Tsai Kangyong’s classic quotations

1. This sentence is so beautiful that it makes people applaud: Do you think the person you like is the person you like? Like is always a misunderstanding.

2. Those who care about youth are no longer in youth; those who realize that they are wandering are bound to end their wandering.

3. If he misses you, he will look for you; if he wants you, he will tell you; if he cares about you, he will show his true feelings; if none of these happen, then he will not bother you.

4. Want to be an angel in the hearts of others? Want to be taken seriously? You might as well practice setting up obstacles. Don't always play the role of someone who is always there and gone. You are not a ready-made apple on other people's desks.

5. Along the way, I got seven smiles and three eye rolls, so I responded with 70% of the strength to smiles and 30% of the strength to respond to the rolls of eyes; the food I ate was delicious seven times and difficult three times. When eating, I use 70% of my taste buds to enjoy the delicious food, and 30% of my taste buds to endure the bitterness; I have no intention of magnifying the world's kindness, nor do I intend to magnify the world's malice. I just accept the sunny or rainy weather in accordance with the proportion; the world and me, Just each other.

6. People who use all their energy to check whether they are happy enough will definitely not be happy. Just like if you keep taking out the money from your pocket and counting it one by one, even if you count it eight hundred times in a row, you won't get an extra cent. Instead, you will get more and more frustrated as you count. If you have that time to count money, you might as well use that time to go out and earn more.

7. Moderate provocation can definitely make the conversation lively. Because everyone hopes that their opinions will be valued and discussed, rather than being nodded and perfunctory by an unprincipled person.

8. The most precious souvenir of love is what you left on me, just like the river left on the terrain, the changes you made to me.

9. Exposing one’s body while hiding one’s face does not necessarily mean that one is sad because of loneliness. Many people who take this pose actually no longer care about loneliness. They only accept the gaze, but no longer respond to the gaze. To this world, he exists solidly with his entire body; but to him, this world can be forgotten.

10. Enjoying is more valuable than owning. We enjoy air, but cannot own air; we enjoy sunlight, but cannot own sun. In the same way, we enjoy friendship and family, but there is no way and we should not want to have that friend and family. We also enjoy love, but there is no way and we should not want to have that lover. Just enjoy it, enjoying is much more valuable than owning.

11. Keep the other person in your eyes and in your heart. Look at the other person from time to time during the conversation, with a little observation, so that the other person can fully feel her presence in your eyes. Make the other person feel valued.

12. "You live, you die, you struggle, you don't struggle, the water is the same." Later, every time I swam, I would pretend to be dead for a while, and then I would get a tranquility that people my age would never understand.

13. When speaking, all the parts of us that dislike others and feel that others perform poorly are often our own problems.

14. When I grow up, I like a lot of childish and superficial things. When I went to California, a place full of sunshine and smiles in the United States, to learn how to make movies, I didn’t mind at all that my American classmates had never heard of European movies that were deep and full of mystery; Oriental movies that pursue artistic conception. I like that they confidently regard movies as entertainment products that can make a lot of money, make people cry and laugh, give people strength, and also provide people with escape.

15. Do eagles despise vultures? Do spiders despise ladybugs? Do ladybugs despise earthworms? It seems not. It seems that only humans despise people, despise vultures, and despise earthworms.

16. It finally got dark again. The sun squatted on the wet roadside and smoked a cigarette, thinking that maybe he would not go to work again from tomorrow. I firmly said that I would never see you again, and then I dreamed of you that night. It really has no dignity at all. If you want to break up, just break up. There is no need to say that you are not worthy of me. We are not mobile phones and chargers. I heard that the world is a big place, so I went to the streets and looked around for several minutes, but it turned out that there was nowhere to go. Is it crowded? So let me give up my seat, even though I know you won't be satisfied in the end.

17. "Baby, if you hear something often, it does not mean it is worthy of belief. It may just be some lazy people who just say it casually." Therefore, we must selectively believe what we often hear. Discourse.

18. When you see others not doing well, you may feel secretly happy and feel a sense of superiority that "I am smarter than him." But a truly smart person observes why others do not do well, and then alerts himself to try not to make the same mistake. Those who only like to boo should be planning to remain in the audience, while those who are wary of themselves are preparing to stand on the stage one day.

19. Promises in love often make us uncomfortable in the end. It’s not because they were false at the beginning. They are very true and have just expired.

20. If you no longer love the programs you loved to watch in the past, or no longer worship the idols you once worshiped, it may mean that our lives have entered a new stage.

The charm or wisdom of those people who once fascinated you are just the ladder of your life. Once you step on it and go up, when you look back, you will be surprised that the ladder is neither bright nor noble, because you It has been crossed.

