How to communicate with people while eating?

At the dinner party, most people who pay attention to these three details when handing out cigarettes are not simple and deserve to make friends!

In the workplace, people who can go further often have high emotional intelligence. Because people with high emotional intelligence have stronger social skills and can win more resources for the company and themselves when socializing, they are valued by leaders.

If you make friends with such a person when socializing, you can not only learn some social skills and experience from him, but also cooperate with him, exchange resources with each other, promote each other's development and achieve a win-win situation for both sides.

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Therefore, it is particularly important to distinguish who belongs to this category at dinner. Only when you distinguish them from others first, and then make targeted friends with them, can you get what you want.

At dinner, we can distinguish such people from many aspects. There are three main aspects: his speaking skills when eating, the subtle movements when eating, and the methods used when talking to others actively.

The focus here is on the methods used by such people when they actively communicate with others. When eating, you need to master certain skills if you want to go up and talk to others.

If you chat directly, you will not only fail to get to know each other, but also leave a bad impression on the other side. So when you go up and talk to people, you have to have an excuse. When eating, there are many excuses, such as toasting others, greeting others, handing others cigarettes and so on.

However, just using these actions as an excuse is not enough. When doing these actions, there are also many details to pay attention to. If you don't pay attention, it means that this person has never practiced kung fu at home.

Take cigarette delivery as an example. People who pay attention to these three details when eating and handing out cigarettes are probably not simple and worth making friends with!

Don't hold a cigarette holder.

When eating, handing someone a cigarette is actually saying hello to the other person, but if you refuse to hand it, the next topic will be affected, so you should know what to do if you are rejected.

If you refuse a cigarette, there are generally three situations. The first case is that the other party does not smoke, so it is rejected. The second situation is that the other person looks down on you, so he doesn't want to accept cigarettes. The third situation is that you hold a cigarette holder when handing out cigarettes, and the other party thinks it is unsanitary and refuses.

This paper mainly analyzes the third situation, because the first two are each other's problems and the third is our own. People who are not simple will pay attention to this detail when handing out cigarettes to prevent the other party from refusing because they feel unsanitary.

Pay attention to the order when handing cigarettes.

At dinner, you should pay attention to skills when handing cigarettes. If there are many people, you can't just give some people smoke. If you only give some people cigarettes, others will think you look down on him.

In addition, pay attention to the order of handing out cigarettes, and don't hand out cigarettes casually. For example, leaders or important customers, you should give them a cigarette first to say hello, so as not to be rude. People who are not simple know this rule, so they won't make mistakes in this detail.