Week 2022.03

Date: Monday, June 65438, 2022+10/October 65438+July.

Coordinates: Zhenjiang

Weather: sunny

I'm Colette, and I'm here to meet you, raising children scientifically with my left hand, growing myself with my right hand, and being a female growth consultant around you.

Our company has no rest this week, and all of us have to work overtime, because we have to save overtime time for the Chinese New Year, so that we can have a few more days off during the Chinese New Year.

I combed this week in my spare time and listed the framework. I'm super happy!

Sister Shuai recently published a new book, Write Your Wish on Paper, which is also a true portrayal of my week!

I came into contact with and used the efficiency manual on 20 18. At that time, I also had many innovative versions, but I failed to understand the essence.

Blind imitation, finally used for 2-3 years, can not persist, changed to electronic version!

I don't know who you are. I use the electronic version, and I don't feel anything.

I am a nostalgic person, I like to use the paper version of things, look at the jumping words on the paper and feel the passage of time!

As luck would have it, I bought the thin edition in early 2022 under the recommendation of Master Cong Cong this year, and I got a better understanding of the concept of use, so this year's efficiency manual was filled in with 100%, which is very substantial!

What did I accomplish this week? I said listen!

1. 10- 1. 16

2022 article 03 Weekly resumption

Punch in the nutrition breakfast for 6 times, totaling11100 days.

Section 3 Complex Thinking Methods

Good parenting course 2

Soak your feet 5 times

Weekly reply

Daily reply: 7 articles

Micro Motion: 500

Listen to Lao Wang's live class 1 time.

Word-for-word draft of community actual combat section

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2022.03 Weekly Plan Review

? Recovery in 03 weeks

? Silk reeling method 1 chapter

? Jump rope 500 times

? Good parents will attend two courses.

? Punch in 5 times for nutritious breakfast

X Community Actual Combat Verbatim Draft Section II

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Career, family, self

career

This week, my work was overfulfilled, and I also helped the front desk to do customer service work, and at the same time cooperated with the boss to communicate with the hospital and asked for reconciliation.

Off-hours, get up early and get off work, for learning, growing, reading, reviewing, taking students, accompanying each other and nourishing growth!

Some people see a year's hard work and ignore the growth of 10. Be more determined about your future on the way to study this week.

I am very happy and super looking forward to meeting myself in the future.

The Second Family

① Daily high-quality companionship.

In the early years, I felt that children hindered my growth. That's because my pattern is too small. I am the biggest position in the world: mom.

At this stage, raising children is the main business and making money is a sideline.

Monica is looking forward to it every day. I can get off work early, watch TV and play games with her, and often surprise her, which may be related to my jump thinking.

For example, do you know people skate? I carried Monica on my back and held her ass in my hands. At home, it is an exaggeration to say that our flight flew to Australia … to the United States, and now to Japan …

When she wasn't looking, I scratched her in the blink of an eye, laughing every time, very happy.

In the teaching of positive discipline, it is mentioned that when children like a certain game, they will give out knowing laughter. This game is worth playing again, at least 3~5 times a day.

In the process of high-quality companionship with Monica, let her feel the unconditional love of her parents, store a sense of security and belonging, and accumulate strength for the future.

(2) Daily routine table upgrade.

This winter is particularly cold, so this primary school in Zhenjiang, Jiangsu Province had a holiday very early, and it was hard. Monica's grandmother comes to our house every day.

I watch Monica during the day, go to work and work in shifts at night, but what you don't know is that Monica is a particularly naughty child.

I have a lot of ideas and a big temper, so I discussed with Brother Long that we can discuss it in three ways and make a standard table of daily behavior.

Monica will get extra points for some projects, and Monica will get less points for some projects. Finally, with Monica's full consent, she got a 130 assessment.

If the score is above 80, it is considered as a pass and you have the right to watch TV for 20 minutes.

Monica's score has only been high since she made the upgraded daily management form.

Because of her words: the higher the score, the better.

The daily management table can help children manage themselves, and at the same time, they can get good habits and favorable tools.

If you are interested in the daily management table, you can refer to my previous article, hoping to inspire you.

Raising children requires methods, which get twice the result with half the effort; The method is wrong, and parenting is tiring. If the parenting process is very tired, it means that the method is wrong and you need to try a new method!

