The weather in Harbin is Weibo.

"Let's talk about it tomorrow ~"

"Maybe next time!"

We often hear this argument in our lives.

This kind of voice sometimes comes from my inner procrastination, and sometimes from the outside "persuasion".

It takes great courage and perseverance to overcome one's procrastination or goodwill "persuasion" from outside. Most people have failed to overcome this hurdle, and they postpone their plans with a clear conscience, which is also euphemistically called: calm.

But do you still remember those things that "will be done tomorrow" without rest?

After a day's work, I sat in bed tired, and suddenly remembered that I haven't called my parents for a month to chat, but today Weibo didn't brush or chat on WeChat, so I'd better reward myself for a hard day and call again tomorrow. Work, tired to go home, weekends, days passed day by day, and it took a long time to think of that greeting phone again.

I have prepared the raiders and equipment in advance, and I want to see the holiness of Potala Palace and enjoy the sunshine on the plateau. However, a few days before departure, I heard reasonable persuasion from my companions, such as "it's not peaceful recently" and "the scenery will be better in a few days", and I delayed my trip half-heartedly. Until now, I haven't set foot on the westbound train.

Tomorrow and next time seem to be very inclusive, and we can accept all our delayed trips. Even if not, there will be tomorrow and next time, but how many plans will disappear tomorrow and how many love will end next time.

Tomorrow is beautiful and can give us a new beginning, but it is unpredictable. Maybe there will be more storms and more urgent emergencies waiting for us tomorrow. The only thing we can do is to seize today and do it at once, so as not to let tomorrow live up to today's hospitality.

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I have experienced two things recently, which make me more convinced of the significance of doing it at once.

First, I made an appointment with some friends to go to the amusement park next to the school, a place I've always wanted to go since my freshman year, but I haven't been there before graduation. To this end, I also pulled a WeChat group for everyone to communicate and send photos. The night before departure, the regiment exploded.

"I'm tired after playing basketball all afternoon. I want to have a rest tomorrow. I won't go to the amusement park. Sorry, have fun! "

"Oh, you can't go. That's boring. I'm not going either. "

"If you don't go to the trough, I don't want to go. I just want to wash clothes tomorrow. "

............

I stayed in the lab for a day, only to see these news very late. Reply: I will graduate in a few days, and I will never have another chance. Let's go and play.

Only Xiao answered me: just the two of us, isn't it interesting?

Then I talked about Xiao in private, and a few simple words dispelled his doubts. Finally, eight people were left with Xiao, and they didn't get along very well.

At first, I was a little worried about whether I could not play with Xiao Ai, but it turned out that I was worried too much. We had a good time that day, because there were few people, and we could be more luxurious and funny to each other. The amusement park has also been opened in advance, and there are fewer tourists. We can play many projects almost without queuing, because the photos taken by the sun are bright and fresh, and in short, they are perfect.

Others went the next day, just as the park was officially opened, and the ticket price doubled. At the end of the day, tourists were all waiting in line, and finally managed to squeeze out time to take a few photos, all of which were gray days and everyone's sight. Some didn't go in the end, but fortunately they had to stay for graduate school and still had a chance, but who knows if they will make the same mistake again.

The second thing, on the second day of the May Day holiday, we arrived at the bicycle rental place early in the morning, only to be told that the car had been rented out, and immediately someone sang the opposite tune.

"You didn't believe me when I asked you to make an appointment early. You got up early for nothing."

"Then let's play games. There will be double rewards for today's activities. Let's go cycling on the last holiday tomorrow. "

I thought about it for a moment, remembering that I had come and gone with a classmate of a cycling association, and asked him for help with a try attitude. Finally, I successfully borrowed several cars. In this way, our cycling tour around the river in Harbin started smoothly.

From the second day after cycling, the storm in Harbin increased the rain for three consecutive days. Everyone is feeling that it is good to ride as planned on the first day, otherwise it will be miserable.

I'm not sure in advance that these two things will be better done as scheduled than tomorrow. Maybe the weather will be better and the conditions will be more favorable tomorrow, but the only thing I can be sure of is that it will not bring regret if I do it right away, even if it is a hard journey, there will be unique scenery. In fact, all the advantages are biased towards my persistence, which is really lucky.

As for these two things, it can be said that it is accidental and inevitable. The second day after the two activities, the objective conditions deteriorated, which was purely accidental. It must be because not long ago, I made up my mind to be a person in front of me. I didn't expect tomorrow to be better, so I insisted on doing both activities.

In team activities, many people are not strong at first and are easily delayed by external interference. They will give all kinds of seemingly reasonable reasons for delay, and they will also propose other solutions that may be more favorable, such as going tomorrow. The weather forecast says it will be better tomorrow, but who can guarantee that tomorrow will be 100% reliable? It is better to do it at once than to be uneasy about the unknown. It takes a lot of courage and skill to persuade others to do it with you at once, and you may be accused of being stubborn and ignorant of customs. So what? There will always be people who agree with your persistence and walk with you, and you can do it at the worst. Most importantly, you can't shake yourself.

