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Suffering makes people strong.

1. Suffering makes people stronger. Not long ago, we learned a text called The Prince in Danger.

This is a short and pithy fable. Maybe all fables are like this, but short content can always tell us a profound truth. This article is about a sentimental prince. As soon as he heard those tragic stories, he sighed with tears: "God, that's terrible! I can't stand falling on me! " However, when he later suffered a lot, and now he has become a disabled person, begging for a living, he met the author, and he told the story to the author. After hearing this, the author told him the same thing that the prince had said before: "God, that's terrible! I can't stand falling on me! " However, the prince said something to the author that made us think deeply: "Sir, don't say that. No matter who the human disaster falls on, everyone has to bear it and can bear it-as long as he doesn't die, as for death, it will be easier. "

Yes, I remember a master said, "I can stand anything except being blind." However, when he was old, he really accomplished his mission. When someone asked him, he said, "When I was young, I thought blindness was the most painful thing. Now it seems that it is nothing."

Indeed, some people are troubled and hard, but God is fair. When he closes the door for you, he will open a window for you, and that window is strong. All kinds of hardships in the world can make people strong. Of course, a sharp stone can't roll on the ground like a wheel, but when it is weathered, it can calmly face setbacks.

Only after suffering can we succeed. I remember a friend told me his own story: "I liked painting very much at that time, and I had already made my debut in the local area, so I took part in a provincial art competition with my neighbor's children." All the way through, finally got the qualification to enter the finals. But I was exhausted by then. When I learned that the final was held in Shijiazhuang, I chose to give up.

But the little boy next door firmly got on the bus to Shijiazhuang. I knew he was seriously carsick, and then I heard from his mother that he threw up in the car, but he persisted when he got to the stadium.

I don't understand. In the end, I didn't achieve anything in art after all.

But he was admitted to Beijing Academy of Fine Arts. "At that time, I saw a helpless smile on my friend's face. Yes, although the boy experienced many hardships, he finally got his reward. No pains, no gains, the world is fair.

In fact, we shouldn't think that only through hardships can we overcome fragility. Even if you are in trouble, you may not overcome depression and cheer up.

Even if there is no disaster, it will not change the existing downturn. You can be strong without suffering. A little thing can actually hone a person, such as long-distance running in a sports meeting. Some people can't finish the race, but they still insist on running the whole course. Isn't this a valuable spirit? They deserve more respect than those who give up.

From this article of less than 300 words, I realized so many profound and introspective truths. Sure enough, concentration is the essence.

2. What are the famous sayings, aphorisms and celebrity examples about setbacks that make people strong? Failure is the first step to a better place.

Phillips

Failure is the ultimate test of perseverance.

Bismarck

There is no such thing as failure for indomitable people.

Bismarck

A failure can only prove that our determination to succeed is strong enough.

Bove

Failure is also what I need. To me, it is as valuable as success.

Edison

What we care about is not whether you fail, but whether you complain about failure.

Lincoln

Temporary failure is much better than temporary victory.

Abu faraz

postpone

● Experience some setbacks and gain some insights.

The more difficult it is, the more thoughtful it is.

● The newborn calf fell 18 times.

Learn to walk on waterfalls (Kazakh)

● Don't knock or touch, bones are not hard.

● Children grow up after falling and then falling (Soviet Union)

The success or failure of a thing depends on the result, and the twists and turns in the middle are not enough (Germany)

Although there are many twists and turns, I hope the ending is good (Russia)

● Running water will only release its vitality when it encounters conflict (Goethe)

If you don't know the difference, who can tell?

I think setbacks and hardships are good opportunities to exercise my will and grow my ability. Speaking of which, I would also like to express my infinite gratitude to those who tried their best to frame them (Zou Taofen)

● There is no fire all day long, and flowers are not red for a hundred days.

On a sunny day, it is a matter of success or failure.

The moon is round and the flowers are red.

● The full moon is short, and people gather and disperse.

There is a full moon in the moon, and flowers bloom and fade.

When the flowers have withered, the feast has dispersed.

● The moon is covered by clouds and flowers are blown by the wind (Japan)

● Where there is prosperity, there is loss.

● Rivers do not bend or flow.

● Everything is changeable.

