Emotional issues I am very happy to be with a girl, but it is not impossible to say that I really like her. What kind of psychology is this?

Lesson 1

To chase a girl, of course, you must first know the girl’s code, and secondly, you must have that intention towards her.

Send this: I had a great time chatting with you last time. Can I invite you to chat again?

Note: If a girl agrees, the location she is looking for will cost a little more. Think about it, you can go to a quieter bar and don't go to a restaurant for the time being.

Lesson 2

After you go home from the date, don’t forget to send: It was a pleasure chatting with you, I look forward to seeing you again, I wish you the best Good night!

Let her know you are a caring person. The next day, you can also send her something funny. For example:

1. On the giant panda’s birthday, someone asked it what it wished for. The giant panda said: I only have two wishes in this life. One is to find a Chinese medicine doctor to remove the dark circles under my eyes, and the other is to I just want to take a color photo.

2. I am from Yuanmou, Yunnan, and you are from Zhoukou; I hold your hairy hand and bite it gently, love, let us walk upright.

Let her know that you have a sense of humor.

Note: Never post pornographic jokes!

Lesson 3

Girls tend to be more vain, so you can usually post something like this:

1. I saw you dressed up in a very special way today and very cute.

2. My eyes are about to fall when I see you dressed so beautifully today.

Don’t be stingy in describing your beauty, be as beautiful as you want.

Lesson 4

After a period of contact, you have become familiar with it, and it is time for you to offer your treasure. Use your money to please the girl you like.

1. (Hint) If there is an afterlife, let us be little mice, fall in love stupidly, live in a daze, cuddle up innocently, and be together stupidly.

2. (Warm reminder) Are you busy? It’s okay. I just want to tell you in a way that doesn’t disturb you. I’m thinking of you. I hope that when you receive my message, the corners of your mouth will be smiling. Let your friends know that you are happy.

3. (Ask her to answer the question) Do you know what I am doing? Give you five choices: A. I miss you; B. I miss you very much; C. I miss you very much; D. I can’t miss you; E. All of the above.

4. (Send weather forecast) The minimum temperature tomorrow will be 1 degree and the maximum temperature will be 10 degrees. XX asked me to tell you: caring about the weather means caring about you. Don’t forget to add an extra piece of clothing (XX, that’s yourself).

Lesson 5

The advantage of posting is that you can say things you usually dare not say in person, even if it hurts to death, girls like sweet words and care about others. . But please pay attention to the following things:

1. The quantity is important, but not the large number. Girls probably don’t like boys like their mother-in-law. Do you find it annoying to have them around you all day long?

2. Don’t copy what you copied from the Internet, use your own thinking.

3. Occasionally it rains for three days and the net is exposed for two days, playing hard to get. After rounds of bombardment, suddenly not a single message is sent for a day or two. When your message becomes a part of a girl’s life, she will wonder why she didn’t send it to me today? When she takes the initiative to send it to you, no matter what she says, , you are already halfway to success.

4. After giving you enough care, the first message a girl sends to you is often a complaint, such as I’m so annoyed, I’m about to collapse, I’m depressed, etc. Hehe, I’m okay. What are you waiting for? Girls need it most and can easily pursue success. Encourage her quickly: In fact, the sky is very blue, and the clouds will always disperse. In fact, the sea is not wide. This shore is connected to the other shore. In fact, the tears are sweet. When your wish comes true, in fact, I want you. , be happy every day, and then call her again, this is a must.

How boys chase girls

How boys chase girls, it’s too easy. After reading this article, you will become an expert.

Don’t say anything before it’s time. Some boys have only dated someone a few times and then they want to establish a further relationship, which is very bad. The wonderful thing about love is that everything is left unsaid. If you make it clear and the words are clear, it is not beautiful. If someone is willing to come out to talk to you alone, it means that the girl has a good impression of you. But sometimes even they can't explain this kind of good feeling clearly, but you are eager to point it out and destroy this hazy beauty. Then don't blame others for staying away from you. Look around you at all the love affairs that have died before they even begin. Many of them are caused by boys not mastering the heat.

Put away your fists to attack better. What should you do if you are rejected by a girl? Some people say that you should pursue and persevere. Not really. Unless you are a person who doesn't care about anything, it will be difficult for you to bear the white eyes of girls and the mocking looks of your peers. It would be better to cease all activities and retreat temporarily. Not only does this protect your dignity but it also leaves a way out, creating opportunities later. Just let her wander among people. Only when you go to her again when she is badly injured will she realize that you are the one who loves her the most. Even if you really can't let go, you should pay attention to your methods when you want to find her. Don't make her think you are annoying. And this is often difficult to do.

