People who can chat with you like this must love you very much.

People who can chat with you like this must love you very much.

Ishida Ichiro wrote in Sixteen: "It is more important to have someone who can chat with me than to watch TV for dinner."

For example, if the weather is fine today, I can tell him that it is fine. If it's cold, I'll ask him to put on another dress. "Especially when chatting with people you like, you will be listened carefully when you say it, and what you share will be seriously responded. It is an unparalleled happiness and satisfaction.

From chatting, you can not only convey your feelings for each other, but also reveal their attitudes and feelings towards you. Especially the person who can chat with you like this, he must love you very much; Take the initiative to find you and start chatting.

The movie "Actually, he doesn't like you that much" said: "In this world, passive men don't exist at all. In the face of a woman you like, a slow man will take the initiative. " Initiative is the most direct way to express love.

In the TV series You Are My City Camp, Xing Kelei realized her love for Mimi and tried to get close to her. No matter how busy you are in the army, when you are busy, you take out your mobile phone and send a WeChat to Mimi. When you return to the dormitory at night, you should also avoid your teammates and send Mimi a video quietly.

Every morning and good night, he takes the initiative to say hello to her; In order to surprise Mimi, she would sneak to the hospital to pick her up from work. There are many things in life that need to be studied hard; But sometimes, love can be self-taught; Just like chatting, when you miss someone, you will subconsciously want to find her and talk to her.

I want to know what she is doing, who she is with and whether she misses you. Want to tell her everything that happened to you, even if it was just what you had for brunch; Chatting with people you like and talking nonsense don't have a taste; So people who talk to you often will contact you if something happens, and people who care about you must care about you.

Reply seriously, not perfunctory.

Some people say that if I talk to someone I like, he only has "hmm" and "oh", then even if I like him again, I don't want to continue talking; Because of his carelessness and perfunctory, I always feel humble and embarrassed; But on the contrary, no matter what you say, I will reply to you seriously.

Even if you only have a "well", people who can carry on the topic must like you very much; When buying milk tea, because she was hard to choose and didn't know what kind of milk tea she wanted to drink, she photographed all the flavors in the milk tea shop for her boyfriend.

Every time she sends one, her boyfriend will help her analyze it to see how much sugar, how much ice, how to evaluate it and so on; They discussed for a whole hour and finally decided to buy an Oreo bra.

I couldn't help being curious and asked my friend, "Are you always like this?" ? Won't he be bored? ; My friend said sweetly, "He is super patient with me. No matter how long I talk, he won't be bothered. " No matter what I say, he will think it over before responding to me. "This is what I really like. Everything is centered on her, and I have always reassured her.

Take care of her feelings, take care of her mood, and sometimes take her things more important than your own; Even if it is a trivial matter, I am willing to listen to her; Not only roses and sunset clouds are romantic, but people who are willing to listen to your thoughts are also romantic.

Be the last person to finish it.

"People who love you may not talk all the time, but people who talk all the time must care about your feelings." He knows how to put himself in the other person's shoes, and he is willing to be the one who holds the bottom for you. Not only when chatting, but also in life. He is willing to silently guard behind you, no matter how far you go, you can see him again.

One thing that touched her most was that when she came home from work at night, she passed a particularly dark alley without street lights, and her boyfriend called her. He asked her to turn on the flashlight of her mobile phone and talk with her all the way to comfort her not to be afraid.

He didn't hang up until she got home; Ask him why he called so timely. He said: "I have been looking at the time since you left the company after work. I thought you should go there, so I called;" When chatting, she said that she was going to get off work and did not reply; But behind her green dialog box, her boyfriend also replied four or five sentences, all telling her to pay attention to safety.

In the chat, he will love you in his daily life no matter how he ends up; Because his tone, intonation and speed of speaking to you all reflect his attitude towards you to some extent; Those who are willing to make the final conclusion and end the chat are also willing to support you for a lifetime and shoulder your lifelong trust; Whether a person loves you or not can be seen from chatting; People who love you will take the initiative to find you and find a topic to talk to you.

I will reply to your message patiently, I will not ignore you, and I will not perfunctory you; When the chat is over, he will wait for you to go away before ending the conversation; If you meet someone who chats with you like this, you should cherish it.