Marriage fraud, I was defrauded of more than 100,000 by a girl and her cousin. . . .

Then we went to Yang Xiaohui’s uncle’s house. Her uncle's name is Li Wenhua. I didn't see her that day. Her aunt said that she went to play at a classmate's house. I asked her if she had any photos. After seeing the photos, I thought it was okay. I had more than 5,000 yuan with me at that time. I was afraid that if I continued like this, I wouldn't have enough money, so I didn't want to wait. I called my dad and told him that he could call me if I didn’t have any money. His uncle over there said that it would take a few days for Xiaohui to leave with you.

Then that day when we came back with the intermediary, the intermediary made a phone call and told me that there was another girl here, do you want to take a look. I said just take a look.

Then when we came back with the intermediary that day, the intermediary made a phone call and talked to I said there is a girl here, do you want to take a look? I said just take a look. We stopped for a meal there and looked at the girl. I was actually not satisfied with that girl either, but I don’t need to be good-looking to live in the future, as long as she has good character. My sister and I discussed taking her back. Then that night we went back to the hotel. We were going to take her back on the third day, but after the agent took us to the location, she hadn't arrived yet. Then the agent said that the girl you went to see last time came back, do you want to go and see her. Of course I said no, I wanted to leave. But he said, didn't you mean that you have a cousin who doesn't have a wife? It's okay for you to take a look and agree, and you can talk about it. Or if you don't agree, it's okay for your cousin to take her. I agreed. It was raining moderately on the mountain that night. We were waiting in the car for Xiaohui to go from her own home to her uncle's home. I was very impatient at the time.

When it got dark at night, she also came to her uncle's house. We went to her grandpa’s house together under an umbrella. The meal was not at her uncle's house. When I got there, I took the initiative to talk to her. I asked her some questions. I looked at her and thought she was a very nice girl, and she could cook her own food and had a very beautiful personality. After dinner we left our mobile phone numbers. Then my sister and I went back to the hotel.

I contacted her and she said she would wait until her father was buried. The only way to leave is on August 18th. I think I was number 10 that day. My sister's child was crying for her mother. Her family came to my house and quarreled every day. Her man was also stingy. So that sister went home first, and her life after returning home was entirely dependent on me.

I stayed in that hotel every day and sent text messages to her when I had nothing to do. As the 18th approached, her family and I started discussing the bride price. Her family wanted a bride price of 50,000 yuan. My mother didn’t quite agree. My father did the same and asked me to discuss with her family whether we could reduce the amount. I told her and she said she also wanted to have less, but her mother didn't agree. I said that the two of us will live together in the future, even if we want to make up for your mother's kindness. I also told her uncle about this matter, and he said that I would discuss it with my uncle and see if we can reduce it. In fact, now that I think about it, her uncle definitely didn't tell her sister.

I called my home, but my family was worried and prepared to call me back. Later, my father and I called and asked if we could give half of the gift money up front and someone from her family would bring her over. It’s hard to miss a penny here. I called Xiaohui. Xiaohui said no, her mother said the money must be given here. My father had no choice but to send me 50,000 yuan.

After the burial, she, her uncle, I went to the police station to apply for temporary ID cards, and then we arrived at their place at 5:30 pm on Friday. Rural. So it was not done that day. The next day was a Saturday and there was no one at the police station to apply for an ID card. Her uncle had an acquaintance, so he applied for ID certificate there. Then we rushed to the Honghe County Public Security Bureau to apply for ID cards, but no one came to work. If I wait to apply for an ID card, I will waste a lot of time. The three of us went directly to Mojiang County to live there, and then her mother, her grandfather, and her brother all came to Mojiang County the next day.

I called my sister’s mother and the agency and asked them to come over and be witnesses. Because I still owe the agency 1,000 yuan. The person who spoke before was 3000, so I gave 2000 first. When I took the money I had with me, I found that I only had more than 800 left, which was not enough. I just wanted to go and withdraw the money alone. After hearing this, her uncle said that he would go with me to withdraw the money. Of course it was with Xiaohui. I was very scared when I took out the money. I was afraid what if I couldn’t turn back the money after giving it away? After I withdrew the money, her uncle took it away. I said no, I had to sign for the money before giving it back. Xiaohui said, don't you trust me yet? If I want to leave, why do I have to wait until now? I didn’t want to hurt her, but at that time I would go wherever she went. After arriving at the hotel, I gave them the written receipt to sign, but the agent was unwilling. They said the money was not given in front of them, and he did not dare to sign the certifier. .

It's too late to say anything now. It's all my fault that I didn't think of a way to negotiate it myself and asked my parents for help.

　 After giving me the money, she really left with me. What happened next was what happened after returning to our home. Xiaohui is lovable in every way here. Many girls here are hard-working, family-oriented, etc. that many of our girls cannot do. She makes people admire her. Wherever she goes, people say that we don’t have such a good girl in our family. I have never been deceived into a pyramid scheme before. No matter how nice people say it or how nice they treat me, I am not impressed. But such a woman is playing tricks on me. After I was deceived into a pyramid scheme at that time, I was still laughing secretly to myself. I am not as easily deceived as those people. If I am deceived in the future, it may be a woman who did not expect that it will actually come true.

