How to respond politely to the kindness of others

Treating others' kindness sometimes requires euphemistic refusal and sometimes generous acceptance. Different people have different ways to deal with it. I think this is the most polite way. If you are too polite to people close to you, you will feel alienated from each other. If you are a stranger, you can sometimes express your gratitude and say that you can do it.

In our life, we can feel their kindness from time to time. When they feel that we are in need, they will lend us a helping hand.

For example, the family is kind to us, and the mother always thinks that the children wear less and the weather is cold, and will remind you to wear long pants. Of course, the best way to deal with it at this time is not to say that I don't feel cold, I don't wear it, I don't wear it. Instead, you should say to your mother, "OK, I get it. It's cold. You should pay more attention to your health, put on more clothes and don't catch cold."

Respond to your family's kindness with kindness, instead of alienating and euphemistically refusing, not to mention pointing out that the other person's kindness will not help you.

As for whether you think it's too hot to take off your long trousers after going out, or whether you think your mother's concern is really warm, that's another matter.

Even, many people may have encountered such "goodwill": you are so old, why don't you talk about love and marriage? These caring greetings may come from their relatives. To cope with this goodwill, we need to cultivate enough psychological quality ourselves to resist this constant "forced marriage". Don't say that you don't want to get married, and don't say how happy you are alone. The polite response should be, "Thank you for your concern. Isn't this what you are looking for? You haven't found the right one yet. "

In addition to relatives, we may also feel goodwill from friends. When we have a problem, they will kindly ask for support, even without asking for help ourselves, so that they can see if they can help you solve it. It's nice to accept such kindness. Don't think too much. But what needs to be remembered is to cherish the goodwill of others, instead of using this goodwill as a reliable excuse for laziness.

Sometimes, we also feel the kindness of strangers. An oncoming smile, giving you a seat when the backpack is difficult to carry, and so on. , are well-intentioned. This kindness has no purpose and no utilitarian psychology. So when you encounter it, you should consider whether it will cause too much trouble to others. If it's not too much trouble, just accept it with peace of mind and express your gratitude seriously. If it is really troublesome, try to finish it yourself, thank the other party, but tell the other party that it is ok.

The harmonious development of society needs not only mutual goodwill between relatives and friends, but also enough goodwill and forgiveness for strangers, don't you think?