What are the precautions at the wedding?

1, you don't need to buy too much sugar and wine. Basically, many people don't drink too much beer at noon, and a bottle of white wine is usually enough. Coke and sprite can be more, because you can drink them at home. I bought six cases of beer at the 13 table and brought back five and a half cases (it seems that none of the married people drink beer now, but most of them are a bottle of white wine, a bottle of red wine and two large bottles of drinks) \ x0d \ x0d \ 2. To arrange the venue, you usually have to go to see the venue with people from the wedding company in advance, and then communicate your thoughts with them, but because they are more experienced, they will also give it to them. They usually go to the hotel to decorate the night before. If you are at ease, you can ask a friend to watch it for you, because it may be late, but the couple should have a good rest the day before. I just went with lg myself and didn't finish until after 1 1 in the afternoon. It was 12 o'clock when I got home. I packed my things and didn't go to bed until about 1 o'clock. \x0d\\x0d\3。 Generally, sugar, tobacco and alcohol should be taken to the hotel one day in advance, because they will set the table the night before, and a box of cigarettes is enough for each table, and they will open it with small plates. So will sugar. I will take a small dish and count it at home, so it won't be too wasteful. Remember to prepare wedding candy and cigarettes for the hotel people. (This is out of date, too. Two boxes of cigarettes were packed in boxes and handed to the float master. )\ x0d \ x0d \ 4。 Remember to bring an extra pair of stockings and sewing kit that day. \ x0d \ x0d \ 5。 Drink less water the night before the wedding to avoid swollen eyes the next day. Go to bed early and have a good rest. This makeup artist will remind you. \x0d\\x0d\6。 I just forgot this when I wanted to arrange someone to take pictures of my side that day, so now I have no photos in my hand, so I have to wait for the wedding company. I guess they're going to give me more money. \x0d\\x0d\7。 It is necessary to calculate the travel time of the float on that day to avoid wasting time because it is difficult for the groom to stay in the new house for too long. You'd better take the route ahead of time. And ask if there are any other weddings in the hotel that day, and be sure to get there before them. This is called winning the lottery. \ x0d \ x0d \ 8。 I will trade double happiness for cigarettes. The wine belongs to Jinliufu Samsung. It is best to prepare fake wine for the newlyweds the day before the wedding, because the water in it will go bad after a long time. Just pour all the wine out and pour it directly into the water. You don't need to change some wine into some water. It will taste worse and taste more disgusting. (Double Happiness ... Jinliufu ... is really low-grade, and I can use Zhonghua, Maotai and Wuliangye) \x0d\\x0d\9. If you have a Zippo, prepare one, haha, to avoid them always blowing out the matches when lighting a cigarette at the wedding. (But I can't escape this fate in the end) \ x0d \ x0d \ 10. If you need flowers for your hairstyle, you must buy them in advance (but not too early), lest, like me, I think it's almost midnight and the flower shop is closed, or my maid of honor took a taxi to Laitai to buy flowers that day. I'm very nervous. I bought it the day before, wrapped it in newspaper (be sure to use newspaper) (wrapped it in flowers) and put it in the refrigerator. If there is a zero degree preservation or something, put it in the cold room (it is not frozen anyway) \x0d\\x0d\ 1 1. When ordering a banquet, be sure to order a bigger one. \x0d\\x0d\ 2。 1. The hotel lobby manager had better give him a red envelope separately, which will be handy. \x0d\\x0d\2。 Ask the hotel waiter to make tea for both parents in advance, otherwise it will burn people. \x0d\\x0d\3。 It is suggested that a wedding reception director should be set up in the hotel to coordinate when the groom receives the wedding and handle all the details in the hotel, including the arrangement of cigarettes, wine and sugar at each table, the time when the bride and groom arrive at the hotel and so on. The groom will be very busy and dizzy that day, and someone else must be responsible for these things. )\ x0d \ x0d \ 4。 Wedding candy per package 12 to 18. If the candy bag is too big, put a jelly. Children like it very much, and others will think the bride is very careful. ). \ x0d \ x0d \ One more thing, if your ceremony starts at 1 1, the float will arrive at the hotel at 10: 30, and everyone (not necessarily everyone) must arrive at the hotel before 10: 30, so that the newcomers can get off. How embarrassing it is to think that no one will pick you up at the door. We just ignored this point that day, so we stopped for 10 minutes, but fortunately, there were quite a lot of people in front of the hotel. Otherwise, it would be boring. \ x0d \ x0d \ General wedding companies will help you make floats, but the fees will be more expensive than outside. You can also find your own flower shop outside. My friend helped me find