I will not let the matter go like this. No matter what I do, I must not let her harm others again. I contacted her former boyfriend the day after she left. He told me that her uncle was a personal trafficker and that her sister had also gone out to make money several times. Her boyfriend is from their local area. Because Xiaohui's family disliked him for having no parents, they did not agree to the marriage.

Our whole family enjoyed it very much when she and I came back. I also brought many people to my house for dinner that day. During this time, I was worried about myself every day when I was away at home. One was my safety, and the other was whether I would be cheated. Now that I'm back, my parents are finally relieved. When he came to my house, my cousin also came to my house for dinner, and my sister also came. This time I also brought my sister’s mother. It was also spent my family’s money. When I was in Yunnan, I told my cousin that I would also find him a wife. So my cousin came over and asked Xiaohui to introduce a girl. I really shouldn't believe her, she brought her cousin here and lied to my cousin Xiaochun. Later, my mother was worried and asked someone to make a copy of her household registration book. But when she found out, she started to complain that my family didn't trust her. But how many things did she do to make me trust her more? My mother once whispered to me, saying that I should pay attention to her, because the money in the box was 100 less. Of course, I am not saying here that she took it. I'm not at home during the day, and my parents are not at home, so who else is there besides her. Later I also kept her because she didn't bring any money when she came, and all her 50,000 yuan was given to her family. She once bought something with her own money, and I was wondering where she got the money. I asked her after I got home, but she didn't answer. Then one day, we got into a quarrel over something. I was outspoken and said something to her. I said, if you have any purpose in coming to our house, don't even think about it. Then she started crying and said I had wronged her, and the next day my mother scolded me. My neighbor's aunt also said that Xiaohui is such a good girl, why did you treat her like this? I also slapped her that day. Later, I often reflected on my mistakes and how I should not have treated her.

　 She would talk to me about this matter every time, and I really couldn’t bear it. I had no choice but to smile with her, and I said I would never do this again. I was confused that day. In fact, I also thought about Guo Xiaohui’s words. She wasn’t lying to me. I would never treat a normal girl like this in the future, because if there is love, there should be trust. One day Xiaohui and I were drying rice together, and she got the rice into the field. That area is where we normally go to the garbage water. She said that anyway, your parents won't talk about me when they come back, they will only scold you.

Xiaohui’s ID card has always been kept by herself, except when she first came here, her household registration book was at my house. Later, she also asked for her household registration book back.

My job has never been very stable. After I came back in June this year, I worked in several factories, but the salary was not very satisfactory. In August, I came to Youbang Steel Structure as an apprentice welder. At the beginning, the work there was very stable. I often had work to do. Later, when I came back from Yunnan, my master left and stopped working. Next, another master took me. This master has always been very good to me. Even when I didn't have any work to do in the factory, he would take me to work outside. But during this period, the factory was getting worse day by day, and my master also had to leave for some reasons. I asked the factory leader if I could be allowed to do it behind the others. The factory leader said, look, many of us here are on vacation, and now it looks like a policeman is doing it.

I have no choice but to look for him in other factories in our town. Other factories are not recruiting people right now. Xiaohui and I have talked about this matter many times. She also told me that my cousin and I should learn carpentry and decoration together. It wasn’t that I didn’t want to go, but I was afraid that I wouldn’t be able to make any money from the job. Besides, I have a weird temper, and I'm afraid that my relatives around me will complain that I am the one who is being blamed. I would rather do ready-made work in the factory.

　December is here and the weather is getting colder. The first thing I thought of was her, and I bought her a down jacket, shoes, and pants. I am not willing to buy myself any clothes because of my income. I bought a down jacket and was scolded by my mother for a few days. I have worn that jacket for several years. Also in December, one day she was surfing the Internet and still didn't sleep until after one o'clock at night. I got up and called her. She said she would go to bed right away. Then I pulled her and turned off the computer. She pushed the computer and threw it to the ground.

　 The closest thing to her departure was that I had a fight with her. At noon that day, I was picking up some food for her, and she hit me with her chopsticks, causing the food to fall to the floor. My mother was also there, and I was so angry that I smashed the bowl against the wall. None of us spoke during those days. A few days after this incident, she ran away and disappeared with her cousin. I really regret it, why should I lose my temper?

When Xiaohui was here, she brought 3 ID cards. One of her own was obtained by me, her, and her uncle. The other two ID cards are not hers. I asked her but she didn't answer. Maybe I didn't want to lose her, so I didn't tell anyone else about it.

At noon that day, I went to the Touzo Factory to find my master. The master said that he might not work here next year. I later returned home, and Xiaohui told me that I would go to my cousin's house to buy some medicine and shoes with her. I had no doubt at all. In the past, she often went to Touzao with her cousin.