When did you begin to believe in destiny takes a hand?

I believe that everyone is familiar with The Journey to the West, the star master. This is a fated ending. For this problem, the Bohemian supreme treasure in The Journey to the West is just like us in reality ... We all have to go through childhood-adolescence-love-maturity on the road of life. When the Supreme Treasure was only a thief, he knew nothing. When he met Bai Jingjing, it was adolescence, which was an ignorant and impulsive emotion; Later, when I met Xia Zi, I understood what true love was. This is his love period. He finally knows what is "sacrifice one's life for righteousness" and what is perfection. This is his destiny!

I answered from my own experience:' I believe it! This doomed fate is called love. '

The following is a true story between my wife and me. Please read it patiently.

The first time I met my wife was in a cold winter. It was the twelfth month of 1993, and it was very cold. I followed two matchmakers to meet at my wife's house. "Our rule here is to change hands, that is, exchange tokens. At that time, my wife had something at home and didn't have much time to communicate with me. At that time, I was not good at words and left without saying a few words. It was two matchmakers who communicated with her family about my family and then asked them about my impression! If no one objects, we can exchange tokens.

God has eyes, and successfully passed this first hurdle. Why is the first step called hurdle? Please allow me to explain my situation: my mother died of illness when I was twelve years old. My father's hard work brought up my brother and sister, so my family's economic conditions were very poor. In addition, I borrowed a sum of money to treat my mother, so I was a famous poor household in the village.

So why hire two matchmakers? Actually, I have a good friend who talks about everything. Growing up together, we are neighbors across the street. I am also poor and my family background is similar, so we are in the same boat. Fortunately, he got married first, and when he saw that I was still alone, he was also worried about me, so he asked among relatives to see if there was a suitable one to introduce to me. It seems that someone arranged it, and my wife is also a sister-in-law. After my friend knew it, he hurried to the neighboring village to ask my cousin "my wife's aunt" for help. So there are two matchmakers!

Why do I believe it's destiny takes a hand's love? Because what happened in it didn't separate me from my wife. The thing is this: the day after we changed hands, we successfully completed the second step and gave a small gift. In the middle of the Spring Festival, my relatives talked about my marriage with my wife because they visited each other. Her relatives talked about my family situation and suggested that she give up me. Her other uncle said that she had a good marriage to introduce to her. She was persuaded by various people and promised to go on a blind date with her relatives the next day. Unfortunately, it backfired! The next day, it was windy and cold. The conditions were still very difficult at that time. The transportation is basically by bike, and the distance is quite long, so I didn't go that day. The next day, something more important happened to her relatives. They couldn't come. A few days later, my first love letter to her arrived at her home in time. After reading my love letter and referring to her best friend's opinion, I think I am a man who can be entrusted for life, so I gave up the idea of dating again! Soon, I received my love letters one after another, completely waiting for me to marry her. Of course, we learned all this from her after we got married. Dear friends, do you think this is God's will? Even the first meeting was almost yellow!

At that time, her aunt didn't like me when she saw me, and she didn't want to give my friend face. She had to reluctantly take me to my wife's house for a blind date. Her aunt tried to take time to persuade her not to agree, but she was followed all the way by my friend's wife, which made my blind date have a good start.

Therefore, through these things, I believe that destiny takes a hand's love is difficult to break up!