Don’t be too explicit. Learn to care for her quietly and treat her with your honesty and kindness.

Only then can you get her attention among the crowd of boys croaking around her. Remember, only special you will attract her special attention.

No entry unless required. A boy who always runs to a girl's dormitory will not arouse much favor from the girl. Some student union cadres often go to the girls' dormitory under the pretext of work, and then stay there without leaving. As a result, they bring a lot of inconvenience to others, and the effect is counterproductive. The fundamental reason for this result is that it is too explicit.

Strategically despise..., tactically attach importance to.... Sometimes the girl you like will have some contact with you, such as talking, chatting, working together, etc. You'd better look at these things with a normal attitude and don't carry baggage and worry about gains and losses. For example, don't pay too much attention to what she said inadvertently. Some boys are prone to being sentimental and this is why. But you should pay enough attention to every such opportunity. For example, you should pay attention to the sense of propriety in the first conversation. It is best not to involve the category of love. You might as well talk about your childhood. It would be bad if you go straight to the topic! The girl must be wary of you like a wolf.

It’s best to flatter less often. If you praise her for her beauty, if she is really beautiful, then you are just the 700th person to praise her for her beauty, and the deepest impression on her may be the first person to praise her like this; if she is ordinary-looking, you will No one can say what kind of results complimenting her will produce. If she finds out you don't mean what you say, you're dead. Remember, you can only coax a girl after she becomes your girlfriend. Starting to coax her before you even catch her is a sign of failure to grasp the heat.

Be less chauvinistic. A boy finally invited the girl he had admired for a long time to dinner, which cost him half a month's living expenses. Later, when he went to pay the bill, he found that the girl had already paid for him, and he wanted to pay her back. The girl doesn't want to. He felt that the girl had taken away his face and was very angry. The girl was so angry that she cried. Originally, the fact that the girl paid the bill for him meant that she had a crush on him, but instead of trying to please him, he lost his temper. No wonder he wanted to become a bachelor. Almost no girl will have a good impression of boys who do not respect women, remember! Remember!

Unite the majority. Almost every girl has one or two most intimate girlfriends, who are your successful path to victory when all other paths are unavailable. You can use them to know whether a girl is interested in you, and you can also use them to convey your meaning. This is much better than if you just say it. But don't ignore this new force. I have seen boys succeed through this method more than once.

Finally, I would like to remind everyone that there is never a fixed formula for love. The way others succeed may be your failure; the way others fail may be your failure. I am only mentioning some principled things here, and they must not be applied mechanically. If this ruins your good deeds, don't come to me. If a girl doesn't like you, not even the Jade Emperor can do anything about it. As the ancients said: Subduing the enemy's troops without fighting is the best strategy.

Written by a girl: How to chase girls, super classic

1. What kind of first impression should be left on MM (time: just started to contact MM)

1. I think the most important thing is to let MM see your ambition.

The greatest charm of a man lies in his successful career. Young people do not work long hours and cannot be considered "successful". At this time, you have to make your girlfriend think that you are a motivated person.

You can talk nonsense about other things, but this question cannot be vague. You must tell MM that you are full of confidence in the future, that you are not satisfied with the status quo, and that you already have long-term plans. In short, your future Not a dream.

2. Be confident and responsible

Don’t be like a child. Girls are lazy and want to find someone to rely on. You have to show your confidence and responsibility. Heart comes.

It is better to have a wrong choice than no choice at all.

3. Don’t be too serious, but don’t be too casual either.

Be serious where you should be serious, and laugh when you should be funny.

Girls like men who are a little cynical, so don’t appear to care about anything, as that would be too dull.

4. Look more mature

Men who are calm and unhurried in situations are fatally attractive to girls.

2. How to have further contact with MM (time: the beginning of chasing)

1. The most important thing at this stage is not to rush, don’t make things so clear, let People can tell at a glance that you are chasing them.

Think about it, most people will not fall in love with you at first glance, but they will also not hate you at first glance. They are all ordinary people’s children (unless you look like Chow Yun-fat, Andy Lau or Kevin Coster) (Na), goodwill needs to be realized as understanding continues to increase, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want.

Think about it from a girl’s perspective: If you rush over to find someone so directly, the girl must be under psychological pressure. If they find out they don't like you after being in contact for a while, wouldn't that mean they're just trying to trick you? So if you act like you're determined to win from the beginning, you'll basically be turned back immediately.

2. Start with a low profile

First of all, you must position the relationship as a "friend". It is originally an "ordinary friend". You hope to become a "good friend" with good taste

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You can also ask the other person to become a "confidante" or something, but never say "chasing you".

