't say a word, as if something was on her mind. Yes, I asked her what happened. They finally got together to go shopping. Why did they come back glum? What is she thinking? She didn't say anything. I asked her if she took a fancy to her favorite clothes and stopped buying them. She said she liked them very much, but they were a little expensive. She doesn't want to be separated from them. I'm glad I bought it for her.

After walking for a while, I finally got home and went back to my room. It's a little hot, so I'll take the fruit out and put it on the table. We ate fruit together for a while. Eat fruit. She was lying in bed playing with her mobile phone, so I told her if you could close your eyes and give me ten seconds, and I'll surprise you. She said curiously, who believes you, can you change and still use your job? I say you just try. Later, she said she could close her eyes, so I quickly opened the clothes I bought in front of her. I told her to open her eyes and see the surprise I brought her. I am very happy, and I think she must be very happy, too. Who knows that she opened her eyes and sat up directly, not only unhappy, but also loudly scolded me for being sick. I was scolded at once. I hope you don't particularly like this suit. You should be happy. Why are you not only unhappy, but also angry and scold me? I asked her if you liked this suit very much. I think you didn't want to buy it secretly.

Then she spoke to me loudly in a commanding tone and took it back immediately. She said why I bought it without her consent. I said why I want to return it if I like it and why I don't buy it if I like it. She said she liked it very much, but the price was too expensive. She didn't want it, so I comforted her and bought it if she liked it. I don't care about money at all, what I care about is our feelings. But she and I are just the opposite. She is the thrifty type. So comfort not only doesn't work for her, but makes her more angry. She suddenly went crazy and threw it away if I didn't return it. Later, I cut the tag and told her not to return it. As a result, she grabbed the clothes and threw all the fruits on the table on the ground, saying that I didn't save money at all. Later, I was very angry and had a quarrel with her. One night, it was fierce until twelve o'clock at night. Then I lay in bed and watched my mobile phone for a while. She saw me playing with my mobile phone and slammed the door and went out. I thought if I went out so late, you would definitely come back late. I waited until 1 o'clock, 2 o'clock and 2: 30. Time passed little by little, and no one saw it. I started to panic, so I went out to look for it for a while, but I didn't find it when I came back. I called her colleague again to ask if she went to her place. Her colleague said no, and I was angry that I didn't answer her phone. I used to look for it until I found it back. One day, I could look for a while. My colleague said I wouldn't go and she wouldn't answer the phone, so I stopped looking.

Maybe I'm a little tired. I fell asleep soon. When I woke up, it was already past 7 in the morning. I jumped out of bed. Oh, my God, why didn't I come back? I am particularly panicked. I got up without brushing my teeth or washing my face. I picked up my cell phone and ran out of the room to look for it. Who knows, when I opened the room door, she fell asleep leaning against the stair wall. At that time, I took a deep breath and secretly rejoiced. I'm glad that God will keep her safe. Later, in retrospect, I think this is the most rude behavior towards my girlfriend, because my behavior may lead to her danger. After that, I never quarreled with her again. When I encounter unhappy things, I choose to be silent and face everything with an inclusive attitude. At the same time, I also hope that the partners in love can meet the unhappiness between two people, understand each other when quarreling, and accept everything with an inclusive attitude. There is no afterlife in this life.

That was the most heartless decision I made after my wife betrayed me. Under normal circumstances, I am still relatively soft-hearted.

At that time, she said that she was going to visit her friends for a few days. In another city not far from me, I let her go without much thought. There was no sign before the behavior that there was something wrong with her. I always believed that she never looked at her cell phone! When she left, she said she would come back in two or three days. I asked her if she would not come back after three days. She said she wouldn't come back for two days. I was on the phone, and she said her friend didn't go out in the afternoon because they went into the mountains and didn't have a car. I believed it then! Later, every time I sent her a video, she was in the dark.

What makes me feel wrong most is that she used to call me every day to send messages and videos every time we were apart, but this time she rarely sent me messages, so I think it's strange that she said the signal was bad.

About ten days later, she came back. When I came back, I was very busy. I just looked at her, and that feeling told me that something was wrong. That's it. I asked her what happened. She said nothing. I said don't lie to me. I can feel it.. She still insisted that it was nothing, but didn't send me a message. I told her a lot never to send anyone a WeChat again! Everything that should be deleted has been deleted! I knew something was wrong when she didn't talk.

Going home to sleep at night, she doesn't take off her clothes, turns off the lights and takes off her clothes in bed. I felt something was wrong at once, because she had a habit of never undressing in bed for so many years. I wonder why she turned off the light and took off her clothes. At that time, my brain was humming!

Then I turned on the light and didn't expect to see a hickey on her neck. I was so angry that I smashed everything at home. I asked her what was going on. At first, she didn't say anything, saying that she was playing games with her best friend! I said, are you kidding a fool?

Later, under my repeated questioning, she admitted that someone had sex!

When I calmed down, I asked her what to do! If you want that man back, she is still an ambiguous man and wants to be with that man. I just want to give him a step. After all, she has children. I didn't think she wanted to go with someone else. I said what I had to say, but she still said we couldn't go back! I didn't stay because I said a lot of pros and cons before! She just won't listen!