21. Sometimes we feel that the valley in front of us is so deep and the wind blowing in front of us is so strong. We suddenly have the consciousness of an eagle, so we spread our wings for love, jump forward, and give it a try.

22The time waiting for the food to be served exceeds the time actually eating. The time spent waiting for the rain to come exceeds the time for the rain to fall. And the time of waiting for love far exceeds the time of true love.

23. Broken love is like a decayed tooth. You want to continue to rely on it as if nothing has happened, but it starts to hurt. When it hurts so much that you can’t bear it, you remove it from your body. Pull it out and throw it away, leaving a hole that you are not used to. You often have to lick the hole, and finally get used to it, but you know that the hole is still there. No matter what you fill it with, it is no longer yours. That part is lost.

24. Supervisors who can’t help nagging are best able to prioritize their words across the table. Really serious matters should be explained concisely by text message or email, and ask the other party to report back and confirm receipt. , leaving evidence in black and white. As for the uncontrollable nonsense that comes out of your mouth, it's best to acquiesce in the fact that these nonsense will be treated like exhaust gas, and let it go in through one ear and out through the other at the same time!

25. When your boss enters the cubicle to use the bathroom, you sneak in and wash your hands. While washing your hands, you wait for any colleague to come in. Then you make casual remarks about this colleague? Give your boss a few compliments. Your boss, who is still in the cubicle at this time, will definitely have a good impression of you after hearing this. However, this cheap move may affect the colleague who comes in later, because without knowing it, he may scold your boss for flattering you!

26. Dear baby, when you grow up, the girl you see that I like will probably be very different from the one I tell you. There is only one time for each person to meet. I will miss mine, and you will miss yours. It’s fair.

27. We will be weak when facing desires and weak when facing evil. Like others more than yourself.

28. Even if you suffer for love, even if you suffer like a walking zombie, it will be difficult for your one pound of suffering to make the other person a little bit sweeter. If the other person is not happy because you suffer, there will be no reason to feel that he owes you, and there will be no reason to want to repay you. Unfortunately, your suffering cannot be appreciated. It can only be ignored, shunned, and despised, because no one benefits from you. Therefore, after suffering the necessary amount, let this suffering be buried deep in the mine of human life.

29. It is difficult for a person to understand the suffering of another person. If you cannot understand, don't say so. Because when the client talks to you, she only needs you to listen. Maybe she needs you to give her some advice, but she may not need another person to claim that someone else understands her pain. Her pain is killing her, and she does not feel that this pain is "replaceable." You can't comfort her by saying this.

30. If you are not sure whether the other person can adequately answer your question, then it is better not to ask.

31. You are important because you are all you can have. You exist and the whole world exists. If you can see the sunshine, the whole world can see the sunshine. If you lose balance, the world will lose balance. When you disappear, the world disappears. So you are important and you are all you can have.

32. People have various pursuits of self-realization. You study subjects you don’t like in school and take exams on things you don’t need to take. These are all disciplines and requirements given to us by the process of life. What we want you to complete is to complete yourself. It does not require you to pass the math, English, or physics exams. Many times in life, because we have fulfilled our sense of responsibility, we will accept ourselves as a person who has received education and completed self-training.

33. Thinking about the worst situation in advance and then deciding to forget it is pessimism. Think of the worst case scenario in advance, and then decide that the worst case scenario will be this way. This is optimism.

34. You must develop your own opinions and train yourself. As with all of life's pleasures, sooner or later you'll get tired of relying solely on what others feed you, and you'll end up destroying your precious good appetite.

35. Or it should be said this way - when the body in front of you is always the same body, people who long for romantic sex are really unlikely to be satisfied by neat and rigorous underwear. Vitality and surprise are the fireworks that can still make people clap happily in a relationship that is gradually becoming stable!

36. If you envy the wealth of successful people, please don’t blindly imitate what they did after they became rich. Those brand-name watches, bags, wine, cars, etc. are all things they did after they became rich. You must imitate them. , I can only try to be poor and happy. If you want to imitate, just imitate what they did before they were rich and powerful. Their eagle-like probing, snake-like focus, ant-like search, and pupa-like patience are all things that have been exposed to the weather and become disgraced.

37. Don’t pay attention to those water pipes. Only when you really flow through one scenery after another can you become a river.

38. People who chase money should be very happy if they finally get a pile of money. But those who chase their dreams will be very sad if they end up with a dream.

39. Whether you are educated or not, sincere or dishonest is totally irrelevant!

40. If you want to break up, just break up. There is no need to say that you are not worthy of me. We are not mobile phones and chargers.

41. In that era, there were no mobile phones, which was more convenient. Inadvertently, we lost contact and lost each other.