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Three selves

In addition to work, entrepreneurship and family, it is self-growth. This week, we will advance in an orderly manner according to the goals set in 2022, such as:

I: Section III of the Complex Center Method

To find your own life mission, you can find the meaning of life through the 80th birthday party, the life mission statement, and the second creation of people. The dry goods articles will be shared in detail later.

Two: when the child's self-confidence is insufficient, we should encourage him, not attack him!

This week's case is because children are not confident, don't want to go to school and don't want to eat. When my mother was sleeping with him, she found that she had enough sleep, but the next day she would still say: I am dizzy and don't want to go to school.

In fact, the underlying logic is because children have a certain fear of school and may have poor learning ability.

It's very hard and stressful at school. Too much pressure leads to the decline of physical function, picky eaters and decreased resistance.

Because of this, parents should not blindly label their children and vent their emotions, but should think about how to better help our children.

How to help children?

Step 1: The same principle is required.

Tell the children that my mother felt that the teacher was under pressure to scold me for not keeping up with the school curriculum, and so was my mother when she was a child. What do you think of my mother? What can she do for you? Or you want me to do something.

Step 2: Tell your parents' true feelings.

I see that when you do your homework at night, you don't want to write when you encounter problems, and then you play games and watch videos late into the night.

I'm worried about your health, and at the same time, your appetite is not very good. In the long run, your body will collapse.

(added before the verb) means "negative" and "opposite"; (added before nouns to form verbs) means "get rid of", "get rid of"

The third step is to invite children to discuss how to solve this problem.

Look, how do you adjust your state, or how do you want your mother to help you?

Make deep links with children, so that children can feel that parents don't blame him for learning problems, but really care about health from his point of view, so they pay attention.

Solve problems through link analysis, and then help children better.

So when our parents know the scientific parenting methods, they can help their children in time.

You can also make things worse because of your emotions, so I also appeal to you: you can learn how to be a good parent and contribute to your children's future.

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Reflection this week

What needs to be reflected this week is whether to read quickly or chew slowly. Here, my opinion is that classic books should be read slowly.

For practical books, we must apply what we have learned. Fast is not the most important thing, the key is to be able to apply what you have learned, change your present life and solve problems!

Therefore, when learning knowledge or learning, we must use knowledge for the purpose, which is also the fundamental difference between adults and children.

Adults must study to solve problems, while children study to supplement extensive knowledge.

Keep in mind the principle of applying what you have learned.

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Parenting gains &; Self-healing meaning

This week's parenting harvest, all children are looking for a sense of security and belonging. In the process of raising children, especially children, we must give enough;

Significance of self-improvement: As a mother, you need to be strong in all aspects, work hard, raise children, improve yourself and live a wonderful life!

Being a parent allows you to:

Another childhood, regret will not repeat itself.

Once again, life will become extraordinary.

Without nurturing, there is no growth.

Raise children and meet yourself better.

Being a parent is the beginning of your life.

Savagery is the best journey of your life.

Heal yourself, heal yourself.

Continuous improvement and growth

No one is born a good parent.

Good parents need to learn.

What kind of person do you want your children to be?

What will you become?

With Colette, parenting is better for you.

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Plan for the fourth week of 2022

Re-examination course method 4

Breakfast punch: 5 times

Micro Motion: 500

Good parents in the second quarter

Resume in the fourth week of 2022

Word-for-word draft of section 1

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Raising yourself can really make you happier and happier!

Just look at my reply every day.

My circle of friends opens a daily re-opening clock, and the weekly, monthly and annual re-opening clocks are in the official WeChat account.

There are parenting records and self-growth. As a mother, my greatest wish is:

I hope that children will grow up healthily and excellently, and keep pace with their growth, and * * * will get better and better!

If you are a woman or a mother, welcome to learn and grow with me.

See you in the fourth week of 2022, come on!

Zhou Xiao was really lucky in March 2022.

Monica executes the daily management table;

I have made a nutritious meal for 5 days, which is really awesome;

Jiaozi is really happy to eat handmade meat;

Helping others is really energetic.

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Good life = scientific parenting+self-growth

Mom not only knows how to raise children scientifically, but also knows how to grow up, so life can be better!

Bring out the best in you

Remember to pay attention to @ Colette after reading it.

See more dry goods in time.

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About the author: Colette, a working mother with her 7-year-old daughter Monica, focuses on scientific parenting and self-growth with the goal of becoming a female growth consultant.

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