Have you ever had a long-distance relationship?

Yes. Keep communicating with content every day. It doesn’t matter whether it’s a phone call, WeChat or video. There must be communication every day, not just saying hello in the morning and evening, but having a good chat about what happened today, how you feel, and what kind of mood it brings. Tell each other more about your happiness and sadness, and don't be afraid of trouble and interruption.

It’s okay to quarrel, not to have a cold war. Quarrel is inevitable when you are in a relationship, but you can't have a cold war in a long-distance relationship. There are not many opportunities for communication. Once the cold war starts and there is no contact for too long, the relationship will be like a direct breakup, and the fake breakup will turn into a real breakup. Use ritual to promote that you are not single. ***Both use couple avatars, background pictures in friend circles, wear couple accessories, etc., and promote their non-single status in all aspects.

In long-distance relationships, the lover’s sense of existence is inherently weak. On the one hand, this is to make oneself feel the state of love through a sense of ritual, and on the other hand, it is also to give the partner a sense of security.

See you every once in a while. The meeting can be an agreed upon one, or it can happen as a surprise without saying hello, but it must be planned into the schedule. Afterwards, I collected the train tickets and air tickets for departure, reminding myself that even though we are separated by two places, we can still see each other if we want to. Talk the problem out. When you encounter a conflict, you should expose the problem as soon as possible and talk it out, don't sulk. If a person in a long-distance relationship is sulky, the other person will probably not know it. Thinking about it will only make you get into trouble, and then you will want to end the relationship to make the problem go away.

In fact, many times, as long as you talk about the problem, you have already taken a big step towards solving it. It is the wisdom for two people to get along after discussing and taking a step back from each other. *** Progress together. There must be a reason for you to be separated from each other. It may be that you have to endure such a period of separate efforts to pursue your dreams. Don't forget that the current separation is for a better reunion in the future, and each of us becomes better independently, just to come together and have a better future.

Do the same thing and feel synchronized. The distance is just a separation between two places, but you can still do the same thing and share your feelings with each other. Watching the same movie, listening to the same song, reading the same book, and then discussing and communicating on this topic is a good way to create a most enjoyable experience. Keep track of and pay attention to your respective social network status. Sharing life through major social platforms has become a daily routine for modern people. Because of their close status as lovers, many people will neglect to pay attention to their lovers' social accounts.

But for long-distance relationships, paying attention, commenting, and tracking developments are not only a window to understand each other’s status, but also a way of communication and interaction, and you should participate in it. Trust each other. Long-distance relationships can easily lead to distrust and misunderstandings. In many cases, even small things will be magnified due to long-distance relationships. Therefore, you should pay attention to accumulating trust, giving enough trust to the other party, and making yourself credible enough to prevent any misunderstandings. possible.