Inland river composition in my heart

Why are copper coins round inside and outside? This is the concentrated expression of China's dialectical philosophy, that is, to do things wisely and to be round.

People living in this world are facing two worlds, the outside world and their own inner world. People, a lifetime is nothing more than two things-doing things and being a man. How many people have lamented the difficulty of being a man all their lives.

One: Speak first, do things carefully, that is to say, we must follow the rules and regulations. People often say that "no rules can't make Fiona Fang" and "do whatever you want", which is the truth of "Fang". In other words, being an official must abide by the principle of good faith. Be honest in doing business. Learn to believe that ears are a "true" word.

Two: round. This circle is definitely not sleek and sophisticated, nor is it mediocre and incompetent. This circle is round, generous, accommodating, intelligent and foolish, kind to people, and highly sound and mature. Don't be aggressive because you know others' weaknesses, don't be overbearing because you are better than others, and at no time will people feel depressed and afraid because you insist on your own personality and views. At any time, you will not go with the flow, you will influence others subtly, and people will not feel compelled. This requires extremely high quality, extremely high understanding and skills, which is the noble realm of being a man.

If so, anyone who is lonely inside will be happy to bluff; Weak-hearted people must be good at foxes and tigers; People with ghosts in their hearts will love to play tricks; People who have no self-confidence are bound to suffer. How can such a person be round?

Of course, there are also some people who do not hesitate to hold their breath, please all parties and meet with the surrounding "circles" for certain interests and purposes. But this circle is absolutely different from that one. Behind this "circle" is hypocrisy and ugliness.

Be a round person, there will be sacrifices. Sometimes you have to sacrifice yourself, sometimes you have to bear the burden of humiliation and submit to humiliation; More often, I have to bear humiliation, misunderstanding and even harm from my relatives.

Being able to be "square" and "round" without feeling a kind of sacrifice and pain is a great success and great realm; What can be sacrificed for "square" and "circle" is small success and small realm; People who are unwilling to sacrifice and cannot be "square" and "round" are unsuccessful. If, on the other hand, things are round, as long as they are beneficial, they will do whatever it takes; If you are square, sharp and eccentric, sharp-edged and ruthless, then this person is terrible and cannot be tolerated in this world. ...