Whoever can help me write an article on "Caring for the Lonely Elderly" will be grateful.

In 2022, two brothers from Hengshui took on a relay to take care of the orphaned elderly. The elder brother sacrificed his younger brother to relay the morning report from Hengshui. Hengshui City Wuyi County Public Security Traffic Police Brigade policeman Zhao Dongqi and Hengshui

Municipal Public Security Traffic Police Detachment policeman Zhao Dongli and two brothers , "Relay" took care of Geng, a widowed old man in the village of Masen Township, Taocheng District. For 22 years, Geng Guisuo wrote a little-known "love between father and son." In 1980, Zhao Dongqi, who had just started working, met Geng Guisuo, who was a "group maintenance worker" (mass road maintenance worker) at the Dasen Township Road Class in Hengshui City. Although they were not of the same generation, he

p>We became "friends who have forgotten the past year". Cooking and sleeping together, they share the same love as father and son. Since Geng Guisuo was childless and his family was poor, Zhao Dongqi brought an extra portion of food back to his work unit every time he went home. "Dongqi knew that I was getting older and my teeth were bad, so I cooked the rice until it was rotten..."

Every time he recalled that time, tears would well up in old man Geng's eyes. One evening in 1981, Mr. Geng wanted to go home after dinner. Suddenly he felt that he could no longer ride a bicycle. Zhao Dong

got up and saw that Mr. Geng looked very unhappy. I immediately reported it to the leader of the Taoist class, "Dong Qi and the leaders of the unit took me to Hengshui County Hospital (i.e. Hengshui Second People's Hospital) in a car. "After being diagnosed with tuberculosis, Old Man Geng said, "While he was hospitalized, he always served me from the beginning of the winter, cooking, washing, and taking care of me until he was discharged from the hospital." In 1983, Zhao Dongqi said.

The job requires transfer to the Wuyi County Public Security Traffic Police Brigade. Although the two are no longer together, Zhao Dong still often thinks about Old Man Geng who is dozens of kilometers away, especially when he learns that Old Man Geng is not in town as a temporary worker. , when there was no source of income, Zhao Dongqi was even more worried and couldn't move on because he was too busy with work

When he went to visit, he asked someone to send clothes, groceries and money to the old man. This care lasted for 19 years. On the evening of June 22, 1998, Zhao Dongqi, a policeman from the Wuyi County Public Security Traffic Police Brigade, died while performing his duties. The sad news of losing his long-lost acquaintance made Old Man Geng devastated, and he shed tears every day.

"Dongqi is gone. He has taken care of me for many years, but his family doesn't know it at all!" Geng

The old man rode his bicycle to find Zhao Dongqi's home, visited Dongqi's parents and told him Take good care of him since winter

. Zhao Dongqi's younger brother Zhao Dongli, who was working in the grain depot in Hengshui City at the time, knew Old Man Geng, but did not know that his brother had such a "relationship" with Old Man Geng. His brother

is gone, but the old man cannot be left alone to take care of him. Zhao Dongli quietly made up his mind to take over his brother's burden and fulfill his unfulfilled wish. Zhao Dongli, who was working in the grain depot at the time, had a low salary. His wife had been laid off and was at home. He had grieving parents and young children. The family lived frugally and lived a busy life. Wide

Yu. But Zhao Dongli has never discounted his support to Old Man Geng. During the New Year and holidays, he first prepares enough New Year's goods for Old Man Geng and then buys his own. When he buys good things at home, he does not forget to leave a place for Old Man Geng.

Share. Every time Zhao Dongli visits Old Man Geng at his home, he has to sweep the floor, fetch water, and cook for him.

Seeing that Old Man Geng is in a bad mood, he uses his spare time to chat with him because he feels unwell.

Zhao Dongli once again became the only "relative" who delivered medicine to Old Man Geng. In 2000, Zhao Dongli became a traffic policeman. Last winter, after the TV station forecasted the news of the cooling of the temperature, Zhao Dongli and his mother both thought of Old Man Geng. Zhao Dongli, who had just finished the night shift, did not have time to rest. A sack of clothes prepared by his mother was delivered to Old Man Geng's home. It wasn't until he watched Old Man Geng put on the cotton-padded clothes that Zhao Dongli dragged his tired body home.

People are afraid of getting sick when they get old. In August this year, when Zhao Dongli was in the midst of a city-wide crackdown operation

when he learned that Old Man Geng was suffering from cerebral thrombosis, he immediately rushed to Old Man Geng’s home. Fortunately, Old Man Geng’s home was his.

The illness is not serious, but my memory is a little worse. But Zhao Dongli was afraid that the old man's illness would relapse, so he went to all the major hospitals in Hengshui City to consult doctors, and bought hundreds of yuan of medicines and nutritional supplements for the old man.