42. Dear baby: I am very worried that going to school is the first step that will lead you to mediocrity. So it's really hard for me to safely ask you to go to school. There are obviously so many things worth teaching and learning outside of school.

43. The love you have been in is not like cut hair, which will float away when the wind blows. The love you have had will become the veins on the leaves and the capillaries on the ankles, storing memories and sustaining life. It is difficult to detect, but it will always exist.

44. Some people’s lives have no scenery because they only flow through the most convenient water pipes made by others. Don't pay attention to those water pipes. Only when you really flow through one landscape after another can you become a river.

45. When I was a child, when I was arguing with my sister, I would speak in one breath without allowing her to refute or interrupt, and I would raise my voice many decibels. As a result, my sister lost her integrity and didn’t want to argue with me at all. But at the time, while I was proud, I also doubted whether this approach was appropriate, because she didn't believe my point of view. From this point of view, in fact, many people also make such mistakes. It means speaking without giving the other party room to react. You only need to express yourself and no one else is allowed to speak.

46. Even if we are lucky and know someone who can help us, it is best not to ask for help right away. Doing that will most likely just ruin a possible friendship. No matter how capable a person is, he is still a person with blood and tears. He needs to be cared for and treated as a friend, rather than being treated as a big car without blood and tears, transporting someone who clearly just wants a free ride. .

47. There are landmines everywhere in life. If you have not been bombed, it is only because you have not stepped on it, not because there are no landmines in your area.

48. It is not necessary to do something, but it is really impossible. How can we repay righteousness with kindness? If you forgive the person who abandons you, what is the person who stays with you? How do you repay his love.

49. An important criterion for judging happiness is not whether you can have something, but whether you can reject something.

50. In love, you try your best to give, but sometimes you will only get the rejection you try your best.

51. If the topic is stuck, just change it. Don’t get stuck on it, try your best to keep it, just open another topic. If you leave it aside for now, you won't be in a hurry, and you can come back to it when you have the chance. But for people who are naturally defensive or have a cold personality, just say what you need to say clearly and politely, and you can get away with it.

52. The way to avoid causing trouble for others is to solve the trouble in your own hands.

53. Life is inherently composed of contradictions, so I think split personality is a relatively normal situation. We should always be in an uncomfortable state, constantly awakening to ourselves, rather than feeling that we are It has been completely integrated to the point where it understands everything and understands everything.

54. You are not the Queen of England, so there is no need to alarm everyone when you leave.

55. One criterion for happiness is whether you can always say no to things you don’t like.

56. Are repeated things necessarily boring? The sun rises and sets once every day, which is indeed a very repetitive thing, but I am still moved by the sunrise and sunset at every turn.

57. If you always feel that you are a poor person and others are bullying you, you will indeed often say words with a pitiful attitude. But not only that, but the reverse is also true: every sentence you say is what a poor person would say. If you say it for a long time, you will become a poor person.

58. Isn’t the forest cruel? There are diseases and hunting, but the animals are still beautiful. Isn’t the universe cruel? There is no response in the desolation, but the stars are still beautiful. Society is also cruel, there are separations of life and death, and roads become dry, but people are still beautiful. So I can still store kindness in cruelty, like dewdrops on a spider web or amber under the ground. I know strangers may not be merciful, but if I can encounter them, I will cherish the storage, because there is still a future.

59. Is repetition necessarily boring? The sun rises and sets every day, and it repeats itself, but sunrise and sunset are always the most moving things.

60. Many people have the habit of chattering. In this regard, I only told him three words, change it, otherwise there will be endless troubles.

61. When the mirror is dirty, we don’t mistakenly think that our face is dirty; then why do we think that it is ourselves who are in trouble when others casually say bad things?

62. Mahjong, banquets, Peking Opera, people coming and going, forced smiles, the peaceful and prosperous age built with gold and jade, are like the tide, repeated, indulgent, and endless. It is certainly interesting to watch such a scene once in a while, but if you watch it often or too much, you will naturally understand what "impermanence" is.

63. I heard that there are enough stars in the sky, enough for each of us to find a star and entrust our little name. But, what would I do with such a big star? I would rather entrust my name to another little name on the earth.

64. "In fact, nine out of ten young girls are the embodiment of boredom." Haruki Murakami in the mirror looks very absent-minded, probably filling the pot with fantasy. Drink up the water of your dreams and cook a handful of your dream pasta.

65. If you only read books that suit your ideas, you will only know what you already know.

66. In ancient times, we did not send text messages, chat online, or make phone calls. If I missed you, I would walk five miles across the mountains and ridges to find you and hold your hand.

