Does the baby cry all the time to affect health?

Is it harmful to keep the baby crying?

No, the child won't be hurt. Instead, they will feel safe. Children will feel safe when they know that everything is controlled by their parents, not by them. In addition, if you want your baby to feel safe, you must persevere and try to arrange your baby's life in strict accordance with the schedule.

If you get nervous when the baby cries, the baby will soon know who is in charge of this family. He will get into the habit of crying to get what he wants. However, these children in control often feel insecure when they grow up. Why? Because they don't really know what they want and what is good for them, and their parents don't draw boundaries for them, they will feel insecure.

In contrast, if a baby knows that his parents will take care of his needs at any time whether he cries or not, he will feel safe, because although his attitude is repeated, his parents will always do so.

The end result is that a baby who can sleep until dawn according to the schedule will not cry when he wakes up in the morning. Many babies who learn to sleep until dawn stop crying when they wake up in the morning, but start mumbling or making pleasant sounds. My baby sometimes wakes up in the morning, sings in the crib and waits for his family to pick him up. They have had a good sleep and know that their parents will definitely come to pick them up. Once again, children will feel safe when they know that everything is under the control of their parents, not them.

Why is the baby crying?

Dr. Martin said that some mothers do not breastfeed or cannot breastfeed, but their babies are allergic to milk or any kind of milk powder. Such a baby will cry until he eats the right food. Some babies cry because their skin is allergic and itchy. Some babies are injured at birth, so they cry more easily and stay awake longer than normal babies. Some babies cry because they wear too much, are hot, or wear too little, and are cold. Some babies are oiled and cry when they feel uncomfortable. Some babies are born unwanted, and they seem to feel that they are not accepted. This baby is unhappy and can't sleep well. But the most common reason why babies cry is sleeping on their backs, which makes them feel scared.

If none of the above is the reason why babies cry and don't sleep, please remember that every baby is different, and their ability to respond to happiness and pain is different, just like adults. We are not sure how long the baby will cry, but crying is really important for the baby's development. Babies are bound to cry. Crying hard can dilate the lungs and give them full exercise.

So please rest assured that crying should be regarded as a baby's exercise. Crying helps to exercise their lungs. Our three children have healthy lungs! If necessary, you can turn on the electric fan, dehumidifier or air purifier to make a little noise to cover up your baby's crying, so as not to disturb your family. My practice is to let the baby sleep in a room far away from home (only I can hear the baby crying) for a few weeks before training the baby to sleep all night, so that the family will not be disturbed when sleeping.

Many readers asked me if my baby cried too much because of hernia. I looked up information on the Internet, and all eight articles I read insisted that crying would not cause hernia. Hernia is congenital, even if the baby doesn't cry, hernia still exists. Only later did I know that my baby had a hernia problem because I tried too hard or cried loudly.