● The bad road is open, and the road to success is winding (Uighur)

● A long journey is bound to be bumpy.

● The most tortuous road is sometimes the shortest (fuchs Wanger)

● The right path is not necessarily a straight path, and it is inevitable that there will be some twists and turns, rugged and obstacles. If you want to go around some bends, you will inevitably go astray (Zhu Guangqian)

3. The famous saying that tribulation makes a man successful is 1. After walking out of adversity, you may get carried away, and you may soon fall into another adversity.

When adversity is eliminated, we are timid, but it is equal to not getting out of adversity. -Liu 2. It is foolish to compare one's adversity with the success of others.

It is foolish to compare a person's present adversity with his past success. Compared with the adversity of others, it is humble.

-Liu 3. A strong-willed optimist thinks with the philosophy of "nothing is difficult in the world". The more he was hit by the tragedy, the stronger he became. Seneca IV. An unlucky person has at least one advantage: he can know who his real friends are.

-Balzac 5. Although there are many sufferings in the world, they can always be overcome. -Helen Keller 6 It is not accurate to say that suffering can sublimate personality; Happiness can do this sometimes, but suffering often makes people narrow-minded and vengeful.

Mao Mu 7. Failure can exercise ordinary excellent people: it picks out a group of hearts, puts simplicity and strength aside, and makes them simpler and stronger; But it accelerates the fall of the rest of the brain, or cuts off their jumping power. -romain rolland is 8 years old. The tragedy of life lies not in how much people suffer, but in what people miss.

Carlyle IX. One should learn to walk and wrestle. Only by wrestling can one learn to walk. -Marx 10, if a person is afraid of pain, various diseases, unexpected things, and the danger of life and death, he can't stand anything.

-Rousseau 1 1, human disasters often become his knowledge. -Aesop 12. There are always ups and downs in a person's life.

It will not be like the rising sun forever, nor will it be miserable forever. Repeated ups and downs are a test for a person.

Therefore, those who float on it need not be proud. Those who sink to the bottom need not be pessimistic. We should be honest and modest, optimistic and enterprising, and go forward bravely.

-Kōnosuke Matsushita 13, let's advise people in crisis: don't focus so much on the dangers and difficulties involved, but focus on opportunities-because there are always opportunities in crisis. -Caroline 14, isn't bad luck the touchstone of character? -Balzac 15, adversity always exists, and life is to photograph people.

-Ding Feng 16, adversity shows talent, prosperity hides talent. -Horace 17, adversity has scientific value.

A good scholar will not give up this opportunity to learn. -Emerson 18 Adversity is an uninvited guest on the road to career. For a thoughtful person, no place is desolate and remote.

He can enrich himself in any adversity. -Ding Ling 19. Adversity can make people smart, although it can't make people rich.

Toffler is twenty years old. Adversity gives people valuable opportunities to hone. Only those who can stand the test of the environment are truly strong.

Great men since ancient times have struggled out of adversity with indomitable spirit. -Kōnosuke Matsushita 2 1, adversity is often embarrassing; However, even if we find a hundred people who can stand adversity in the crowd, we may not be able to find one who can treat prosperity correctly.

-Carlyle 22, the more you struggle to solve the problem, the more impatient you become-the deeper you get into the wrong thinking, the harder it is to get rid of the pain. -Caroline 23, every tragedy will create a hero among ordinary people.

-Stephens 24, on fate, people are not born barbarians, nor are they beggars. People are surrounded by real and noble wealth-physical and mental wealth.

25 Horace Mann. Difficulties are just opportunities to put on work clothes. -Kaiser 26, difficulties and torture for people, it is a hammer that hits the blank, it should be fragile iron filings, and it will be a sharp steel knife.

-Chekhov 27. Difficulties are undoubtedly good teachers; But the tuition fee charged by this teacher is very high, and what students get from him is often not worth the tuition fee. -Rousseau 28, suffering is the teacher of life.

-Balzac 29. Suffering tempered some people and destroyed others. -Fuller 30. The environment is a university that has been completely self-taught since the Enlightenment. For the weak, it is the grave of death, but for the strong, it is the soil for growing desire.

-Rousseau 3 1, traces are mostly bad luck. Bacon 32. Suffering and hardship are the highest schools to temper personality.

