How should parents deal with urging marriage?

Parents urge marriage, but also hope that children can find their own home as soon as possible, and hope that children will get married before starting a career. Promoting marriage involves the selfless love of parents. If you respond impatiently to your parents because they have been urging you to get married, it will not only hurt your parents' hearts, but even alienate you from each other. So I suggest that when you are urged to get married, don't get excited first, put yourself in the shoes, and you won't feel bored.

Listen carefully

You know, parents always have more experience in marriage, otherwise, how can you say: parents have traveled more than you have eaten salt? When your parents urge you to get married, you should calm down and listen carefully to your parents' inner thoughts and views on marriage. Parents' experience for so many years can not only provide some help for their later love, but also enhance their relationship and distance with their parents.

Speak your mind.

There may be a generation gap between some people and their parents, so that parents don't know what they really think. Therefore, Bian Xiao suggested that you find a suitable occasion, communicate with your parents seriously, and tell your true thoughts, no matter what the reason is, as long as you tell them, I'm sure your parents will understand.

Divert attention

Children who usually work outside rarely go home, and their parents are more worried. When the weather is cold, parents will worry about whether they are dressed warmly or not, whether they will be bullied by their leaders, and whether they will worry about their marriage. It is also understandable. After all, they are their own children, and they always think of their children. They can often call their parents, talk about interesting things around them, reassure their parents and let them move.

Make a promise

You can make a promise with your parents that you will bring your girlfriend or boyfriend back next year, on the one hand, to excuse yourself, on the other hand, to give your parents a reassurance.

I hope it helps you, and I wish you a happy life.