a flower shop, and I didn't care at all. The first car must be pierced with flowers. He will fix you on the car and arrange flowers on it. If you find your own flower shop, remember to tell the people in the team where the float is tied in advance. "Also, some friends may forget to prepare some empty red envelopes at the check-in desk. Hehe, inexperienced. It is said that ~ ~ ~ ~ \ x0d \ \ x0d \ The groom should prepare more small red envelopes and give 5 10 and 20 yuan, which are for those who have to give them. Colleagues met a wedding car at the intersection when they got married. These small red envelopes reduce a lot of unnecessary losses. \ x0d \ x0d \ bridesmaids had better pack a bag of ham sausage or fish sausage in their bags, so that the bride and groom can eat it when they change their dresses in the hotel, which can not only replenish their physical strength, but also won't damage their makeup. Generally speaking, the bride and groom have no chance to eat at the wedding reception. On that day, we must remind the hotel waiter that the food should be served slowly. I didn't seem to have much experience that day, table 32. As a result, the waiter served food very quickly. I only offered a few tables of wine, and the guests have already started to eat soup and snacks. It is so boring. )\x0d\\x0d\ III。 The whole process of wedding management \ x0d \ x0d \ Part I: Division of labor and responsibilities of service personnel \x0d\\x0d\ (1) Witness and officiator; Hotel manager and fleet manager; Master of ceremonies, cameramen, photographers. \x0d\\x0d\ 1。 Witness and chief witness, as the name implies, are legal witnesses of marriage. \x0d\\x0d\ takes the man's family as the center. From the point of etiquette, the ceremony is usually held in front of the officiating person. It used to be run by matchmakers. The main contents of the witness's speech are: "Marriage is legal, congratulations on the wedding" and so on. Usually, the witness is hired by the woman, mostly led by the bride's unit. Of course, witnesses can also be hired by the man. According to traditional etiquette, the wedding is held by the groom's parents. From the etiquette point of view, the wedding ceremony occupies the main position, and the etiquette order is generally after the witness. \ x0d \ x0d \ Now most parents don't get married in person, but entrust others to get married for themselves. Therefore, the marriage director's job is to marry parents. The main point of his speech is: "Thank the guests, encourage the new couple, and put forward some requirements after marriage", which is also commonly known as "marriage motto". The host must be hired by the man. Witnesses and emcees wear identity red flowers at the wedding, and the wedding speech should not be lengthy. You must arrive at the hotel on time. 10: 30 a.m. \ x0d \ x0d \ 2. Hotel manager. \ x0d \ x0d \ The hotel manager is responsible for the overall preparations of the hotel, who is led by him and supported by 5-6 welcoming staff. \ x0d \ x0d \ The main tasks are: \ x0d \ x0d \ 1. Bring holiday supplies to the hotel, including three categories: \ x0d \ x0d \ a, cigarettes, wine, sugar, melon seeds and drinks. \ x0d \ x0d \ b, the word' hi', double-sided tape, marriage certificate, wedding corsage, marriage certificate, agenda, wedding props (such as flower gallery, wreath, wedding vows declaration, etc.). ). (These wedding companies can prepare) \ x0d \ x0d \ c, colored buckets, balloons, concierge guns, petals and other wedding supplies; Among them, color buckets, balloons, concierge guns and petals should be given to the hotel on the basis of the total purchase amount. The balloon color bucket brought to the hotel is mainly used for weddings. Don't step on the brides when they get off the bus. Salute is usually used outdoors at the time required by MC. (These are also matters of the wedding company) \ x0d \ x0d \ 2. Paste the word' hi', wedding couplets, wedding agenda, set wedding background props, hang banners, audition, check the microphone, wedding March, etc. (Can be arranged by a professional wedding company). \x0d\\x0d\3。 Prepare wedding guides, signs and desktop signs; Focus on arranging the bride's table and arranging special people to welcome guests. When welcoming guests, be polite and pay attention to prevent irrelevant people outside from participating (in other words, beware of thieves and fish in troubled waters). \x0d\\x0d\4。 Set the table and prepare a glass of wine \ x0d \ x0d \ Contact the hotel to arrange the waiter to set the table, melon seeds, wine, cigarettes, drinks and sweets; \ x0d \ x0d \ When toasting, choose a goblet, pour Coca-Cola or red wine, put it on a tray, and sprinkle red rose petals on a white cloth. \ x0d \ x0d \ When setting the stage, whether to put drinks after the wedding can be considered according to the actual situation, so as to avoid spraying new people after individual guests shake their drinks. \x0d\\x0d\5。 Seal gifts for motorcades and open flowers for floats. When the motorcade arrived at the hotel, no matter whether the guests got off the bus or not, they gave the limousine a wedding ceremony as agreed. Arrange special personnel to quickly dismantle the flowers on the float, take the flowers off the hood as they are, and send them to the ceremony stage for decoration. \x0d\\x0d\6。 