Why did Zhang Zhiming finally choose Yu Chunjiao instead of Youyou? Is there really no reason to love someone?

Shang Youyou is very nice and young and beautiful, but she will feel tired after living with her for a long time. Yu Chunjiao will play dry ice with you in the toilet, which Huiying can't do, and neither can business friends. I will also buy spaghetti with meat sauce from a convenience store in Hong Kong, and even ask you to put an extra wet towel and eat more pears in the dry weather in Beijing before breaking up. She is Zhang Zhiming's spaghetti with meat sauce, Land Rover and green color, which is an old feeling that big boys can't live without. Choosing a person is not without reason, but there is an answer in the dark.

There is no reason to love someone. In the movie, Chunjiao said that two people were lying in a big bed with clothes on. When Zhiming hugged her from behind and whispered in his ear, "Some things don't need to be done in one night, and we are not in a hurry", she fell into the whirlpool of love.

But I don't think so. I think it was when Yu Chunjiao read the message "I miss you" backwards that she completely fell in love with Zhang Zhiming. Before that, she was immersed in an anxious and excited secret love state, uneasy, hesitant and eager; After that, she gave her heart to the other party with confidence and paid her feelings with confidence. Isn't the meaning of love dedicated to each other?

Zhang Zhiming did not pay any fees. He broke up with Yu Chunjiao's boyfriend, expressed his jealousy of the little policeman who lit Chunjiao's cigarette, and went out for a few walks together. Just rely on a short message, a few ambiguous words, won the love and love of Chunjiao. This also reflects Yu Chunjiao's shortcomings and problems from the side, namely: inner insecurity.

There are two main reasons for this insecurity, one is the lack of long-term and stable care, and the other is the psychological panic that is about to pass the age-appropriate marriage and childbearing period. Chunjiao had three men. Except Xu zhēng, ex-boyfriend A Hao and ex-boyfriend Zhiming are just the same kind of people. It is no exaggeration to say that Ahao is actually Zhang Zhiming five years later. In the five years when Chunjiao and Qin Hao fell in love, Chunjiao took care of Ahao's daily life, but she didn't get the same emotional return.

In this movie, the five-year cohabitation between Chunjiao and Ahao is actually the seven-year itch of the variant. Why did it itch for 7 years? The reason is that men and women have different attitudes towards marriage. Men regard women as objects, and when they get home, they finish the task. Without them, however, few people will continue to maintain the prey they already have on a regular basis. But women are different. No matter how old they are, there is always a heart eager to be loved. Zhang Zhiming's success is based on Chunjiao's failure to get enough attention from her last boyfriend Ahao.

In addition, Chunjiao is an older woman who has been in love for five years. A Hao refused to mention the word marriage except for sexual requirements, which is also an opportunity for Chunjiao to make a clean break.