Until Old Man Geng's condition is stable... "It's not difficult for a person to do a good deed. The most important thing is to do good deeds for a lifetime! If Old Man Geng hadn't come to our post to find Zhao Dongli, I really wouldn't have known about the two brothers 22 "Take care of the lonely elderly people you don't know every day like a day!" Xu, the captain of the first squadron of the Hengshui City Public Security Traffic Police Detachment, happily told reporters. 2: Today, the staff of Huguang Community came to the home of Zhai Shichun, a lonely elderly man in the jurisdiction, and visited the old man. His wife passed away last month due to illness. The old man was still feeling sad. When going through the formalities I have been to the community, which is very close to Zhai Shichun's home. I have visited him many times, but there has been no one there. Today, just after the old lady returned home, community cadres came to her to inquire about the situation.

The old man's face, which had been sad for many days, finally showed a smile...

The old man was very excited and happy when he saw us after a long absence. We told the old man, don't be too sad and pay more attention. Your own body, we will visit you often in the future to help you clean, wash clothes, etc. We know that what the elderly need most now is spiritual comfort, not just material help. When we left, the old man held our hands and said, "I hope you will come often and chat with me in the future. I am really happy today." In fact, we also felt deeply. As community workers, when we heard the old man say this to us , you can imagine how satisfied we are. It doesn’t matter how vigorous and vigorous we are in doing things. As long as we can give people and society some warmth and contribution, we will be satisfied...

Caring for the lonely elderly is a long-term job , you need to keep doing it. Our community workers just want to really do something meaningful for society, and we don’t ask for anything in return, we just need to dedicate our love.

Three: On the eve of the Mid-Autumn Festival, members of the community assistance and disability associations came to the nursing home to visit the disabled elderly Du Xiaoping, presented them with Mid-Autumn Festival moon cakes and minimum living allowance, and wished the elderly good health during the festival. The old man was very touched by the happy and sincere greetings. Due to physical reasons, the elderly have no ability to work, no financial income, and no children to support them. Now they live in nursing homes for a long time and rely on the care of others. We realize a lot when standing next to the elderly. With the care and concern of the party and government departments at all levels, the elderly can live happily in nursing homes; eating, sleeping, walking, chatting, and simple collective life make the elderly long for the arrival of their relatives. , longing for life to be richer and more fun, so the old man seemed very happy to see us coming. Visiting the lonely elderly is a long-term task that requires everyone to persist in doing it. But to really do something meaningful for society without asking for anything in return. In the work of serving the elderly, the community adheres to the basic principles of harmonious community, humanistic care, and humanized management. While doing a good job in social withdrawal, it also does a good job in management and services for the elderly without income, and tries its best to provide the elderly with as much life as possible. Strive for benefit enjoyment so that the elderly can enjoy the same care under harmonious humanistic care! Four: It was a sunny Sunday. My mother woke me up early, and I got up quickly. The reason for doing all this is to prepare for visiting the lonely old man.

We drove to Chengguan to meet the others. After they made their decision, they set off. A group of us walked to the first old man's home first, because this old man's home was on the mountain. We climbed for 20 minutes and finally arrived at this old man’s house. The old man looked at us and smiled so hard: “How do you know my house?” She said while pouring water for us, “Grandma, tomorrow is It’s the Double Ninth Festival. We asked the government for your address and made a special trip to see you.” I answered sweetly, thinking: Do these old people have no children? Why is it so pitiful? Before I could react, grandma asked again: "What company do you belong to?" Mom had the upper hand: "Oh, we are not from any company. We are just here to see you on behalf of a caring group. We are a member of a caring group. Everyone is spontaneous." At this moment, Uncle Boishui (screen name), the team doctor, took out the medical kit and said to grandma: "Auntie, let me check your body." I took my mother to grandma's house. On the balcony, I asked in confusion, "Mom, don't these old people have only children? Why are they so pitiful?" My mother smiled and replied: "It is because they have no children that they are called lonely old people, and they need more people in society. Come and take care." At this time, the team leader, Sister Xiaoniao (screen name), ran in front of my mother and me out of nowhere and said she was leaving. We walked out the door, and grandma reluctantly saw us off. She walked with a staggering step, holding a cane in her hand, and said as she walked: "Thank you, thank you." Grandma also wanted to see us off, so I quickly said: "Grandma, please go back, be careful of spraining Feet." Grandma smiled: "Okay, okay, I'll go back." Grandma watched us go downstairs, then turned around and walked into the house.

Thinking back on this incident today, I couldn’t help but smile with relief, because I did something meaningful. For example: My writing always contains some deliberately sensational elements.

Even if others don’t say it, I can actually feel it.

After today, I decided to change my writing style.

Some real pictures make me feel far more shocking than the sensational words.

When the alarm clock rang in the morning, I lay in the warm bed and didn't want to move at all. During this time, I rarely get up before eight o'clock. Especially last night I was busy writing a summary of the website and didn’t go to bed until one or two o’clock.

