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What gift should I give my elders? What are the exquisite gifts for the elders? Whether it's a holiday or an elder's birthday, or something that needs to be visited in person, how can we choose a suitable gift for the elder at this time? From primitive society to feudal society, the political and ethical relations between people in our country are linked by the blood relationship of clan and family. Therefore, countless facts have proved that a person can be loyal to the motherland and love the people only if he has filial piety to his parents. After the founding of New China, the activities of respecting the elderly have enriched new contents. 1 9 8 9, China festival for the elderly was designated as the festival to respect the elderly. On this day, all localities should organize the elderly to climb mountains and have an autumn outing, broaden their horizons, exchange feelings and exercise, and cultivate people's noble character of returning to nature and loving the motherland. People in the north of Changyi, Shandong eat spicy radish soup on the day of respecting the elderly. There is a proverb: "After drinking radish soup, the whole family is not bitter." Juancheng people call Respect for the Elderly Day the birthday of the God of Wealth, and every household bakes sesame cakes to offer sacrifices to the God of Wealth. Zou Ping offered a sacrifice to Fan Zhongyan in Chongyang. In the old days, dyeing houses and wineries also paid homage to the god of tanks on September 9. Tengxian's daughter, who has been married for less than three years, avoids going back to her family for the holidays. There is a saying that "if you go home to Chongyang, you will kill your mother-in-law." In Xixiang County, Shaanxi Province, relatives and friends presented chrysanthemums and chrysanthemum cakes to show their respect for the elderly. Literati appreciate poetry and wine. It is said that on this day, women can learn from the mouth of Cornus officinalis and cure their distress. In Jiangsu province, on the day of respecting the elderly, people in Nanjing cut five-color paper into inclined planes and even made flags to be inserted in court. Changzhou County respects the elderly and eats a kind of pasta called "camel's hoof". Shanghai Yuyuan Garden held a chrysanthemum party on the day of respecting the elderly, and judged it according to three levels: novelty, nobility and rarity. Wuxi county respects the elderly and eats Chongyang cake and Jiupin soup. On September 9th in Xianghe County, Hebei Province, families with in-laws will give gifts to each other, which is called "chasing festivals". The sunny and rainy days in Yongping House will be dominated by Chongyang weather. If it rains on the day of respecting the elderly, it will rain these days. Children in qingfeng county play with paper kites on the Day of Respect for the Elderly. There are no mountains in Zhou Dian County, and more people climb towers on the Day of Respecting the Elderly. Visiting each other on the day of respecting the elderly in Shaoxing, Zhejiang Province, relatives and friends cried and worshipped the spirit at the funeral. On September 9, Tonglu County prepared pigs and sheep as ancestors, which was called autumn festival. At the same time, we also tie zongzi and give them to each other on the day of respecting the elderly. This is the so-called Chongyang Zongzi. On September 9, Dexing County, Jiangxi Province was harvesting late rice. Tongling County, Anhui Province takes the ninth Double Ninth Festival as the Dragon and Candle Festival to welcome the mountain gods. Chopping bamboo and horses for fun is said to drive away the plague. In Chongyang, Lianchuan, Guangdong, all the boys and girls gathered outside the city to sing songs for the whole state to watch. Nanxiong House invited maoshan taoist to set up the Empress Dowager Club on September 9th, and all young women who want to have children will come to attend. In Yangjiang County, a paper kite with a rattan bow is placed on the Festival of Respect for the Elderly, which is very loud in mid-air. The citizens of Lingao County got up early on the Day of Respect for the Elderly, and everyone shouted "Catch Bobcats" in unison, which bodes well for peace and prosperity. Nanyang, Henan Province, with beautiful words such as "I wish you a long and healthy life", "Grow old together" and "Happy family" as the main content, is called a grand competition. Of course, you can also shout out your unique heartfelt words according to your own wishes. At that time, 9 9 old people will participate in the mountaineering competition together, and a mountain shouting competition will be held after reaching the summit. The staff will use a decibel meter to determine the ranking of the competition according to the voice of the players. In Huaiji County, Guangxi, Chongyang is regarded as the enlightenment day of Yuan Di. Men, women and children came out of the city, and they all competed with God with cannons. On September 9th in Longan County, cattle and sheep were allowed to feed on their own. As the saying goes, "on September 9, cattle and sheep will keep their food." On this day, scholars from Nanxi County, Sichuan Province gathered at Censhan Building in Longteng Mountain to commemorate the poet Cen Can, known as Cen Association. According to the old folk custom, glutinous rice should be used to steam wine before and after Chongyang to make mash. As the saying goes, "steamed wine on the Double Ninth Festival is sweet and delicious". There is a traditional habit of climbing mountains on September 9 in Jinnan area of Shanxi Province since ancient times. Appreciating great rivers and mountains and scenic spots and historic sites has become a major event of the festival. Today, famous sayings such as "Gan Kun will win, and our generation will climb the peak together", "The east wind can't stay, Ran Ran rises from the peak" and "New joy in September, agriculture, countryside and farmers celebrate autumn" are still being recited among the people. Wuchang County, Hubei Province, Double Ninth Festival brewing. It is said that the wine brewed here is the clearest and will not go bad after