When holding a wedding in a star-rated hotel, you should also dock with the hotel security. Don't let other cars park near the steps of the hotel gate. Because floats generally don't enter the hotel from the normal lane, they usually choose the square under the hotel steps to stop in front of the hotel, which is conducive to creating a grand scene effect. If there is a fountain in front of the hotel, please prompt the hotel to open it. \x0d\\x0d\7。 Agree on behalf of the host family and the hotel. One: Do not serve cold dishes before the wedding. Because spraying flowers at the beginning of the wedding is easy to pollute the dishes; Good cold dishes are also not conducive to the guests to concentrate on the ceremony. Second, the hotel must obtain the consent of the hotel manager or host family for any non-agreed consumption to avoid excessive abnormal expenditure. Third, confirm the total number of wedding banquets with the hotel and determine the total number of seats for the first time; Try to arrange a table for ten people as much as possible to avoid waste. Fourth, pay attention to the wedding banquet, leaving space in the middle to let the couple enter the aisle and the wedding scene. Fifth, agree on the location and supply procedures of drinks. , and someone is in charge. \x0d\\x0d\8。 Remind the main family to close the stall after the wedding reception. Arrange meals for service personnel, check whether any guests have lost items, clean up the remaining tobacco and alcohol, and pack leftovers. \x0d\\x0d\ III。 Team manager \ x0d \ x0d \ 1. Help the couple to make the driving route according to the requirements of folk customs, determine the wedding time, determine the number of people on both sides, and arrange enough vehicles for the wedding. \x0d\\x0d\ After the driving route is determined, it's best to take a trip in advance, so as to know the time, traffic control, traffic ban, etc. Then draw a regular driving route map that you can see at a glance and indicate the starting point, parents' home, hotel, the section where the motorcade is organized, and the contact information of the motorcade manager, hotel manager, groom and other relevant personnel. The best time to get married is to return to the hotel at 10: 30 in the morning. According to this standard, consider the distance, traffic conditions, when to start, when to get to your parents' home and so on. It takes at least 40 minutes for the bride's house to leave from the door. The overall time design should also have a reservation of at least 15 minutes to deal with unexpected situations such as traffic jams. \x0d\\x0d\2。 Team leaders should pay enough attention to floats and know when to tie them and when to tie them. \ x0d \ x0d \ At the same time, a large number of brooches, bouquets and petals should be brought back on time. It is best to return to the starting point half an hour before departure, because the groom needs to use identity flowers and hold flowers before departure. \x0d\\x0d\3。 Arrange the motorcade at the appointed time on the morning of the wedding day. \ x0d \ x0d \ The camera car is at the front, at least 60m away from the float, and then the float starts. The rest are required to walk in a straight line according to the level of the gift car in turn according to the requirements of folk customs; Give each car a road map, and tie a red cloth strip and a red flower with the word "hi" on the mirror of the limousine. \x0d\\x0d\4。 After the motorcade arrives at the bride's family, it is necessary to consider the entrance, placement and U-turn of the motorcade according to the terrain of the bride's family. When the motorcade leaves the family, it should take into account the neighbors' blocking happiness, and generally prepare candy and cigarettes to deal with it. \x0d\\x0d\5。 After the motorcade arrives at the hotel, the floats will stop at the agreed position (floats generally do not take the normal lane), and the team manager should remind and cooperate with the hotel manager to seal the wedding ceremony for the motorcade, and the newcomers will start the floats after getting off the bus. \x0d\\x0d\ 2) Marry female guests, pushers, lighting engineers, sound engineers, salute gunners, sprinkle candy, flowers, hotel guests and ceremony attendants. \x0d\\x0d\ 1。 Marrying a female guest is entrusted by the man's parents to attend the wedding, with the focus on welcoming the bride. When you arrive at your parents' home, accompany them to greet each other and congratulate each other. When going out, accompany and guide the bride's family to the limousine. After arriving at the hotel, accompany and guide the bride's family to the designated banquet to avoid everyone being surrounded by the bride's family and no one cares, so that the bride's guests feel taken care of from beginning to end. \x0d\\x0d\ Second, the sooner the wedding candy is sprinkled, the better, preferably when the bride's family is on the float and the family is almost the same; When sprinkling candy, pay attention to prevent onlookers from grabbing bags; When sprinkling wedding candy, be careful not to sprinkle it all at once, and leave some for others to stop. \x0d\\x0d\ 3。 