Think about it, if you don’t mention “chasing” at all, then the girl will have less chance to “reject” you - how can she reject you if you don’t pursue her?!

This can reduce the psychological pressure on girls and enable you to have a smooth relationship. Don't imagine that you will agree to marry you after only three days of knowing each other. You need to fully communicate and understand each other. Feelings do not arise out of thin air.

3. Don’t be too impatient in the process of dating

Be relaxed and don’t pester others all day long. You will get tired of anyone who treats you like this. A good friend of mine told me that the key to chasing a girl is eight words - "hot and cold, playing hard to get" (this is the culmination of many years of hard work by my classmates).

Of course they won’t think well of you if you keep pestering them all day long. If you cool off for a day or two, girls will remember the benefits of your presence.

Also, don’t have the ambition of “I won’t marry you unless you want me”. It’s not good if the price is too low. Sometimes you can use some tricks.

4. Create opportunities appropriately

As mentioned earlier, don’t make things immediately turn into “you are chasing someone else”, and you need to get the opportunity to get close to girls. It all depends on your creativity.

You can collect intelligence and find ways to turn waiting around into an encounter; you can also pretend to be casual and find the most sufficient reasons to invite the other person to do something with you.

In short, this is the most technical place. If it really doesn’t work, you can ask your seniors for advice.

5. Don’t: It is impolite to give gifts to others casually

Some people are eager to chase girls and like to give things to others frequently. However, they don’t know that this is the most taboo thing for chasing girls.

As the saying goes, "No reward for no work". If you give people things like this, you are putting pressure on them. People will feel that they owe you something, so they will find a way to pay you back. If they can't pay you back, they will Find a way not to associate with you so that you don't always owe you favors.

If you want to show your sincerity, you might as well ask a girl to spend money together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat, or finding an expensive place to play together. Girls will naturally be able to see that you spend money. It's a lot of money, but after all, the money is spent by two people together rather than turned into things to take home.

3. What exactly is a "girlfriend"?

1. "Girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise

You and your girlfriend The child started dating, and changed from "ordinary friends" to "good friends" to "very, very good friends who talk about everything". One sunny afternoon, you "accidentally" held her hand; " "The moon is above the willow branches." You suddenly attacked and kissed her. At this time, she is already your girlfriend. Whether she admits it or not, she already thinks that you are her boyfriend.

I know that the wisest person never asked me "Will you be my girlfriend" until we went to bed? In the end, the girl got anxious and said, "Why don't you ask me to be your girlfriend?" ”

So, don’t rush to pierce the window paper. The more hazy the situation is, the better it is for you.

2. What is "confession"?

As mentioned before, confession is actually just a form. The correct order should be: In fact, I have become your girlfriend. Only then can you confess your love to others, and it will be a matter of course. Many people don't understand this issue and always think that someone agrees to be their girlfriend first and then does whatever they want. I can only say that he is very, very "innocent" and also very, very "stupid".

3. Are there times when you “have no choice but to express your feelings”?

Yes, for example, a third party appears, or the relationship between you and the girl is not mature but the two of you may be separated for a while. time.

The confession at this time is an immature confession, and the risk is very high. It is similar to the serious situation when playing Go. The lagging side is forced to release the "winner's hand", and if it wins, it wins. If you lose, you can only say "Unlucky people are born".

4. Don’t say the word "love" easily

I often see "bold confessions". To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "Love" is a sacred word, which means pursuit, commitment, and even a kind of responsibility.

Men who say "love" casually are irresponsible.

4. Civilized love should not be forced.

1. Not every good girl can be chased by a girl. There will always be many people chasing her, and it is impossible to fulfill everyone’s wish. , there will always be losers. For example, even if you study hard and master the most advanced principles of chasing girls, you still can't catch up with anyone in TWINS. Thinking about the problem from another angle, no matter how nice a rural nanny who has not graduated from elementary school is to you, earns you gifts () every month, and is willing to "work like a cow or a horse" for you, you will not fall in love with her. If she cries and pesters you every day, you will definitely feel annoyed.

So love needs a material foundation, or at least a balance.

2. Chasing girls is a serious social activity

Don’t annoy others and leave a way out for yourself.

Why should a man worry about not having a wife? Some women are indeed snobbish (a minority). If you are not convinced, you can work hard and use facts to prove that "she was blind at the time." Never mislead others or yourself.

Finally, don’t appear cynical in front of MM. Being cynical sometimes means “you are a failure.”