a long time. Yingcheng County Respect for the Elderly Day is a day of wishing, and even every household worships the God of Fangshe Tianzu on this day. Fujian Province: Maodou Festival is a gift from farmers in Changting County. Flying kites on the Day of Respect for the Elderly in Haicheng County is called "Wind Chak". After fulfilling the responsibility of raising children and offspring, the old people lose the brilliance and vitality of their youth, and more are lonely and lonely. What they expect is not how much their children contribute to their families, but their health and safety. In their later years, what they expect is not enjoyment, but greetings and care from their children, which is their family happiness. A phone call, a blessing and a sincere greeting will make the old people feel the warmth of life and will make them feel gratified and happy. Spring Festival is a traditional festival in China, and it is also an excellent opportunity to show concern to the elders. As a junior, it is inevitable to prepare a gift for the elders in the Spring Festival, but giving gifts to the elders in the Spring Festival always makes many friends worry, and they don't know what to buy or send to make the elders feel their mind. Giving a suitable gift to parents and other elders can show your concern and filial piety. Gifts are not about how expensive they are, but about sending them to parents' hearts and making them feel sincerely happy. Giving gifts to the elderly is easier said than done. Some elderly people are easy to talk to, and even if your gift is inappropriate, the other person will not say anything. However, some old people may not be so good-tempered. Sometimes, if the gifts we give are inappropriate, we often face the embarrassment of being swept out of the house. So this kind of situation is also what we don't want to see. What should we do in this case? So what should we pay attention to when giving gifts to the elderly? In fact, the younger generation in the family should pay attention to the practicality of gifts when giving gifts to the elderly to express their feelings. Because some old people have developed the habit of saving debts at ordinary times, they are often reluctant to buy things that are not urgently needed, and when someone brings something that he likes but is reluctant to buy, he will feel extremely happy and satisfied. In addition to the above aspects, juniors also require that gifts be targeted. It is best to know the hobbies and urgent needs of the elderly in advance before buying. In case you don't know the preferences of the elderly, you can ask them directly, or even ask them to go shopping together. Don't give gifts blindly. Some younger generations give birthday presents to their elders and follow others' example to buy cigarettes and famous wines. In fact, these are all improper practices. If the elders like alcohol and tobacco and their blood pressure is not high, it will certainly make them happy, but if they suffer from diseases such as hypertension and arteriosclerosis, it is extremely inappropriate. Young people give gifts to the elderly, not because of the value of the gift itself, but because of the sincerity of the gift. Then no matter what gift you give, the old man will be very happy, and the gift you give is also a unique memory! The following small series will share the gifts for the elderly with friends from several aspects, hoping to help friends! Blessing gift: everyone wants to be blessed, and business people like you to say congratulations on getting rich; Friends at work like you to say that the work is going well; Children want you to say that you are successful in your studies; The elders want you to say that everything is going well and you are in good health. These are all blessings, but the difference is that the blessings for the elders should be sincere and some auspicious gifts can be attached. Such gifts are a good choice! Health Gift: Time flies. As time goes by, the elderly pay more and more attention to their physical and mental health. We can see many old people exercising in the park every morning. Some elderly people are in poor health, and even a good night's sleep is a luxury. For such elders, it is better to give some health-related gifts than those seemingly precious and beautiful items that have no practical significance. For example, Cordyceps sinensis, a popular high-end natural health care product, is favored by more and more elderly people because of its precious health preservation values such as anti-cancer, enhancing immunity, tonifying kidney and nourishing lung. There are many brands of Cordyceps sinensis, and the best quality is the natural Cordyceps sinensis from Naqu, Tibet. For example, the well-known domestic brand Fulinmen Cordyceps sinensis is a typical representative in this regard. Three-coupon gift: No matter what kind of gift-giving occasion, no matter what kind of gift-giving object you are facing, gift-giving is always the most correct way. For example, some old people prefer to taste tea, which is the best drink given by nature to mankind. Tea is not only beneficial to physical and mental health, but also has a lot of feelings about life through tea ceremony, so more elderly people like to taste tea. Well-known domestic tea brands, such as Fulinmen, are the favorite ways for the elderly to taste tea. Practical gifts: Young people give gifts to the elderly to express their feelings, but also pay attention to the practicality of gifts. Because some elders usually cultivate a more economical debt habit, they are often reluctant to buy something that is not urgently needed, and when someone brings something that he likes but is reluctant to buy, he will feel extremely happy and satisfied. This is the key to giving gifts to the elders, especially the elderly, who are not interested in some novel things because of the influence of traditional culture, but rather love some classical things. We can choose some gifts according to this aspect, which is definitely a good choice! Before choosing practical items, we can ask or investigate first, and then choose, so as not to find them really redundant and embarrassing after sending them.