202138-0207 Love in trivial matters

In fact, I was anxious for two days intermittently in order to hand in my homework. Until 6:30 on Sunday morning, I cooked the porridge, prepared the breakfast ingredients, sat in front of the computer, and decided to write about this week’s work. There are chicken feathers and a lot of garlic skin. As for whether it can be collected into a feather duster, or you can see the chicken, or you can use a feather duster to sweep the garlic skin, and you can find garlic in the garlic skin~~, I don’t know.

Monday was the day for the "threesome" party that was scheduled early, but on Sunday a bad storm hit two of the three people. Whether to get together or not became a question; appreciate my sister's Believe and respect, believe that the choice everyone makes for themselves is the best choice, and it is also what we most want to give to each other. We finally got together, three people and one dog, for five hours, it was like a symphony concert in nature, with "Destiny" and "Gothenburg Variations" echoing in our ears, allowing us to roar the undercurrents running in our hearts. Come out, let us shake hands with our past selves, let us be full of love for the future, wash our hands, and create with each other's warmth. I thought in my heart that this year I would bring respect, trust and patience to all relationships, my own, my children's~~~, like the unique aroma of garlic!

On Tuesday, I woke up suddenly with a stomachache. I used the knowledge I learned to understand that the stomach is the second brain of human beings, responsible for emotions. I knew that the "volcano" accumulated in the stomach was shaken by the intense emotions yesterday afternoon. Then It's my own part. The accumulation of residual tension and pressure from all the past years, coupled with the excessive food that came back "involved" last night, a feeling of meeting old and new hatreds. Drop everything and take care of your stomach! The hot water bottle is my universal magic weapon. My son helped me boil the water and fill it up. I shared my recent experience with him. I feel that every time I say bad things about others behind their backs, I feel very uncomfortable. Because what we see in others, It’s like what we see in the mirror, and it’s like one more time to say that we are not good. My son turned around and said back to me, that's because you still have a "conscience", and I instantly experienced "unconditional love" (I can write a chapter about this, unconditional love is something we are born with). At the same time, I also think about whether we should choose kind self-digestion or non-violent expression when we are unconsciously hurt by language. Kindness also includes kindness to ourselves. Be kind to yourself and others, eliminate the violence of communication, and make communication a precious and luxurious process of exchanging inner feelings and creating joy! This is the chicken I want to raise from a piece of chicken feather! I kept lying down to feel the news about my stomach. At noon, my aunt came and specially cooked millet porridge for me. My friend sent me a WeChat message and shared the "pain". This is something I rarely do, showing weakness and sharing pain. Hot water bottles, millet porridge, and friends slowly made my stomach pain heal. Behind this is love. In the evening, with love and gratitude, I led the first glasses-changing base camp activity with Sister Yan and many CMW TTT partners, and gained mutual connections, natural innovation and knowledge about the process and specific design. Point, with a heart of pure love, create together, keep improving, and benefit yourself and others.

Wednesday and Thursday, this day on the calendar is empty, and I don’t want to check the journal. The days without chickens, chicken feathers, garlic skins and garlic are also the days we look forward to for peace of mind, okay? Early Thursday morning, I spent two hours of my so-called "productive" time shopping on Taobao and buying new clothes for my family. At that time, I felt that my time was wasted. But now the clothes are arriving one after another, and I have received photos of my family trying on new clothes. Seeing the smiles on their faces and feeling a lot of joy and surprise flowing between us made me feel that those two hours of "surfing" were particularly meaningful because it created the flow of love, connection and happiness! Standing at different points in time and looking at the same thing, you can deeply appreciate the beauty of the passage of time. Of course, it may also be the regret and sadness of missing it! Who knows what is good and what is bad, so the intention at the moment is very important! In the choice between fear and love, start from love!

Friday is the happiest day of the week because I hear all five love languages ??of praise, gifts, quality time, service and physical touch, and it feels like I am traveling around the world. Many things happen seemingly out of the blue, but they happen naturally, just like the weather after the beginning of spring, which suddenly becomes brighter! After running and taking yoga class, I had afternoon tea with Shanshan. She brought her little cotton-padded jacket and my gift for the Year of the Ox, a red scarf. May the Year of the Ox be smooth and safe! Over the past seven or eight years, we have witnessed each other's growth and changes, and finally our hearts met in a quiet lake called "home", like two fish gathering together! I quickly received Xiao Hu's family when I got home. I received an authentic "Lao Ding Feng" rattan fruit box, which is a Northeastern snack. There was the Xiao Zha Ban'er that I am most familiar with. We talked about the young people's growth plans and middle school. "Physical education class" for young people, a vibrant life.

At the beginning of the Chinese lantern festival, we drove for an hour to make an appointment with the "Foodie Four". The four of us got along best at Nok Kee back then. We used to go eat spicy hotpot at noon four out of five days a week. Now we are like this It’s hard to find something to eat. It’s not so much a foursome of foodies as it is a foursome of big-hearted and capable people. Xiao Tiantian still works hard to fulfill other people’s dreams. Brother Xu leads two young masters. She started her MBA journey as the top pick and gained the reputation of "Hello Kitty" in the workplace. She is in charge of the main plan of a large company. I think Wang Xifeng is not as powerful as her. The little star is still shining. It is said that she leads a team of 91 people to do a good job. "Tyrannosaurus", but he still helped me mix the ingredients, from the sky to the bottom, from parents to professional discussions, and also reminded me to add free duck blood. Surprisingly, when the store said there was no Coke and Arctic Ocean, none of them popped. It can be seen that time has still given us the glory of gentle motherhood. After eating until the mall closed, we only received a reminder from the 5-year-old young master. If something goes wrong, rest assured that no one will worry about it! After I got home, I couldn't calm down for a long time. I used Journal to complete the prototype of my "Rome City". The result of Sister Yan's cranial nerve coaching was physical exercise, good relationships, and connection with my own values, goals, and meanings. I completed it this week. Got it!

As I write this, I find that in this trivial life, starting from love, being full of goodwill, interacting and communicating with the language of love, caring for one's body, taking care of one's mood, and satisfying one's wishes, maybe we The greatest contribution to the world! In the Year of the Ox, may everyone tie chicken feathers into dusters, put away garlic skins to reveal garlic (poetry), find the chickens you want to raise (far away), create and enjoy good relationships, and live a happy life with love!