If you could start your life over again, would you choose love or money?

We are all learning to be a mature and steady adult, to be able to remain calm in all situations, so we have learned to cover up and disguise, and even if we want to cry, we will say something with a smile. Sadness, using a plain or distant tone, tells something that is not important to others but is very unforgettable to oneself.

A friend told me that in relationships, people who believe that "love can never be retained, but tricks can win people's hearts" think that the current infatuation is worthless, which is a very idiotic performance. "Seriously If you lose, you lose." Skillful flirting with girls is the essence of love. You must know how to do it accurately. In the process, you must know what you are "pursuing". How to say sweet words when "pursuing", how to be domineering as a man when doing things, and how to coax the other party when quarreling.

After he finished, he smiled and asked me, do you understand? This is why you haven't found a new pursuit after that time, and what's happening now is because you got too deep into the emotional game. If you still have a chance to meet her, you should be like What's the name of that song? "When I see you again, I will pretend to be firm." After saying that, he stood up and walked away, leaving me sitting alone on the side of the road with a few beer bottles beside me...

If we meet again, maybe I still can't let go, then it might as well be not see.

When we broke up, we said goodbye willfully and complained hysterically to each other. You said that I was cowardly and careless, and I said that you were selfish and ambiguous, so we agreed that we would never see each other again in this life. What you don’t know is that it’s not until you start a new life that I truly say goodbye to you. But I will still be there for you whenever you need me.

That day, I received a call from my ex. I was a little surprised because I had no contact with him for more than a year after the breakup. Before she picked up the phone and could speak, there was a cry from the other end. She said: I broke up with him. Are you happy to hear the news?

How have you been spending this year? Have you taken good care of yourself in your life alone? I'm sorry for you. I shouldn't have treated you like that. It was my fault. I'm sorry.

I felt something was wrong, so I asked her if something had happened? If there's anything I can do to help you, just say it. I didn’t blame you at first because I was also wrong.

She choked with sobs, I am sick, and it is a disease that may not be cured in my lifetime, or it may be a disease that can only be cured. I'm calling you just to say I'm sorry. I always feel like I treated you badly that way.

I will accompany you for treatment. When you are cured, come back to me.

When we are young, we always have an innocent heart, a heart that never forgets its original intention no matter how the world changes. And this heart only belongs to one person, and it only grows after experiencing time and time again. After twists and turns, being teased by time and fate, I gradually began to understand: the world of love is not just about sweet words, romance and warmth. The stories in fairy tales are all lies, and they will always only exist in books. Like in TV series, more stories will part ways and diverge in the end, leaving some thoughts and memories for the person who lives in the past but can't get out.

Go home to visit her and talk to her, just because she said she wanted to see you. There were constant messages on the phone and WeChat, and the chats were nothing more than words of comfort and encouragement to her. One time, he even lost his job to accompany her to Guangzhou for medical treatment. At that time, he was just about to be promoted.

Some people are not really selfish or unreasonable, but they are just hurt, don’t know where to go, are unwilling, and don’t know how to take back everything, so they put on the mask of disguise. , walking among the comings and goings of people, continuing to crawl and roll on the battlefield. But please don't hurt those who are serious.

The last time I sent a message to her was a few days ago.

She said: I regret being with you. The three years of relationship with you only resulted in these few months of companionship. Your cowardice and carelessness made me feel good about others. , so I was right to leave you. Get out of here, as far away as possible.

The "him" she was talking about was the boyfriend she had after breaking up with me. It was also the person she chose in the beginning when she wanted to break away from me.

Then I replied to her calmly: We should never have any contact with each other. It is only because of my reluctance and concern for you that I got you to be ruthless again today. It’s just me. Now that I regret it, it's too late, so let's do it. goodbye.

It’s not that we can’t stand separation, it’s just that we can’t stand the traces left by each other after separation. We're both fine, it's just bad timing. Almost I couldn't meet you, almost I missed you, almost you became my woman, almost, still almost. If I hadn't met you before, if I had just appeared by your side now, would I be able to move you and be with you? Going to Guangzhou for treatment did not work. Later, she heard that her brother had a professor-level psychological counselor in Hubei, so she took more than 20 hours of train ride from Shenzhen to Hubei.

The most charming thing about love is that your smile always touches the heart of another person, even though you know that they are not related by blood. Different zodiac signs have different personalities, but he seems to be very smart and can always guess your heart.

It's like what she was thinking when she mentioned "him" in front of me. It's like why she deliberately hid behind her back to chat with "him" but deleted all the records. It's like I know why she did it. I got this disease because "he" left.

"His" departure made her, who had a strong self-esteem, collapse. After leaving, she still owed her a lot of money, and the vows made to each other fell apart when "him" left, but she still only had "him" in her heart. Even though "he" has left her. Although they are still in contact.

After she came back, her illness was almost healed. She thought that the next one would be fine, yes, I thought, it would be fine...

I still remember, after the separation When we met again, she smiled and said to me, you are very good. Meeting you is the luckiest thing in my life. When I get better, I will be with you in a down-to-earth manner and never be separated again.

That night, after I finished saying those words, I drank a lot of wine, sat alone on the side of the road, and shouted to the road: Drink when you are broken up, and let go when you have had enough trouble! If you don't love me, please take back the ambiguity. Thanks.

Not everyone has to be kind to themselves, and not everyone has to respond to their requests and pay for you. You can have what you want, but I hope you can think carefully about whether what you have is what you deserve.

In the relationship between two people, one person is constantly satisfied, and the other person is constantly squandering. I always feel that others should be kind to you, but have you ever thought that a person is kind to you? It is a blessing. Being loved by others is a kind of luck. A person can be kind to you anytime and anywhere. He can also be kind to others at any time. He can also take back these kindnesses at any time. If you don't cherish them, you will get disappointment and retreat from others. . Waiting is a painful ordeal.

If you have accumulated enough disappointment, then just sort out your mood and start again.

I looked at the time and sent a message: I won’t go tonight. I’ll go over to accompany you tomorrow.

Then don’t come. I really regret that I was with you in the first place. It took me three years in exchange for your company for these few months. Get out of here, as far away as possible. Your cowardice and carelessness make me feel that others are treating me well. Leaving you was the right choice. If I could choose again, I would rather not know you. If I hadn't been sick, I wouldn't come to you again. I could live a better life. Do you know why I deliberately mentioned the matter between me and "him" in front of you? ? That's because I want you to get out of the way. Besides, I'm living a pretty good life now, so you don't have to worry about it. Get lost.

I ran out of the house crazily and drank a lot of wine...

I am not yours, and I cannot be nice to you. This sentence is the same for you and me, because from beginning to end, we have no relationship at all. Everything is just me being sentimental.

Who has not loved one or two wrong people in his whole life, who has not loved one or two wrong people, who has not had one or two stories, and who has only had one or two stories? Life is always ups and downs, no one lives for anyone, and no one can't live because of anyone.

Life is still going on day by day. Occasionally, the madman will check her circle of friends and know that she is doing well now. It feels like someone has hit her in the heart. It hurts, it hurts, but But there is nothing that can be done. Is it a pity? have no idea. It would be false to say that I don't regret it, and it would be even more false to say that I regret it. In this way, if you are the only one who is hurt, then don't worry, because I am stronger than you.

How to forget someone, do you need a pack of cigarettes or a beer? No, it's just not to see each other, not to meet again, and not to disturb each other after the breakup is the best ending for us to give each other.