The child wants to go to grandma's house, but what does grandma mean when she says it doesn't matter?

The child wants to go to grandma's house, and grandma says don't come if it's cold. What do you mean? Think about it, it's definitely not that grandma doesn't like children, but that she's really worried that the weather is too cold. Treat children slowly, and if it's cold, it's not worth the candle.

To tell the truth, grandma has nothing to say about hurting her nephew. She would rather not eat or drink herself than leave good things to her children, which I know very well. I have told them many times that young people have everything at home. Don't think about it, they just won't listen.

One thing I remember clearly is that my father was laid off in those years and my brother's job was not settled. Just married, poor economic conditions, can't help. That winter, I said I would take my children to stay at home for a few days. My mother readily agreed and took the initiative to pick us up. Back to my mother's house, my mother gave us the best room. The coal stove is burning brightly, and the room is warm as spring. Mother said: Adults can say anything, but don't freeze my precious nephew.

Later, I learned that because of our arrival, grandma was worried about her children's suffering, so she borrowed money from others to buy carbon. Usually, they don't want to burn charcoal to keep warm ...

Grandma's feelings for her nephew are not adulterated, and she is very close to the next generation. She hopes that the children can come and go often. She would rather bother herself than refuse them to stay. Since grandma said she wouldn't let the children come, she must have a point.