-Liang Qichao 33. Melon grows sweetest in nutrient fertilizer, and genius grows best in vicious soil. -Bacon 34. After the disaster, there will be great happiness.

Goethe 35. Almost any situation, good or bad, is influenced by our attitude towards the situation. -Seneca 36. Don't regard the past as loneliness, because it will never turn back.

You should find ways to improve the present, because that's you, take courage and move forward fearlessly in the future. Longfellow is 37 years old. Unfortunately, it's a good school.

Belinsky is 38 years old. Misfortune may be a bridge to happiness. -Japan 39, but it is a step of genius; The baptism water of believers; A bottomless pit for the weak.

-Balzac 40, how to get plum blossoms without catching a cold? -Pei Xiu 4 1, no matter what happens, please accept life quietly and happily, and smile bravely and boldly until forever.

-Luxemburg 0 is helpful to me.

4. Suffering can make people strong. In the morning, the sunshine of hope rises from the calm sea in the east to start a new day. Heidi, like a hardworking bee, devoted herself to her work and study.

One morning not long ago, before eight o'clock, a young man from Japan crossed the ocean and made a phone call. He warmly congratulated Heidi on her novel Dream in a Wheelchair published by Tokyo Fashion Association.

He said that when he read this book, it was like a fresh wind blowing into his life. Let him admire Heidi, a disabled woman writer in China. He couldn't wait to immediately give birth to a pair of hard and powerful wings, fly across the vast sea and see China with his own eyes. He also said that many of his friends, like him, read this book and dreamed of going to China one day. Eager to know Heidi, a wise woman who is revered in their hearts. Because the book she wrote is so charming! The book she wrote not only created a strong and brave girl, Fontaine, to fight the disease; It also depicts the vast natural beauty of China. On that day, the military horse farm connected with the ground and covered with green ground was the grassland of brave strugglers. How much they want to see the beautiful and rich places for which the younger generation once sweated. At the same time, they also sincerely expressed their own associations after reading: such as the love destination of the protagonist Fang Dan, the life destination of the educated youth Li Hong, and so on. In a word, this book gave them a shock.

However, where would they have thought: Heidi is a disabled girl who has never entered school and is completely self-taught.

For more than 30 years, Heidi has seized all available time in her life to study and write. She has the hard work of "seeking quiet and leisure in troubled times" As soon as she picks up a book, she immediately becomes a greedy reader.

I remember in the early 1980s, my family lived in Shenxian County, when Haidi had no employment. We often worry about this. But Heidi didn't give up on herself. She never refuses to waste any time. When she was tired of reading one book, she changed to another. She said that reading is to lay a good foundation for her own life and entrepreneurship, so that books will not be annoying when used.

One day at lunch time, I saw Heidi was still busy reading, so I had to put the food in front of her and do something else. When I came back, I saw that the food on the table had not moved at all. Kindly blame her:

"Reading without eating?" She replied absently, "I'm finished, mom."

I was greatly relieved to see her reading to the point where she forgot to eat and sleep.

With the growth of age, Heidi has become a lively and enthusiastic girl, but illness always adds physical and psychological pain to her. Because of reading, I was influenced by the thoughts of the heroes in the book, such as Liu Hulan, Jiang Jie, the footless general of the Soviet Union ... Heidi's character became extremely strong. She not only dares to fight the disease, but also dares to explore her own life path. When people who have worked hard all day have fallen asleep, she is still fighting in the sea of books. Whether it's baking with a hot lamp in summer or mosquito bites; Or the cold weather in winter, which made her unconscious legs bruised with cold; Even when the intercostal neuralgia cut by the electric drill left by the operation was still in full swing and the long-term intractable bedsore was still bothering her, she completely ignored it. She learns to cope with the hardships in life. The knowledge Heidi has today was bought at a high price!

With the country's reform and opening up, Heidi also got a job and became a radio repairman. After more than ten years of hard study, the knowledge gained is useful. It's time for her to have a rest. But I saw her work as usual during the day and concentrate more on reading at night. Her research field has developed in depth, and she has dabbled in a wider range of knowledge: medicine, literature, philosophy ... and she has also studied several foreign languages at the same time. Her first translation, Heidi Clinic, was written at this time.

