What are the three major pains in life?

The three pains in life are: don't want to, hate to meet, and love to leave.

Life is like a play. Cry when you are born, and walk away when you die. Crying when you are born is doomed to a bumpy life; I suffered a lot when I died, and many things could not be given up. I can't help feeling that life is a bitter process.

Three bitter explanations:

1, I'm happy: don't force it if it's not yours. If you insist, you will leave sooner or later. Even if you don't leave, you will die of ignorance. If you want him to be happy, you must learn to give up. Those who should come will come again, and those who should leave will leave on time. The so-called disappointment means that everything comes with fate, fate is real, fate is empty, false, true, true and false, all of which are fleeting

2, resentment: the pain given by others is light, and the pain you give yourself is heavy. Persuade others to give you a chance to learn, learn to be grateful, and learn to thank others for their pressure. You shouldn't take others' indifference as a kind of humility. In fact, it is a driving force for success, an immortal flame and a spiritual support. As long as you face it bravely, you will be kind and give up your grievances.

3. Love to leave: This is the most deadly pain, and it is also a threshold that ordinary people can't cross. It is also a problem that everyone has to face all his life. As for when you and he (she) will end, everything is destiny takes a hand, when you meet, when you get married, when you have children and when you break up. Everything is a fate, not necessarily long, not necessarily life, not necessarily short.