67. Every drop of water has its place of birth. It's just that when water droplets meet other water droplets, and then meet other water droplets, and then meet other other water droplets, they become the sea. Every drop of water no longer has to recognize its birthplace.

68. The better you talk, the happier others will be. The happier others will be, the more they will like you. The more others like you, the more help you will get, and the happier you will be.

69. In my last relationship, I devoted myself wholeheartedly, but ended up being seriously injured. So I was very reserved about this love because I was afraid of getting hurt. This means: the bad person who hurt you last time got the most complete you, but this time the developing lover got a very cold you. I know you are protecting yourself, but if this is a business, your store will definitely fail. The bad customers who never come back get the best service, while the new customers who come here are ignored. Why doesn't this store collapse?

70. I wandered into his life unintentionally, while he has been wandering in his own life.

71. Love is sometimes a job of education. You have to work hard to condition that person, and then return that person to the world.

72. If someone scolds you, you will scold him. This is called a quarrel. When someone compliments you, you respond with a compliment. This is called social interaction.

73. The souvenirs of love have never been the watches and necklaces you gave me, nor even those sweet text messages and photos. The most precious souvenir of love is what you left on me, just like what the river left on the terrain, the changes you made on me.

74. Although faith is sometimes as thin as a cicada, as long as you persist, it will become thicker and thicker.

75. Sometimes, I reach out to borrow a little of the warmth of these embers, and sometimes, I witness the prosperity covered by these embers with my eyes.

76. Life without faith is neither pitiful nor proud, it’s just that there is no need for it.

77. Ever since we were born, we have been filled with hope. Being alert, we will throw away the hopes that others have forced upon us along the way, leaving our hands free to pursue our own hopes. It is not impossible for those who are not alert to just hold on to what others have forced upon us and live obediently, and it is not even necessarily more unfortunate.

78. I would not deliberately fabricate such compliments, but if I really heard about it, I would definitely be happy to convey it even if it was just a second-hand compliment. Because doing so will really make the listeners happy, the atmosphere will be good, and it will sound much more credible than just giving empty compliments yourself.

79. A bad school will only test our patience, but a good school will test our dreams and enthusiasm.

80. Sometimes you know clearly that this love is doomed, but you still desperately try your best to talk it all the way to the end, even if it hits a wall and turns into ashes. Why is this so? It's not because I'm lucky or extravagantly hoping that something will turn around, but because I vaguely know that if I miss this time, I won't have another chance to completely burn my life.

81. All these superior people, like gods, kings, bosses, and CEOs, will not talk to you and complain. On the contrary, only those who can complain to you, treat you as an equal, and are willing to make friends with you.

82. Only when we cry do we realize that this is sadness; only when we fall do we realize that this is pain; only when we love do we realize that this is love.

83. Beautiful people are not so difficult to meet. What is rare is to meet someone who is beautiful and loves us deeply. Because of deep love, we are able to experience and understand their beauty, their beauty that is unknown to outsiders.

84. I don’t want you to be in a coma, I just want you to be fragile. Be vulnerable but sober, so that you can understand my painstaking efforts and accept my kindness.

85. People who have never been in love are people from another world to me.

86. Lovers should be lazy. As lovers of others, we must diligently practice our laziness - we can't see things we shouldn't see; we can't remember things we don't need to remember; we can't remember things that are meaningless even if we pursue them. I was too lazy to pursue it.

87. Attachment or heartbreak may eventually become the reason for the next love.

88. A date is a date, it means being affectionate. Eating, drinking and ordering food are all good opportunities for flirting.

89. Why didn’t Gu Gu think about it first before speaking? Um. Maybe it’s because it’s troublesome to “think about it” and it’s easier not to think about it. It's a pity that she enjoyed these three seconds of relaxation, but her entire weekend's relaxation was ruined.

90. A stylish chef will not just let the guests order whatever they want.

Guests can request sashimi, but the stylish chef will decide which type of fish is most suitable for making sashimi at the moment.

91. I hope we can all continue to be like the moon, occasionally comforting some lonely people.

92. Life should never be like the first time we met, but we should never get tired of seeing each other.

93. Thinking about it this way, reporters who photograph celebrities should have more fun than reporters who photograph celebrities. **Characters often change clothes, but no one can tell, and they always do the same actions, waving, cutting ribbons, hugging other people's children. Fortunately, they occasionally doze off with their mouths open, which is already quite exciting. Yes. Most celebrities are beautiful, and those who are not beautiful can sometimes cause mischief, which is much more fun to photograph.

94. Love, glory, justice, dignity, civilization, these are the forces that have repeatedly saved me and comforted me in gloomy moments. For many people, they are "useless", but I insist on believing that they are all. It is the treasure of life that can withstand repeated pursuit.