Heidi never studies for interest, let alone kills time. She studies selectively in order to benefit from her studies, so she reads with extra care, and some books are unforgettable. Heidi once introduced her growing experience to people in the Great Hall of the People in Beijing. She said that because of her study, she was full of confidence in the way forward and learned that "all roads lead to Rome". Her speech was published in the newspaper. A worker in a southern city wrote a letter to the newspaper saying: Haidi was a model of youth in the 1980s. Why not say that all roads lead to Beijing? Or materialism? The comrades in the newspaper forwarded this letter to Heidi. After reading the letter, she said that she remembered that this sentence was written by revolutionary mentor Lenin for the prosperity of ancient Rome. That day, Mr Xue, a professor at Beijing Normal University, was discussing with Heidi about taking China classical literature. Professor Xue happens to have the complete works of Lenin. He made a verification and happily praised Heidi's earnest and solid self-study spirit to me. He wants young people to learn Heidi's reading spirit.

Haidi can become a writer and get a master's degree from Jilin University in recent years. It was reading that gave her the motivation to move forward and gave her a fresh world. The book made her stand up strongly from the troubles of illness and liberated her spirit; Books give her special resilience: more endurance to diseases than others, more consumption of brain and sweat than others, less laissez-faire and arbitrariness of young people, and reading makes her overcome herself forever. Until now, Heidi still insists on reading after work. Books will always be Heidi's friends.

There are setbacks in life, and hardships make people stronger.

A friend talked about what happened to him.

About 10 years ago, because of trust, he lent his friend180,000 yuan (NTD, the same below) for turnover. This close friend for many years is a businessman, with a successful career, living in a mansion and going out of famous cars. Only two months later, this "good friend" disappeared from this world without any news. I heard that he went to America to avoid debts. And that180,000 instantly became an irrecoverable dead debt. What makes people feel even more is that in this huge figure, 8 million is borrowed by this friend from relatives and friends.

After the incident, my friend became very depressed and felt that life was hopeless. He began to close the door, and his heart was full of resentment and hatred. Until he listened to a speech, a story in this speech completely changed his concept and changed the rest of his life.

The story is about a man driving home, and the car is driving on the highway, followed by a truck. The truck is full of heavy objects. Unfortunately, the rope fixing the goods on the roof was not fastened, and things fell instantly, and an accident happened in that tense minute.

The man's leg is broken and he will spend the rest of his life in a wheelchair. He is full of resentment. Later, the man's teacher came to him, hoping that he could get rid of the pain and asked him a few questions.

The teacher said, "Who chose to drive on the road?"

"It's me."

"Who chose to go home at this time?"

"It's me."

"There are too many ways to go home. Who chose this road? "

"It's me."

"There are so many cars on the highway. Who chose to drive behind this car? "

The young man bowed his head and replied thoughtfully, "It's still me."

The teacher went on to say, "If things are not tied properly, they may fall off. This is an existing fact, and the result of falling will definitely happen anyway. If it doesn't hit you, it may hit someone else. But who made it happen at the moment? If you don't choose to go on the road, take this road, follow the car or even keep a safe distance at this time, then even if something falls, no one will get hurt, right? So, do you think you should be responsible? "

These dialogues in the story, like the "big drink" of Zen, deeply hit friends. Yes! It was he who decided to borrow this 6.5438+0.8 million yuan instead of 6.5438+0.8 million yuan or 6.5438+0. 80,000 yuan

My friend figured it out and decided to take all the responsibility. And at that moment, all the resentment disappeared. He got a haircut, bought a new suit and began to work hard for his career. Friends work harder and are more cautious than before. Later, he not only paid off his debts in a short time, but also found a new position for his work. Now he is the chairman of a well-known construction company.

No one's life is smooth sailing, everyone will encounter some difficulties and obstacles more or less, and will be "frustrated as a lesson." You can choose to blame others and curse God for injustice, but none of these can change the facts. If we can learn from these setbacks and take responsibility for ourselves, then this "lesson" is worthwhile at any cost.

Stop complaining from now on, and your future will be different from now on!

