Talk about subjective assumption

Ding Shufeng? Teacher of Jiyang No.1 Middle School

One evening after work, probably because of the cold weather, there were fewer pedestrians on the road. Because there is no need to rush home, just push the bike for a walk. Suddenly, a big pet dog rushed in front of him. Suddenly, his shoulders felt stiff and his hair stood on end. He hurriedly put his bike in front of him in case he had to cope from time to time. The dog owner behind came with broken steps, holding a pet dog with a chain in his hand. While scolding his pet dog, he said faintly, "Nothing, don't bite!" " "And the stress on the word" bite "is particularly prominent. I replied: "you are the owner of the dog, of course you won't bite you." How can a stranger promise not to bite? "Besides, isn't it too late when you bite someone?" The dog owner seems impatient. "A big old man, are you afraid of this?" I think it's no use talking like this any longer, so I decided to run away. Imagine if you were a child, you would probably be scared to cry. What will the dog owner say? There will be no more guardians accusing the children. "Why don't you take care of your children?" Such a sentence pattern!

With the improvement of people's living standards and the wide range of interests, keeping pet dogs is no longer a patent in big cities, but there are such households in small counties. It is true that keeping a pet dog is your hobby. As long as it is reasonable and legal, others can understand it and have no right to interfere. But it's too much to impose your hobbies on others. For example, just now, his big pet dog has scared others, and he still speaks eloquently. That is, everyone else feels wrong, not to mention a dog that big, just a little teddy. After seeing others, he rushed up. Although he didn't scare anyone, he just rubbed your trouser legs once or twice or yelled at you. I don't think the people involved will be condescending any more. After all, many people always seem so "noble" when commenting on others, especially things that have nothing to do with themselves. In fact, in the current network language, such people are just "pretending".

When I arrived at the gate of my community, I found a Mercedes-Benz car with a foreign license plate parked at the gate. For a while, the cars outside were parked around, so Bluetooth was installed in the community. Mercedes-Benz drivers honked their horns again and again because they couldn't get into the community. The sound is too harsh. This time, the old guard was very calm and determined, as if to give the driver a hard time, but not to open the door for him. The driver of Mercedes-Benz may be tired or a little guilty, but he finally chose to get off the bus, run to the delivery door step by step, explain to the doorman, and was finally allowed to let him go. I think with this "small storm", this arrogant Mercedes driver may learn an important lesson in life: keep a low profile and not lose face. The doorman doesn't recognize the brand of your car, but only whether you have a Bluetooth card. That is, if you don't have a Bluetooth card, you just need to get off the bus and make things clear. Here, you should give a "praise" to the doorman who adheres to the principle. Of course, maybe he doesn't know the brand of the car you think is awesome. You see, the driver doesn't get off the bus, just honks the horn again and again. I think maybe his original situation is "invincible", so it is natural to add his values to everyone.

Baidu introduced the word "subjective judgment", which means "judge completely by your own imagination." In layman's terms, it is what I think, and there is no objective factual basis. "The above two people can make me' lucky' to meet continuously. Is it purely coincidence or necessity? From the angle of mathematical induction and reasoning proof, the format of "syllogism" in pre-logic, the major premise is that my dog has never bitten me, the minor premise is that you and I are both the same adults, and the conclusion is that my dog will not bite you. The latter's "syllogism" is: the major premise: the Mercedes I drive in other communities will start as soon as I see the car, and the minor premise: your community is no different from other communities. Conclusion: You should also start releasing me immediately. Both of them are "subjective assumptions", and the main premise of their own logic uses their own so-called "empirical" thinking mode, coupled with subjective and paranoid attitudes and positions, and gradually creates their own so-called "personality".

