Do you pay attention to greetings?

In social interaction, while shaking hands and smiling, there is naturally an exchange of pleasantries, which is also the initial language exchange in daily contact. The greeting language is generally "Nice to meet you", "Thanks", "It's a nice day today" and so on. In daily life, once we meet someone to say hello, we will feel respected, and our smiling faces will leave a deep impression on each other.

People who are good at greeting will give people the feeling of being broad-minded and brothers in the world. On the contrary, if you meet an acquaintance or stranger, you can't have a few friendly greetings, which will give people an impression that you are not cheerful enough.

In the office, if you are a new employee, you should say "hello" before others. This lively and energetic greeting will bring you closer to the people around you and make you familiar with the things around you as soon as possible. When you meet a colleague in the corridor, just nod your head gently. Company guests should be especially careful when they are in the office. If they have to leave their seats, they should say hello first. If you are an acquaintance, you have to talk for decades. When you get off work, you should say to your colleagues who are still working, "I'll go first."

A friend is engaged in sales promotion, and his performance is quite good. His sales trick is to call his customers often. As soon as the other party answers the phone, he immediately asks in a very cheerful voice, "How are you?" Results Every time the customer answered the phone and heard this greeting, he knew it was him, which left a deep impression on the customer. Every customer has a good impression on him, and his performance will certainly be good.

Another example is "Lao Liu, the new coat is really magnificent!" "Ah, this coat looks so handsome on you!" Speaking like this not only makes people feel the attention of others, but also brings them closer.

Greetings cover a wide range of topics, including weather, health, hobbies, work, etc. , but its specific content must be carefully selected and the topic must be natural. Greeting strangers can start with their accent, native place, etc. After knowing each other's native place, there will be a topic. Beijing can talk about the Forbidden City, the Great Wall, Tianjin can talk about dog disregard and so on. It would be better if you happen to be a fellow villager, and you can lead to more topics from your hometown. Attention should be paid to finding the same language in order to obtain psychological * * * sounds. For example, when visiting a leader's house for the first time, everyone is inevitably a little stiff. You can skillfully use the furniture of the host's house as a topic to arouse the other party's interest in conversation.

At the same time, we should pay attention to different people, don't say the same thing to everyone, and be moderate at the same time. Too many compliments will give people a feeling of hypocrisy and politeness.

At the moment you meet someone, quickly cultivate your happy mood, strive for initiative, and let the other person feel his existence from your words and deeds, and get respect and satisfaction. Pay attention to avoid others feeling despised. There are usually two or three greetings when we meet for the first time. However, if acquaintances meet frequently, just a word, a greeting, a smile and a gesture will do.

Greetings can not only bring comfort to unhappy people, care to sad people, but also bring happiness to boring people, bring happiness to relatives and friends, and make your social activities achieve good results.