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How should couples chat?

Some couples are like natural enemies. They will always be lovers. They are all armed when they speak. When they talk, they hurt their feelings and affect their feelings. So if you were such a couple, what would you do? Do you all want to get out of this predicament and have a happy married life? So, how do couples chat?

1. Adjust the way you speak. Maybe there is something wrong with your way of speaking. If you don't start well, you will be disappointed in the end. There must be art in speaking. If you have no art, you can do whatever you want, then you will be disappointed.

2. Be patient. If one party is in a bad mood and speaks badly, and the other party can tolerate it, then the husband and wife will not quarrel over it. Everyone is in a bad mood. How can a husband and wife be together if they can't understand each other?

Take a step back and broaden your horizons. If you can take a step back and think about everything, you will have a bright future. It is spring all over the world. The same is true between couples. When it's time to retire, taking a step back won't hurt your feelings.

4. Think about each other's good. The other person will always touch you and care about you, so if you think so often, you will find that he is not really bad.

How to chat between husband and wife

2 Chatting skills between husband and wife 1

1. If you start arguing about a little thing in your daily life. At this time, one party must not go back to the other party. One person can go away first and come back when she calms down. Communicate well.

2. Find out the problem. If you do something wrong, you must admit it first. In my opinion, there is no night feud between two couples. So you can't be so stingy all the time. Learn to forgive.

Don't be stubborn, many marriages must break the woman's/man's heart when they divorce. Communication is not in place, or classroom teaching will not change. Make a lot of mistakes. Pick the other side's bottom line

4. Others say that petty quarrels promote feelings. If it is caused by too much temper, it will be aggressive to fight. Therefore, we must control our impulses in the quarrel and don't say bad words.

3 Chatting skills between husband and wife 2

1. Learn to listen: communication between husband and wife definitely needs each other's listening. If you don't listen, what communication is there? Therefore, the emotional communication between husband and wife must first learn to listen.

2. Create opportunities to talk: In the family, couples can talk while doing things. The content of chatting can be trivial things in life, which can narrow the distance between us and effectively increase our feelings.

3. Create the same topic: Husband and wife will definitely have the same topic or hobby. If you don't know, you just haven't observed it carefully. Think about what we used to do together. Are you nostalgic? Nothing can be recalled, and you can go "crazy" again when you are free.

4. Forget the past: No matter what conflicts occur between husband and wife, don't mention the past again. After all, the past is over, let it go with the wind! When encountering contradictions and differences, we need to communicate with each other to solve consultations, instead of turning over and facing each other coldly. This will not solve the problem.