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The more times you touch a woman, the easier it is for her to fall in love with you

After touching a woman, It can enhance mutual intimacy (physical contact is the best way to close the distance with women, and how to touch women without leaving a trace requires excellent skills

), if you can If you have a chance to touch her knees or hands, that would be perfect. But don't do this if you're meeting on a first date. In coffee shops and restaurants,

you'd better choose a side-by-side seat (that's the chance). If you choose a face-to-face seat, you won't have the chance to touch each other. In terms of a woman's body, the left side (roughly the left half, but for a left-handed woman it's the right half) is an unusual area and is easy to feel. Therefore, it is best to keep the woman on your left. If you use your left hand to hug her from the left rear, she will fall into your arms. Then look forward to further good results to come. The difference between popular men and unpopular men

Popular men always keep a distance from non-ideal women, but for women they admire, they have ways to put her by their side. Women will definitely be curious about attractive men

(Curiosity is a fatal injury to women). This curiosity can be used in interesting conversations or in novel situations. On intelligence information. If you are not

popular, even if the other person is very curious, he will just try to avoid you when he sees you. He will always feel lonely around an unpopular man, and he would like to be around you at all times. In a lively atmosphere,

If you want to be a popular man, you must have self-confidence (confidence without arrogance is the only way to pursue your girlfriend, remember!) and good interpersonal relationships. I believe this, Good girls will be yours.

From a friend to a lover, I finally have the opportunity to ask her out, but I don’t know what gift to bring. On this occasion, it is best to bring a flower, so that you can pin it on her chest. In front of or on hair

, it will naturally form an opportunity to kiss each other. As for dining, you may have to be a little more cautious the first time, but after the second time, you can choose food for two , to enhance mutual intimacy

. If you and her can eat a lot, then your relationship is not just friends, but a couple. Give yourself the opportunity to step into her inner world

After the other person becomes your girlfriend, many people are distressed that their relationship cannot go further. In fact, if these people are not too If you don't care, you often let opportunities to enhance your feelings slip away quietly. Among female tribes, a lot of attention is paid to boys who want to help women get their coats, because at the moment when they take off their coats, if there is a man present, it is easy for the woman to have the illusion of being a couple

When taking a taxi, if you can say: Put the things that are easy to forget with me, you will bring the distance between you and her closer. But if these behaviors are used improperly, it will be self-defeating.

Accidental Mystery is quite important to women. Compared with men who are introduced by others or met at work, men who meet by chance are more attractive to women. If this accidental situation happens repeatedly, women will definitely believe in fate. existence. But can you create a second chance? In fact, everyone can do it.

If you hope to meet a girl no matter what, you can check her work schedule route, and other related matters, it will be much easier to get a second chance.

Only by accepting the female gaze can you be a successful man. Women always pay attention to the true nature of men. Therefore, when you understand that a man's true appearance is not the type you like, you will most likely take the opportunity to escape.

It would be best to make some changes to suit her preferences. And a particularly good memory is a female characteristic. Some men have forgotten a sentence, but women remember it very clearly, so you

must remember every word you say to her. What kind of gift will she like? In terms of giving gifts, if your girlfriend likes small items, you can give her rings, watches or small flowers. If she likes large items, You can give her a large doll or a large bouquet of flowers, both of which can win her heart. Generally speaking, most people who like small items are more mature people, because these items can be placed within their control, so most of them will not act as they please. Women who like big dolls are probably a little childish, so when she

is happy, she may pester her boyfriend.

However, it is also possible that after getting tired of hugging the doll, they no longer want to hug you. In this regard, although women who like small items will cost you more, they seem to be easier to cultivate long-term love. The shortcut to kissing: When kissing a woman, there is a principle, which is to press her against the wall. Women can use the wall to find a way to hide (-That’s right! If you want to kiss When it comes to a girl, give her a step up, even a forced kiss will be very easy to succeed!) Next. The situation of being unable to escape and avoid is a very important factor in psychology. Before becoming a beauty hunter, you must be familiar with various techniques to gain insight into women's psychology in order to win the final victory. Finally, when choosing a bar or restaurant, it is best to choose one with stairs, because this will give you more excuses to get close to her. If you can hold her hand, it will peel off another layer of her defenses, and all that will be left is the act of kissing her. If you are too submissive to women

or attitude, you will definitely fail. Women are both cute and scary animals. The main difference from men is that women have two-sided personalities. They look quite soft on the outside, but they are quite beautiful on the inside. But it can

be said to be Mother Night. Men who are not good at pursuing women can easily succumb to this kind of terror. Men who are not used to facing such women will submit to women's words or smiles and become independent.