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Coco is the most energetic woman I have ever seen. What she decided, others will never change, and she will do it without delay.

When she was a freshman, she watched American TV for three days in a row and then it broke out:

"I also want to speak fluent English!"

So she goes out on time at 6: 30 every day and speaks English loudly.

It is said that during this period, a friend of hers saw that her practice was quite effective and asked to practice oral English with her every day. Coco is certainly happy. Although she is used to loneliness, it is great to have someone to practice with. But after half a month, CoCo returned to the state of living alone, because the girl was too lazy to get up in bed several times and asked her what she was doing so hard. There's no harm in missing a day or two.

CoCo told me that she can accept that her partner is lazy once or twice and doesn't want to go, but it's not good for others to be lazy. She still chooses to practice oral English alone. After that, CoCo didn't go with that friend except to practice oral English together. She was often invited to other activities, but the girl gradually alienated Tian Mi. CoCo is not sad about this matter, and I can understand that excellent people will drift away from mediocre people, and no one is wrong. This is the law of nature.

Yes, as you expected, after two years of persistence, CoCo participated in many English speech and debate competitions and won many awards. She achieved her goal of speaking fluent English.

There are many similar things. For example, before going to bed, she remembered that she had forgotten several formulas and would immediately take the book to the study room until she understood and remembered it. I was told at the airport that the plane could not take off and immediately changed to a train; After thinking for a long time, I finally decided to take a year off school and go outside to have a look. My parents agreed to go through the formalities of suspension from school and flew away the next day. ......

I also interviewed her for this.

"Coco, please tell me, you always do things in such a hurry, you must finish everything on time. In fact, some unimportant things can be done a day or two later. Why are you in such a hurry? "

"Because, um, ah, tomorrow is another day, and there are so many tomorrows. I'll be alive tomorrow, and everything will be in vain! Haven't you learned? "

"Your sister, be serious."

"Well, in fact, I am a very procrastinating person. When I was a child, I often thought, watch TV before doing my homework, exercise before practicing the piano. The fact is that I didn't do my homework or practice the piano until the end of the day. Later, I found that doing something immediately after thinking about it is completely different from playing procrastination. It will be more difficult to do it if it is delayed, and it will even be delayed forever. Then I got into the habit of doing it right away. In fact, my procrastination may not have changed yet, but I will not give myself a chance to try, so this is just a shame. "

Recently, Miss CoCo is studying modern dance and preparing for the TOEFL test. She mentioned modern dance in a conversation listening to TOEFL. Some people worry that she can't take care of two things at the same time, so it is really wrong to take the initiative to learn modern dance at this stage. But I don't think so at all. On the contrary, I think this is Miss CoCo's best state.

At first, Miss CoCo got into the habit of doing it right away, in order not to give herself a chance to delay, but she gradually liked this state. In this process, it is inevitable that many people will be puzzled, but it is good to understand it yourself. Just like that sentence, if everyone knows you, how ordinary you will be.

Persuading yourself to do it at once is a more difficult and important process than persuading others to stick to the original plan with you in a team activity, because the latter needs to completely change their psychology, but once they become actors who start immediately, there will be a positive atmosphere to influence others not to delay with you. So, solve procrastination, become an immediate actor, and start now while your enthusiasm is still there.

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I really like a sentence by Zhiming in Zhiming and Chunjiao: "Some things don't need to be done overnight, and we are not in a hurry." I think this is a love story as powerful as "I love you all my life", but the eggs at the end of the film tell the reason. In fact, Zhiming is also a direct doer, only restricted by objective factors. What good things will happen if we do it at once that evening?

Doing it at once not only represents overcoming procrastination, but also represents a positive attitude. When encountering factors that may affect the plan, we will not feel at ease with the attitude of "nothing can be done, it is all weather and man-made delays", but actively seek solutions to make the plan proceed as scheduled.

Call back when you think of your parents. Maybe the other one is holding a mobile phone and looking forward to your greeting.

If you decide to travel, you can enjoy the loneliness without company, and going through hardships is also a scenery.

If you want to learn new skills, starting now, even for ten minutes a day, is an improvement.

Tomorrow is an interesting word, which can bring us a new beginning, but it is full of unknowns. In this case, don't put your expectations on tomorrow, let tomorrow have something better to do. No one can guarantee that doing it right away will be more beneficial than doing it tomorrow, but no one can guarantee that doing it tomorrow will not bring the regret of permanent abortion. Life is a countdown. Do more, experience more, earn more. Today must be yours, but tomorrow may not be. Do it now!

Do it at once, make progress every day, put that down tomorrow and give her a chance to do more things. When disturbed by the outside world, please calmly refuse:

Sorry, I don't care about tomorrow's life.

So, what about you? Do you like "some things don't have to be done overnight, and we're in no hurry", or do it right away?