Then the epidemic came! It's almost Spring Festival. She may have nowhere to go. She called me and asked me if I wanted her back. I said impossible. How did I make you so heartless? Then she sent me a message and called me, but I didn't answer! Until the end of the year, it was also a particularly sad year for me! I told her about the divorce procedure over the past year. She didn't agree. Let me give her another chance. I said impossible! She kept begging me to give me a chance to say that no matter what others said, she would bear it alone. I just want to say that this is something you can bear instead of me, right? Later, I lied to her that we could divorce first and remarry after we calmed down, and tricked her into going to the civil affairs bureau to get a divorce certificate!

In fact, I felt pain at that time. Don't feel bad! Look at her pleading eyes and cry! The way I divorced was cruel!

Now I'm doing well! Thank you for her betrayal and leaving!

The last time I asked for nothing in return was to chat with my neighbor's man and inadvertently reveal my wife's unknown secret. The neighbors are a newly married couple. The man is tall and handsome, and the woman is fashionable and tall. She usually drives to and from work, which is a typical image of urban white-collar women.

Neighbor men often travel for work reasons.

That time, it was a morning. After washing, I'm going to work. While waiting for the elevator, the couple who met their neighbors also opened the door. I didn't sleep well because of the noise next door the night before, and I was sleepy.

My neighbor asked me if I didn't sleep well. I said half jokingly, yes, you are usually so noisy that you haven't had a good rest recently.

The man next to me understood what I meant and said apologetically, well, I'll pay attention to it later.

I said, haha, I didn't go to bed until 2 am last night. You guys are really noisy.

The man next door suddenly froze. He said, I went on a business trip yesterday and didn't come back until after 6 o'clock this morning.

After another five seconds, the man next door squeezed out a smile and said, you must have misheard me. I responded awkwardly, maybe I heard it wrong! I glanced at my neighbor's daughter and saw that she gave me a white look and her face flushed.

On the way to work, I thought, maybe I really heard wrong!

I remember it was 12 March. Nine years later, my first girlfriend and her whole family vanished, and suddenly added me to WeChat to meet and talk about each other for nine years, which was a trick. In the last three years, they have separated by a Pearl River and three subway stations. We didn't say goodbye because she suddenly went to into thin air. At that time, 12 was single and wanted to continue to interrupt her relationship for 9 years.

I didn't promise. Leaving without saying goodbye nine years ago really broke my heart. Although I have been looking forward to seeing her again for nine years, she has done me too much harm.

That night at the end of March, I remember it was the bus stop at the top of Yuancun Mountain. She hugged me tightly and said that she would stay with me to make up for the debt in the past nine years. I don't know why she was so heartless that day. I pushed her away, turned away, hid on the overpass and watched her take a taxi. I didn't go home. More than half an hour later, she sent a message saying that she had arrived home, if I am willing to forgive.

I haven't contacted her since I received this message.

But occasionally in the dead of night, the scene of that night will be recalled, just like a movie.

The head teacher rushed into the classroom and said angrily to me, "You are a student with no education at all. An old man stood outside waiting for you for an hour, and you didn't even go to see her! Give it to me quickly! " I didn't explain. I'm just a kid. My grandmother came to see me at school, but I deliberately ignored her arrival. Everything I said was wrong.

Reluctantly, I saw a beautiful but disgusting woman standing beside my grandmother with a white umbrella.

Grandma gave me 50 yuan. I just ran out of money and didn't have the courage to ask my mother for money, so I took my grandmother's money.

Grandma told me with a runny nose and tears that when I was a child, I once had diarrhea, and several beds at home were stained by me. I have no memory of what she said, because my parents were divorced by an intermediary not long after I was born.

"Silly child, call mom!" Grandma looked at me eagerly. Although I am a very obedient child, this sentence is as disgusting as letting children eat shit. I've been around for half my life, and I didn't give grandma face that time.

I stared at the fifty dollars, which I bought with shame. At first, the third party was a woman with a white umbrella. She stole her husband and became my father's wife, and my grandmother was the original accomplice.

Now that my grandmother is 80 years old, she calls me again and again and says she has something to entrust me with. I struggled for a long time. Finally, the netizen suggested that I pull down her mobile phone, which I did cruelly. In the future, I will never know her life and death, nor will I deliberately ask.

This is the most rude thing I have ever done. I am thirty years old. There won't be a self-righteous class teacher to teach me how to be a man this time.

There was once a boy who liked me for many years. The year after I got married, he waited for me downstairs all night. He said he could finally see me again and let me go back to my hometown for a blind date. I didn't go down at last. I think this is the most cruel thing for him.

I met him when I was fifteen. We both work in Chengdu, and he always takes care of me. Even after I refused him countless times, he remained the same. Until I saw that I married someone else. At the beginning of the marriage, he also said that he would not get married unless I got married. In case my husband treats me badly one day, he is still waiting for me.

In fact, the more he does this, the more guilty I feel. Although I never gave him any hope or promise, it was because of me.

One day in the second year of marriage, he sent a message that his parents threatened him to get married as soon as possible. He was eight years older than me, and he was in his thirties. He said that he had taken a train from Chengdu to Tianjin, where I got married. He just wants to see me one last time.

Originally, he didn't know the specific address of my home, but my husband insisted that I see it. Sent the address. Arrived at ten o'clock in the evening, watching him carry a backpack, smoking in the flower bed in front of the building, and looking up from time to time.

I didn't go down after all. I'm afraid he will change his decision when he sees me. I don't want to give him a glimmer of hope. He sat all night and didn't leave until six in the morning.

I think that time, I was too rude.