6. There is no road in the world, and more people will become roads-Lu Xun goes his own way, let others talk about it-Dante's road is long and Xiu Yuan Xi, and each goes his own way-as the saying goes, there is a road to progress in Shushan-ancient poetry knows horsepower, and people will see it for a long time-as the saying goes, the road is long and Xiu Yuan Xi, and I am up and down-Qu Yuan is a genius in adversity; Lucky concert. (Horace, ancient Roman poet) Adversity shows talent, and good luck hides talent.

(Horace, ancient Roman poet) Almost any situation, good or bad, is influenced by our attitude towards it. (Seneca, ancient Roman philosopher) Almost any situation, good or bad, is influenced by our attitude towards it. (Roman philosopher Seneca La) Although there are many sufferings in the world, there are always sufferings. (Helen Keller, American writer) Although the world is suffering, it can always be overcome (Helen Keller, American writer). Just as fruit needs not only sunshine, but also Leng Ye and cold showers to ripen, it needs not only joy, but also tests and difficulties to cultivate people's character. (Hugh Black, American writer) Fruits need not only sunshine, but also cool nights.

Cold rain can ripen it. The cultivation of a person's character needs not only joy, but also tests and difficulties.

(Blake H, American writer) Everything can be taken away from a man except one thing. Freedom to choose your attitude in any given cycle. (Flanders, German novelist) I can take anything from others, but there is one thing I can't do, and that is the freedom to choose my attitude towards life under certain circumstances. (Frank L, German novelist) Every tragedy makes a hero among ordinary people. (Stephens, American writer) Every tragedy makes a hero out of the ordinary.

(Stephens, American writer) He who allows himself to be insulted deserves it. (Cornford, British writer) He who is willing to be humiliated deserves it. I find life an exciting thing, especially when I live for others. (Helen Keller, American writer) I find life exciting, especially when I live for others.

(Helen Keller, American writer) I was wet when I was born, and every day shows why. (Jack London, American novelist) I began to cry when I was born, and every day showed the reason why I cried. (Jack London, American novelist) If you want to be free from pain all your life, then you must be a god or a husband and wife, if you want to be free from pain all your life. Think about other people's misfortunes, and you can face life calmly, Meinander. Ancient Athenian dramatists For those who are afraid of danger, there is always danger in this world (Bernard Shaw, British dramatist). For those who are afraid of danger, the world will always be dangerous.

(George Bernard Shaw, British dramatist) It is wrong that support can ennoble people's character; Happiness can be like this sometimes, but suffocation, to a great extent, will make people trivial and literary. (william somerset maugham, British novelist) It is not accurate to say that suffering can sublimate personality; Happiness can do this sometimes, but suffering often makes people narrow-minded and vengeful. (Mao Mu W.S., British novelist) Let us advise people in crisis not to focus too much on the dangers and difficulties involved, but to focus on opportunities-because there are always opportunities in crises. (Caroline, British physicist) Let's give a suggestion to people in crisis: don't focus too much on dangers and difficulties, but focus on opportunities-because there are always opportunities in crisis.

(Caroline S, British doctor) All talk and no practice; Big trouble. Keep quiet. (Lucius Anna Euseneca, ancient Roman philosopher) A little difficult, shout loudly; Great difficulties, silent. (Nica, ancient Roman philosopher) Disasters are like knives. Grasping the handle can serve us, while grasping the blade will cut our hands. (James Russell Lowell, American poet and critic) Disasters are like knives. If you hold the handle, you can serve us, but if you hold the blade, you will cut your hand.

(Lowell J R, American poetess and critic) No one can degrade us except ourselves; If we are valuable, nothing can protect us. (B.T. Washington, American educator) No one can degrade us except ourselves. If we are strong, no bad influence can defeat us.

(Washington, American educator) Nopayne, Nopayne; Without thorns, there is no throne; Without pain, there is no glory; No cross, no crown. (British Admiral william penn) Without sowing, how can there be harvest; Without hard work, there is no success; There is no glory without suffering; Without setbacks, there is no glory. (William Penn, British Admiral) Optimists always paint themselves in line with their goals. (Luciana Aeus Seneca, ancient Roman philosopher) Optimists always think that they have achieved their goals.

(Seneca, ancient Roman philosopher) Maybe you can't control your work, but you can change your life. (mcginnis, British writer) Maybe you can't control your work, but you can change your life. (mcginnis, British writer) Prosperity is the easiest way to find evil, and adversity is the easiest way to find virtue.