Social psychology: the principle of dealing with the type of female man

There are many types of female men, including muscular ones and inner strong ones. So which type of female Chinese characters do you like?

Female man: These days, "20 standards for female men" has become the topic with the highest forwarding rate in Weibo. More and more girls call themselves "female men", and many girls begin to take "being a female man among a group of men instead of playing with their brains among a group of women" as their social philosophy. So what do psychologists think of self-styled women? How did the "female man" come into being?

Online version of the standard for female men

1 the mineral water bottle won't unscrew, and it will compete instead of asking for help.

When the weather is too hot, I will run naked at home.

I often feel that it is troublesome to be a girl.

I like to tilt my head and pour the chips in my bag into my mouth.

I like chatting online or swearing at ordinary times.

I would also like to eat hot pot without air conditioning in summer.

7 can change the water dispenser bucket by yourself.

Love to play online games such as Warcraft and League of Legends.

It's too late to go to bed without washing.

10 doesn't like makeup and rarely takes selfies.

1 1 It is easy to become "buddies" with boys.

12 likes to cross your legs or shake your legs when eating out.

13 thinks shopping is a trouble.

14 seldom goes to barber shops, nail salons and beauty salons.

15 eating apples is usually washed and eaten directly.

16 I often don't wash my face or hair at home.

17 Take your own luggage when traveling abroad.

18 Girls who don't like shyness and hair loss feel melodramatic.

19 Even high heels dare to chase the subway bus.

Dare to order a big meal when the opposite sex is present.

Do you have such a "female man" around you?

Aggressive type

I climbed to the sixth floor with heavy luggage and refused to help the freshmen report for duty. Xiao Li, a "female man", became famous in World War I because she was "awesome". Xiao Li's dormitory is on the sixth floor. When freshmen report for duty, seniors should naturally take the initiative to court. But women don't buy it for Li. Quite confident boys take the initiative to help move things, and ordinary girls will also hand over their luggage, but Xiao Li politely declined the help of the seniors. She grabbed her hair and tied it up. Without looking up, she said, "Thank you, I can do it myself." I started climbing the stairs with my luggage. The senior seemed to have his pride hurt and forcibly grabbed Xiao Li's luggage, but when the luggage was mentioned in his hand, he found that his hand sank suddenly. Obviously, this senior underestimated the weight of luggage.

On the sixth floor, after cleaning up the dormitory, Xiao Li cleaned up a big bag of garbage. The diligent senior wanted to give another hand, but Xiao Li once again shocked everyone with amazing actions. She lifted her foot and kicked the package directly to the next floor, which stunned the onlookers.

versatile

Dont Ask For Help, change the light bulb, fix the water pipe and the printer. You have to do everything yourself.

Go to work non-stop, go to the market to buy food immediately after work, wash and cook immediately after returning home, vacuum and mop the floor, collect clothes and fold them. The office worker "Jia Jia wants to be a woman" lives such a "seamless connection" life. "No way, the soft girl who rents a house together doesn't like to do anything, so I have to do it." Although Jia Jia is very helpless, her words can't stop her inner pride. Not only basic housework, but also water and electricity problems such as changing light bulbs and repairing water pipes. "I'll fix it when I call the plumber!"

Jia Jia said that she used to be a girl with a mouthful of food, but the exercise in the workplace made her realize a great change. She changed Weibo's name to "Jia Jia wants to be a woman", constantly challenging her subjective initiative. In Jiajia's Weibo, the reporter saw this latest content, "I was taking a lunch break at my desk at noon, and the little brother from the next department came and said that the printer was broken. I went to fix the printer, wiped my hands and continued to lie down and take a nap. Please call me a woman. "

How is the "female man" tempered?

The netizen said that the "female man" is actually a young man who struggles alone.

Fan Bingbing, who looks charming, calls herself "Ye Fan" and Liu Shishi, a fresh female artist, is called "Shi Ye". Even Zhou Dongyu, the little girl in The Hawthorn Tree Love, was ranked as an "uncle" in the recent entertainment news. The popularity of "female man" on the Internet is far beyond imagination. Yesterday, on Sina Weibo, a comparison table named "20 Habits Related to Women" was spread by netizens at a geometric growth rate. In this comparison table, the straightforward and vivid "female behavior" such as "the mineral water bottle can't be unscrewed, and it will struggle rather than ask for help", "I like to pour the potato chips in my bag into my mouth" and "I can change the bucket of the water dispenser myself" makes people laugh.

According to the comparison requirements of this table, the items above 10 are "quasi-female men", and the items above 15 are "standard female men". If all 20 items are "shot", they can only be called "brothers".