Su Shi once mentioned in "The Story of Shi Zhongshan": "Can you judge whether something is there or not without looking at it?" Express your views and opinions clearly: If you don't see them with your own eyes and experience them with your own hands, but only hear them or hear them through hearsay, can you be reliable? To say the least, what you saw must be reliable? A British historian named Walter Raleigh was sentenced to death for being falsely accused in 1603. Although he didn't execute it on the spot, he stayed in prison for thirteen years. He completed his masterpiece "World History" with extraordinary perseverance in prison. But one thing greatly stimulated him. Two jailers guarding him had an argument about what. He witnessed the whole process from beginning to end, and it happened that one of his friends came to visit him and witnessed the whole process. In the process of talking with friends, Walter found that friends' descriptions of things observed at the same time were quite different, and the conclusions were completely opposite. He was suddenly disheartened and directly burned the manuscript that he had spent 12 years working hard ... not to mention those two just now relied entirely on their "so-called experience"

I also heard a story about a haggard middle-aged man with his three children on the subway. The three children kept crying, so that the passengers around stood up and accused the man of not stopping his children from crying. The middle-aged man replied, "I want them to stop crying, too, but I really can't think of anything good to say because their mother passed away this morning!" " "Criticism around suddenly came to an abrupt end. The passengers around accused the man and his children of their usual experiences, and stood at the moral high ground and criticized them for not obeying public order and good customs, acting recklessly, and ignoring the feelings of other passengers. These people are always so pure when commenting on others, because "he never has to worry about pimples on others' faces." If it happens to him, he can do better than these three children without crying at all.

Once Su Shi paid a visit to a temple, but the monk ignored Su, who had just arrived, and said two words at the reception: Sit down and have tea. After chatting for a while, I found that this person had some knowledge, so I changed the wording: Please sit down and have tea. Later, I learned that this is a world-famous Dongpo layman, and the wording was changed to: Please sit down and propose a fragrant tea. When Su Dongpo left, the temple begged him to leave Mo Bao, and Su Dongpo left a couplet with a stroke of a pen. The first couplet is: please sit down, please sit down, please sit down; Bottom line: tea, tea, tea. Although this is a legendary story, the attitude of the monk who knows the guest is really annoying, and the "subjective judgment" mentality of judging people by their appearances is completely exposed to the world.

There used to be a joke in the cross talk: an idle loafer, whenever he saw the scene of a car accident, he pushed away the audience around him and bowed his head and shouted "uncle, uncle and so on", because of this, he got a lot of benefits. Once again, I saw many people around a scene, crying and trying to push away the surrounding audience. This time, I said "the deceased was my father" and people around me made room for him. As a result, he squeezed in and saw that it was a donkey that was killed.

In fact, in our real life, we have also heard such a joke: a simple-dressed, plain-looking Shanxi coal boss is going to buy a house, and the sales girl judges a book by its cover. Courtesy must be a bit slow, which makes the coal boss very angry, not only to buy this building, but also to buy a sales office and a sales girl. There must be ridicule or artistic processing in this, but there is no denying that people who make subjective judgments because they take it for granted in life have existed in history, in real life and will certainly exist in the future.

It is quite harmful not to proceed from reality, seek truth from facts, make subjective assumptions, take it for granted, and even go its own way. For example, it is often found that some students want to finish the problems in the shortest time, especially some application problems, such as tripling, but they take it for granted that they have tripled, so the calculated results must be wrong; Another example is the geometric carrier prism in solid geometry, which is usually placed vertically, and the bottom surface is the bottom. The problem of finding the volume is to multiply the area of the bottom by the height. This time, the prism was deliberately' put down', and quite a few students still thought that the bottom surface was the bottom surface, so naturally they would not get the correct answer. This kind of subjective assumption will continue to do great harm. For example, after a person gets married, he and his other half, the couple always take it for granted, which will definitely lead to war and family discord; No matter how big a unit is, the main leaders always take it for granted, which subordinates are not conscientious, which subordinates whisper bad things about the leaders together, and so on. This unit is certainly not full of vigor and vitality. If we change the commander on the battlefield, he will take it for granted. Do we dare to think about the final outcome?

Confucius said, "Learning is not enough." Is to educate us whether we are students or teachers; No matter ordinary people, ordinary people, or people in important positions and positions of power, they should keep learning and constantly improve themselves. Of course, learning here is not limited to books, but also includes learning from the ancients, learning from people around you, learning from developed countries, including some developed countries, and constantly reflecting on themselves. A person who keeps learning can fundamentally enlarge his own pattern, grow and progress, and not be blindly confident, which is not only a book, but also a reality. In the end, I will not look at the world with subjective paranoia, and fundamentally put an end to harming others and myself. Of course, I also hope that the two people I met that day, including myself, can continue to study and make progress on their own basis, even if they can make little progress, they can benefit others and themselves!