The alarm clock rang every one minute, making me unable to sleep anymore.

Get up in a hurry. After washing up, having breakfast, we went straight to the post office building.

When I arrived, people had already arrived, including Sanrangjun, Hello, Feisi, Main Melody, Lao Niu, McDull, xiah, Time to Wake Up, and the convener of this event, Football Boy, I have seen the netizens on these single aristocratic websites before. There are also a group of children and some teachers that I don't know. After asking around, I found out it was the Bright Center Nursery. In addition, the owner of Daguangming Optical Shop specially drove his school-going son to participate in our activities.

After a while, Xiao Xiao, the founder of the website, also came to the event. He had just returned to Shangyou from Shanghai in the early morning.

At around 8:40, Director Zhang of the Radio and Television Bureau arrived with reporters from the TV station.

Minister Zhang from the Youth League County Committee also came.

The staff is basically here. Everyone gathered in a circle in front of the postal building and the event convener briefly introduced the precautions, and the event officially started.

The team began to march to the first stop of the event in an orderly manner - the nursing home.

Ten minutes later, we arrived at the nursing home located at the foot of Heita Mountain.

When the activity members entered the nursing home carrying quilts, cooking oil, grapefruit, rice and other materials, the elderly came out of the room one after another. Everyone moved the materials to the storage room on the second floor, and then helped some elderly people with limited mobility into the yard, chatting with each other.

I am a sensitive person. As soon as I entered the yard, I was surrounded by a deep sense of loneliness, coming from the eyes and words of the old people. I deeply feel that the hearts of the elderly are extremely eager to communicate with others.

After chatting for a while, everyone moved stools from inside. Netizens and the elderly formed a circle in the yard and began to communicate face to face. First of all, Xiao Xiao, football boy, single noble and other netizens represented the website to pay New Year greetings to the elderly and briefly explained the original intention of the website to organize this event. Immediately afterwards, Director Zhang of the Radio and Television Bureau and Director Zhang of the Youth League County Committee respectively paid New Year greetings to the elderly on behalf of the Radio and Television Bureau and the Youth League County Committee. Then Director Kong of the nursing home briefly introduced the situation of the nursing home to netizens. Dean Kong said that in the past few years, with the care of the county committee and county government, the civil affairs department has regularly paid a certain amount of living expenses to each elderly person every month, and the county agencies and units such as the Public Security Bureau, Fire Armed Police and other units have also regularly organized personnel Send supplies. Therefore, the nursing home has been relatively well-off materially in recent years. Dean Kong also specially introduced that the nursing home has vigorously developed the courtyard economy in recent years. The entire nursing home can raise almost 20 pigs and grow some crops a year. These incomes allow the elderly to obtain a certain amount of remuneration based on their own strength. Director Kong said that some elderly people who are over 80 years old still consciously ask to participate in productive labor as long as their health permits, and regard the nursing home as their home from the bottom of their hearts.

After Dean Kong introduced the situation of the nursing home, there was a performance by the children of the Bright Center Nursery. The young children's voices said in unison to the old people present: "New Year's greetings to grandparents!" I sat opposite the old people, and inadvertently noticed that some old people had tears shining in their weather-beaten eyes.

The four lovely children sang and danced under the guidance of the teacher. They sang Happy New Year softly, and the old man and we clapped our hands gently. Perhaps, in the eyes of these old people, this is a kind of family happiness that belongs to them. At this moment, they may be happy; at this moment, they may pray in their hearts that time will stop.

However, time never stops. Before we knew it, our first stop was coming to an end. Before leaving, the old people held the members' hands and kept saying words of thanks, with eyes full of reluctance. I know that it’s not us or a specific group of people that they don’t want to part with, but they don’t want to let go of the long-lost warmth. They are just old people. A group of people who need care.

When I walked out of the nursing home, the originally gloomy sky suddenly cleared up. Turning around and looking at the old people standing at the door, we can only silently wish them good health and a peaceful old age in our hearts!

The second stop of the event. Huangbu feels pitiful. Visit poor students.

On the way, a netizen in the car accidentally told me something. He said that usually when passing by the nursing home, many students would drop in and sing a song for the elderly. When I heard what he said, I suddenly felt that the weather today was really good! While I was moved by the actions of these students, I was also thinking: If each of us could give a little love, maybe with just a little effort, would the old people be a little happier?

Considering that it is not advisable to have too many people when visiting students, so as not to cause inconvenience to the students. Our second leg of the event was appropriately reduced in personnel. Led by the football boy, Bureau Zhang of the Radio and Television Bureau, Minister Zhang of the Youth League County Party Committee, San Rangjun, Shanshui Haitian, Feisi, Time to Wake Up, McDull, Second stop activity.