Netizens are happy to compare the number of articles they encounter, while voicing Weibo's content. "The' female man' is actually a young man who struggles alone!" A netizen argued this way. And "Miao Tiancai _angladevil" simply explodes privacy. "I only missed two, really a heroine among women." "Back to expressway 6 1" means "a woman is not a rough man who doesn't like cleanliness and doesn't pay attention to the details of life. Flexibility is a skill. A woman can't have a bottle cap that can't be unscrewed for a bucket. It is no problem to change the toilet. "

The character formation of "female man" is related to heredity and environment.

Yuan Yonggui, director of the Department of Psychiatry of Zhong Da Hospital affiliated to Southeast University, told the reporter that there are two definitions of "female man", but netizens are controversial about girls who weaken femininity and strengthen masculinity. "The formation of personality is related to genetic, environmental and other related factors. Everyone's personality has masculine and feminine parts. Gender identity makes us understand that we should bring out the part of our personality that is consistent with our biological gender. "

Yuan Yonggui said that there are many reasons for calling themselves "female men", but many of them are influenced by the external environment, which leads to changes in personality. "Many girls are used to playing with boys since childhood, and their personalities are easily influenced, which can explain the stipulation of' calling many boys brothers' in the standard passed by netizens." And "changing the bucket of drinking machine by yourself" and "carrying luggage by yourself when traveling abroad" are more forced by the environment and the present situation. "If a girl finds that reality forces her to take care of herself, then the masculinity in her character will be mobilized."

Female stars' feminine calling themselves "Ye" and "Ge" can greatly reduce the chances of being hated by other women, but what are the reasons why so many girls in life are willing to call themselves "female men"? Yuan Yonggui told reporters with a smile that there are also some elements of self-mockery and psychological comfort. "Girls who can laugh at themselves like this often achieve psychological comfort by calling themselves' female men', which is actually a manifestation of their mental health. If you are deeply involved, it is likely to cause psychological problems. "

There is also a physical "female man"

The bearded "female man" is an endocrine disorder with high androgen.

In real life, some young women often have such distress, with thick hair and obvious beard on their lips. Are they really "women"? When patients with this symptom go to the hospital for examination, they often find that the androgen level in the body is too high, and then they may be diagnosed as polycystic ovary syndrome.

An expert in endocrinology at Nanjing Gulou Hospital said that polycystic ovary syndrome is a disease that will gradually change the unique physiological characteristics of women and affect fertility. It often begins in adolescence and is characterized by menstrual disorder and androgen excess.

Androgen is an important sex hormone in women, which plays an important role in promoting women's normal growth and development and maintaining women's normal reproductive function. However, if female endocrine disorders, excessive androgen secretion in the body, ovarian function is inhibited, leading to menstrual disorder or even amenorrhea, affecting normal ovulation, leading to polycystic ovary syndrome and infertility. In addition, patients are prone to obesity, hirsutism, acne and other symptoms, and even show some masculine characteristics, such as some "female men" with long beards at the corners of their mouths.

A muscular "female man"

In fact, it is very difficult for girls to practice muscles.

Russian 17-year-old girls have developed "angel face and masculine figure" because of their interest in fitness, but after the photo of "the cutest woman" was exposed, many female friends were a little worried. Will the sports meeting make itself like this? In real life, even if there is no such example, many women are very afraid that sports will turn people into muscle women. So, does sports make people become muscle girls?

In fact, women have a hormonal disadvantage in muscle exercise. Hormone level will affect the state of muscle, among which testosterone, the male hormone, is considered to have obvious effect on muscle growth. Testosterone can promote protein synthesis and inhibit protein decomposition. Muscle training will further stimulate the secretion of testosterone, but this stimulating effect is not obvious in women, so it is more difficult for girls to practice muscles than men in terms of congenital conditions.

Love articles

First, the average female man often has his own firm standards in choosing a spouse and chooses what he likes, so it is often difficult for the suitor to succeed, which also reflects the independent and stubborn character of the female man from the side and may be a little controlling;

Second, I would rather be alone than choose what I like.

Third, if you meet someone you like, you will also boldly chase after them.

Compare with "traditional" women to see which is better and which is worse:

First, women often have no fixed standards in choosing a spouse, and they often choose things they don't like, so suitors are often easy to succeed, which also reflects that women are more dependent on men's personality and have lower social status;

Second, in order to reproduce, I would rather choose what I don't like.

Third, when you meet someone you like, you won't chase them boldly, but often let them pursue themselves through hints.