When saluting, the saluter should carefully read the instructions of the concierge gun, observe the wind direction, and generally fight against the wind. Pay attention to start on time according to the time and direction required by the MC. \ x0d \ x0d \ iii) Basic etiquette requirements for service personnel and guests on the wedding day \ x0d \ x0d \ 1. Obey the command arranged by the master of ceremonies as a whole, and then everyone will perform their duties and cooperate with each other to complete the promised service work on time within the agreed time. It is strictly forbidden to push the Committee and wrangle. \ x0d \ x0d \ Second, the stars hold the moon. Pay attention to gathering new people anytime and anywhere. Service personnel and guests had better stand behind the new people, so that they can fully feel the happiness of being the protagonist in their own lives. \ x0d \ x0d \ Third, be careful not to block the camera. The linear distance between the camera and the couple should not be blocked or crossed back and forth. \ x0d \ x0d \ Fourth, pay attention to the safety of the celebration. Color barrels are flammable, so avoid fire sources when using them, and avoid spraying color barrels when lighting cigarettes. \x0d\\x0d\ 5。 Pay attention to the unified use of holiday supplies, do not mix them. It's best to have festive items at the wedding to set off the atmosphere of the whole day. \ x0d \ x0d \ VI。 Pay attention to the basic respect for the bride when joking. Don't spray the paint bucket on the bride's face. \x0d\\x0d\ VII。 Pay attention to neat clothes, avoid sloppy clothes and wear clothes that are against Geely; Jokes and ways to avoid pranks. \x0d\\x0d\ Part II: Purchase preparation of holiday supplies \x0d\\x0d\ 1. Macroscopically, it includes new houses, decoration, furniture, electrical appliances, daily necessities, new house decoration, ornaments and so on. \ x0d \ x0d \ II。 Micro \ x0d \ x0d \ 1。 Buy cigarettes, wine, sugar, melon seeds and drinks as required. Among them, we should pay attention to wine, including sealing gifts for motorcade drivers and toasting at wedding banquets. After the wedding, candy and melon seeds are considered as gifts for personal friends and relatives. Beer will be prepared in summer. \ x0d \ x0d \ 2。 Camera, film and flash battery. Non-commercial camera services (with the help of friends) should consider video tapes, video lights, etc. Look at the level and scale of the wedding. The camera equipment required for commercial camera service is provided by the cameraman. It is recommended to invite a commercial cameraman with good reputation for the wedding. \x0d\\x0d\3。 Color buckets are divided into colored flowers (also called spray flowers), colored snow (flying snow) and colored stripes (colored stripes). Pay attention to all three when buying, with colored flowers and stripes as the main ones and colored snow as the auxiliary ones. Also pay attention to the color of the cover. What is the color of the cover and the color of the sprayed flowers, so choose red and pay attention to color matching. Be careful not to buy a white cover, buy a red cover. Pay attention to buying products from regular manufacturers to ensure the quality of the celebration. Usually, you should check whether there is a factory name, address and telephone number on the packaging of colored barrels, and don't buy three-no products. Color buckets are purchased on demand according to the wedding grade and scale. Generally need 16 barrels -60 barrels. Take 20 barrels as an example: 8 barrels of colored flowers, 8 barrels of colored stripes and 4 barrels of colored snow are the best combination. \x0d\\x0d\ Pay attention to remove trademarks, pockets, etc. Before the wedding. Wedding rings are common wedding keepsakes, and there are also commemorative premarital confidential gifts for the other party, which are given at the wedding for the other party to guess. The oath is jointly drafted by both parties or provided by the master of ceremonies. You can also use each other's tone to draw up each other's vows, keep them secret before marriage, and ask each other to read them at the wedding. This method is very interesting. \x0d\\x0d\4。 Corsage, bouquet, headdress, wrist and petals. People wearing corsage include the bride and groom; Parents of both parties; Witness and host of marriage; Best man and maid of honor; Master of ceremonies, guests, etc. , make corresponding preparations. Holding a bouquet of flowers, it was presented by the groom when he saw the bride. Head flower and wrist flower refer to the flowers used by the bride's head and wrist, which are generally composed of lilies and orchids. Petals refer to red rose petals, and the more the better, throw them on wedding day and wedding day. \x0d\\x0d\5。 Guest book, invitation, red line, big and small red envelopes, happy characters, happy couplets, agenda, small plastic bags filled with happy candy, double-sided adhesive tape, pins with corsage. \x0d\\x0d\6。 