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No matter how tragic things happen to a person, you should learn to be strong. Temporary pain is unbearable, but time is the best medicine. Don't give up on yourself, work hard for those who love you and live well! ! ! I don't have famous disabled articles, only the people around me I see! I hope it is good for you!

My mother, at the age of 42, had a whole thigh resection because of cancer, and she was disabled after the second operation within three years. On the day of seeing a doctor, my mother went by bike alone, but she lost a leg. In the second half of her life, she can only live with crutches, and her mother can't accept the reality, which is extremely painful ... Finally, she saw three underage children. She knew that the children could not live without her mother and bravely walked into the operating room!

My mother heard a man say to my father, "She is like this. You have to wait on her all your life. " . The father who is still in pain replied: Yes!

It is this dialogue that inspired my mother. My mother began to practice using crutches in the hospital, standing and walking independently. She fell countless times and lost one and a half front teeth! My mother just doesn't want to be a burden and burden to others in the future!

It's responsibility, it's the love of relatives. My mother is strong and brave. During this period, she quarreled with her family, lost her temper, was sad and cried bitterly ... This bad mood lasted for many years. After all, a once healthy person has become disabled, and she is afraid of the strange eyes of outsiders. The whole person will be accepted by society again. My mother doesn't like going out, for fear of shame and other people's eyes and comments. Especially on the holiday anniversary, my mother is even more upset and miserable, always making trouble and losing her temper. At this time, she should be patient. After all, she has experienced pain that normal people have not experienced! This performance should be normal, and we have nothing to blame! Be patient, let mom know that her husband and children need her and can't live without her, and let mom know the importance of her existence! I want her to live strong! Let her know that it is painful to live, but it has far-reaching significance to those who love her.

We have never disliked my mother's disability. On the contrary, we are very willing to accompany her to go out, go shopping, take photos in the park, eat in restaurants and so on. In the first few years, my mother didn't like going out, afraid of being looked at and commented by others with strange eyes, and even more afraid of being accosted by others, and hated the sympathetic eyes of others ..... I thought she was a monster. With her company, we all take care of our mother generously and carefully. We don't think so. It's good to have my mother in it. She is no different. It is normal. Show that you like going out with your mother, and let her gradually feel that there is nothing wrong with it. The outside world is so good. I have made many friends now, and I will go out to play when the weather is warm.

Later, my mother did housework like a normal person. Twenty years later, she is still washing clothes with washboards and learning new dishes for us to taste. In these twenty years, she has knitted hundreds of sweaters by herself! I also had a "small table" with my father for ten years! At that time, my mother was over 50 years old. In the northeast, she gets up at four o'clock in the cold winter morning, making buns, cooking porridge, cooking pickles, cooking rice, making dozens of boxes of lunch, collecting money, washing dishes and so on. She was busy until two o'clock before they could have lunch! My mom and dad made it together, and no one was invited! We work separately and can't help our parents much. My mother has been taking care of my brother and sister's two children while making a small "dining table"! My mother is so tenacious, which shows her value in this family! And the meaning of her life!

It is not that we are unfilial, nor that we need money. Parents have a pension, and the operation expenses of that year were reimbursed by a company. We stopped her, hoping that she could enjoy it with peace of mind, but my mother insisted on not being idle, thinking that she had something to do and wanted to show her value and significance! Mom said, I earn a lot of money myself, and I can spend it as I want. I don't want yours, and you have no burden. My mother has worked hard to contribute to this family! What she did affects us more, and we love this tenacious mother more! Love our hard-won home!

In the past 20 years, my mother has never stopped thinking about suicide, especially when she is old, with many physical problems and physical deterioration. The incision she had operated on was unbearable, and she was tortured all day and all night. Taking medicine would not be effective or painless. My mother said that I was really in pain. I used to be younger than now, and I can't stand it more and more. When it hurts, I think, forget it, I'm not in pain, but I'm not in pain when I think about it. Society will also give you bad public opinion, which is not good for you, so I can't die. I just want you to be nice to me, I want to live, and I want to go home optimistically. Some people can call her "mom".

Everyone has his own hobbies, his own purpose of survival, and his own goals. If you find it, you will live tenaciously! So don't give up, don't give up on yourself, family, relatives, friends and so on. Don't give up, love is omnipotent and powerful! Support people's lives.

This person who has been hurt by his body must find his own existence value and know the meaning of being alive to himself and the people around him!

Yesterday, I specially went to listen to a speech by a paraplegic Shanghai woman. Her name is Zangqi. She is a direct seller of a certain brand. I don't want to hear how she succeeded. I just want to know her experience and how she bravely walked out of the predicament and turned her life around.

She is a very beautiful woman. In her twenties, she was accidentally injured and became paraplegic. In the first few years, she could only lie in bed and be cared for by her mother. The painful fact that she is suffering from illness and disability makes her fidgety and at a loss. Originally, I could earn nearly 10,000 yuan a month by opening a store. Now, because my family is heavily in debt, the social assistance is only 25 yuan; Brother because she has no woman willing to marry; The mother in her fifties doesn't enjoy the family happiness of normal old people, but she should take care of her as carefully and patiently as a baby and put up with her bad temper. ......

At home, when my mother wasn't looking, she took a knife to cut fruit and cut her wrists. Her mother found out in time and hugged her in tears. "Sophia Kao, you are dead. Do you want your mother to visit you at the cemetery? How sad, do you know the pain of white-haired people sending black-haired people? You are alive, I have hope! " She deeply remembered these words and never committed suicide again.

After recovery, there was no place to accept her job, and relatives and friends were afraid that her family would borrow money for help, alienating them. Finally, someone recommended her to do direct selling, and she found that her health was failing: she couldn't take care of herself and often peed her pants; No money to sell, no car tools to go out; I want to introduce a person to be myself, and I need to study and train, but I am disabled and have no normal physical conditions to attend classes. ......

Later, she went out with a pack of diapers and didn't drink a mouthful of water a day; Borrow 654.38+00000 yuan as the basis, and purchase products to demonstrate by yourself; Take a taxi without a car and lose money; I am afraid of meeting people, but I make myself a caring person and encourage others to insist on how to succeed. ......

A direct selling job that normal people dare not do, she bravely persisted and appeared in front of the public. In three years, she completely changed herself, found a husband who loved her, and let herself live a high-quality life, pay off the debts she owed, and live a rich life that is rare for normal people.

Now, what we see is the brilliant side of a woman who is almost 40 years old. Think about how much it costs to become a direct selling expert behind paraplegia. ! She said that when she loses confidence in setbacks, she wants to retreat. I just want my mother to wait on me, and I am very sad! I want to stand on my own feet, and I can't drag my mother down. Don't let my mother feel sad and worried about me. Don't say, "Who will serve you in a hundred years?" So I will insist.

I hope what I said is good for you. I hope that the injured people will live bravely, and for the sake of those who love you, stick to living!