Ten of us took three cars and rushed to Huangbu. We were in a car driven by Zhang Ju. Director Zhang joked that he was the driver and cameraman today, but after the whole event, we thanked Director Zhang from the bottom of our hearts. As a leader, he is approachable. He ran around with a camera and said with a smile that he felt much younger today.

After a long and dusty journey, we arrived at the home of a poor student in Gankeng Village. We started to visit the first house. When we approached the door, the first thing we saw was a broken wall. When I woke up from the dream, I couldn't help but ask the football boy how much the red envelope was for poor students. The football boy said two hundred. When I woke up from the dream, could I add a little more? After everyone discussed on the spot, it was unanimously agreed to give each poor student an additional 100 yuan in red envelope. Although this mere 100 yuan does not have a big effect, it is the moral support given by many netizens.

The first one. The student we visited is attending Jewish High School. His father works in the mines, his mother is disabled, and he has a child at home. The family's expenses are entirely supported by the father's meager income from working in the mines.

Her family lives in a house with mud walls that looks a bit dated, and her belongings can be seen at a glance. Her father greeted us warmly, and our cameraman nervously captured the shot, but when her mother came out of the house, no one had the heart to press the shutter. Due to a disabled leg, this cousin almost walked forward lying on the ground. In this scenario, pressing the shutter button is tantamount to cruelty. Netizens put down what they were holding and hurriedly helped her sit on a chair.

This student is a very pretty little girl with excellent academic performance. She sat shyly between us and told us about her studies. Several of the netizens were teachers, asking her about her study situation and guiding her on how to study better. In particular, McDull netizens specially prepared some small gifts for each student to encourage them to study hard. The child's father repeatedly said in the chat that as long as the child can study, no matter how poor or miserable he is, he will provide for the child. Minister Zhang of the Youth League County Party Committee timely introduced some student aid policies to parents of their children, reassuring them that as long as their children can enter college, the government and all sectors of society will lend a helping hand and mobilize social efforts to help poor students.

When I came back, Sanrangjun sent me a photo taken at this child’s home. There was only one cured meat hanging on the wall. It was probably what their family ate during the Spring Festival. When I look at this photo, I feel sad. That mottled wall, with the cured meat hanging lonely on it, reminded me of the mottled feeling in Jay Chou's song "Shanghai 1943", and time seemed to be passing by. While many children sang this song carefree and pretended to be cool, there were also some children who were overwhelmed by the weight of life, under the same blue sky.

After visiting the first family of students, we adjusted our mood slightly and went to the second home of poor students in Gankeng Village. The student's family situation is slightly better than that of the first family. But who said that happy people are always the same, but unfortunate people have their own misfortunes. We learned that this student’s father had passed away and her mother had remarried, leaving her to live with her grandparents.

This student is in the first grade of high school and his academic performance is relatively good. She looked more mature than the first student we visited. Or maybe the changes in life always make people grow faster. In this family, we mainly use our accompanying netizen Shan Shui Hai Tian to provide psychological counseling to the student, so that she can build up her confidence in life and encourage her to study hard. When I sent condolence money to the child on behalf of the website, I saw the strength in her eyes. I didn’t know what to say for a moment. I could only wish her healthy growth.

After finishing visiting the two students in Gankeng, it was already 12 noon. We drove to Youshi, had lunch there, rested for a while, and headed straight to the last stop of the day - Shexi Tangkeng.

The students visited this time are still in elementary school. Because his father suffered from mental illness and was sent to a mental hospital for compulsory treatment, the child has been living with his grandparents.

When we arrived, the little girl’s eyes gave me the feeling that she was confused about life, and she didn’t have the look of children of the same age at all. Maybe life has brought her too much harm. I found that although she is young, she always feels a little cautious when doing things. Is it because too much suffering has already filled her young mind with trepidation about life?

McDull asked her grandma to take out the child's study report card. Judging from the teacher's comments, the child's academic performance was not very good, and could even be described as poor. Who says that only poor students with excellent academic performance are worthy of our help? Such children make people feel even more heartbroken. They were originally just acting like a spoiled child in their parents' arms, but life made them experience the bitterness prematurely. When they grow up, their childhood memories are filled with endless gray skies.

What can I do to help you? Tiny little kid.

Each of us asks questions in our hearts.

It doesn’t matter if you are moved, this world has long been unreal even if you are moved. It doesn't matter if I'm sad, most of the time I feel numb even to sadness. Only these real people and real things can awaken our souls. I am very grateful to the organizer of the event for organizing this event, which gave me the opportunity to experience how happy our lives are. More important than experiencing happiness is to let us understand that there are many such people in need under this blue sky. Our care.

If possible, let us set fire to the prairie fire of love together and ignite the inner world of the lonely elderly and poor groups. Let us experience happiness without seeing sadness.

If you love, please love!