Various props needed to set off the festive atmosphere in wedding activities. For example: wedding background, stereo, music CD, flower gallery, rainbow door, red carpet, festive red candle, performance banquet, banner, band, flying balloons and pigeons, etc. \x0d\\x0d\ Part III: Etiquette requirements for newcomers \x0d\\x0d\ 1. Be generous and cheerful. The bride and groom prepare a bright smile for each other. \ x0d \ x0d \ Even if some people are too happy, couples can't lose their temper and be unhappy. Always smiling. \ x0d \ x0d \ Second, enjoy the service frankly. Before marriage, the couple will distribute everything to others under the coordination of the master of ceremonies. On the wedding day, the groom should find the right style of the head portrait and never enter the manager's state. The bride finds the feeling of a princess and enjoys the service frankly. Even if the service work done by friends is far from the requirements of the couple, let it be, because it is almost useless for the couple to arrange anything on the wedding day. It also affects the manners of newcomers. \ x0d \ x0d \ III。 On the wedding day, the couple should pay attention to walking with their own shadow at all times, and it is best to "hold hands", keep shoulder to shoulder, hold hands and smile happily. \x0d\\x0d\ Fourth, when the indoor space is relatively small, we should pay attention to giving the cameraman a "face" and let him take more pictures of the new people's faces. \ x0d \ x0d \ V. Brides should pay attention to self-protection. When opening the door for the groom in the boudoir, when getting off the float in the hotel, and when the bride comes out at the beginning of the wedding, it is the most violent time to spray the color bucket. Brides should pay attention to putting down their veils at these times. \x0d\\x0d\ VI。 The couple toasted in an orderly way, with female guests first and male guests later; The principle of elder first, leader later, and friend later. For women, guests, grooms and men, guests and brides. Newcomers don't kick or pester wine when toasting, and they don't persuade wine when toasting. They should act quickly and appropriately to ensure that the table arrives. Generally speaking, the banquet should be placed at one end of the table as far as possible. \x0d\\x0d\ Part IV: Deciding the style, form and grade of a wedding \x0d\\x0d\ The greatest joy in life is a wedding. How to make the wedding grand and how to remember the sweetness and happiness? \x0d\\x0d\ First of all, you should choose your favorite wedding form. Each wedding form has its specific symbolic content. Modern popular wedding is our most common wedding form with the characteristics of the times, such as float wedding, hotel ceremony, big banquet for guests and friends, couple toasting, and bridal chamber making trouble. \x0d\\x0d\ IV。 1. Bride's makeup tied to a float \ x0d \ x0d \ The time is tight on the wedding day, so we can't afford to delay. However, there are two aspects that are prone to some problems, that is, the makeup given during wedding photography and the method of tying floats, especially on a good wedding day. Often because there are many people, when it's your turn, it will be much later than originally expected, which will eventually affect all the processes. You should make two preparations in advance. First, communicate with the original halfway makeup artist and reserve time. Once there is a problem with the wedding photo studio, it will turn to the whole process halfway. Second, the wedding company provides floats, which may be subcontracted to some small flower shops, which is more likely to cause problems. So be sure to make it clear to the wedding company that the time to pick up the wedding car must have been tied with the float. If not, specify the latest time of tying floating and the liability for breach of contract once it is exceeded in the contract. If you tie your own floats, it is recommended to play more in advance to avoid accidents, especially when the days are particularly good. \x0d\\x0d\ II。 Flowers \ x0d \ x0d \ For couples who get married in May, June, July, September and June at 5438+00, because of the hot weather, the floats, flowers and corsage tied at noon usually fade in less than a few hours, so when they get married in hot weather, please ask your family to prepare an empty bottle and punch a few holes in the bottle cap. In addition, the groom's corsage must be backed up. It is often found that because of holding the bride for a long time, at the beginning of the ceremony, the groom's corsage is three-point, which greatly affects the effect. \ x0d \ x0d \ In addition, there is the problem of petals scattered. Almost all the garbage prepared by the wedding company will be thrown in the flower shop, which is not very lucky! Therefore, it is best to have a handful of roses before the wedding, which are in bloom, so as to ensure the quality and quantity, and there are flowers as a backup. Where there are deficiencies, they can be made up in time. Prepare more, and lay one or two hearts with petals on the wedding bed. Isn't it much better than the bubbles all over the bed?