Will it be difficult for parents to educate their children after they know their "temperament type"?

A group of children are surrounded together, and others can sometimes see the personality differences of children with the naked eye. Some children talk a lot and run around as if they have inexhaustible energy and strength. Some children laugh quietly and sweetly, and don't talk much.

Children's temperament is completely different and they will not get along with their parents, so parents will complain that their children are difficult to take care of and naughty.

In fact, a big reason is that parents don't understand their children's personality characteristics and "temperament types", so they hit a wall everywhere when educating their children.

Everyone's personality is different, and so are children. They have all kinds of "temperament types" and are unique. Different "temperament types" lead to different personalities and behaviors. Parents should learn to teach students in accordance with their aptitude by understanding the four "temperament types".

There are four temperament theories in psychology, which divide children's temperament into four types: mucus type, depression type, sanguine type and choleric type.

Mucus: gentle and passive

Most children with mucilage are calm and gentle, generally quiet and clever, and rarely talk back to their parents and elders, which is what people call "good children" and "good children".

Children who are passive and have strong mucus personality characteristics may have procrastination. For example, when it comes to online classes, children will always drag their feet and take the first step passively.

If your child belongs to the "temperament type" of mucus, then you may think that this child is easy to take care of, because this child seldom cries and will not cause any big trouble to his parents. However, there are still parents who prefer enthusiastic and lively children and think that children are too quiet.

In fact, children with mucus are basically good babies and perfect children in the eyes of their parents. Parents will find that children's study life is very regular: they go to bed and get up on time, finish their homework consciously, and are satisfied with food and clothes ... parents don't need to bother.

Children with mucus are reliable and suitable for doing some meticulous and patient work. He may often do some slow and lasting things in class, such as being a duty student who can clean the blackboard, carefully knitting flower ropes for his classmates, and meticulously watering the flowers and sweeping the floor.

This type of child has artistic thinking and always calms down to experience painting and music. Children will hum songs from time to time, like painting, and have their own unique styles and characteristics. Therefore, parents can use mucilage to cultivate their children's artistic talent and arrange some art classes that they are interested in, which can be used for both class and entertainment.

Depression: sensitivity and caution

Depressed children are cautious, sensitive to everything that happens outside, and often have feelings different from ordinary people. They are compassionate and have their own unique understanding of sadness.

Children are indecisive and always have a lot of thoughts before doing things. Too many ideas bother the child. Depressed children don't like to talk, and sometimes they lack confidence.

When other children haven't figured out what they want to do and which school to go to in the future, the depressed child has already started thinking in all aspects. For example, he would think, "Why do you hear cats meowing every morning? Does Xiaohua Mall next door get up earlier than me every day? " "Is the moving brook jumping rubber bands with new classmates now?"

A depressed child is very sensitive, and he can get different feelings from small things. Children love to think, and always have a wild imagination. This type of children has strong thinking ability. If they are trained, they can integrate rich thinking into mathematics, art and literature.

Therefore, parents should never underestimate depressed children, let alone think that their children have any mental illness. After understanding the child's personality, parents can properly cultivate the child's thinking ability and give full play to his talent.

Generally speaking, depressed children need love and care more than other children. He may prefer to whisper to his cats and dogs rather than chat with his parents. Therefore, parents should pay more attention to the depressed child, encourage him to care about him, and don't let him play alone. Otherwise, depression may develop into negative pessimism and self-centeredness, and parents should pay attention to balance this.

Bloody: lively and enthusiastic

A bloody child is often the "king of children". He is lively and active, and sitting quietly is a kind of trouble for him. Enthusiastic personality, very "born familiar", is often the favorite baby of elders.

The child is good at talking, quick in reaction and articulate. Sometimes I choke my parents back. However, being bloody means that children's enthusiasm comes and goes quickly, and their emotions are impetuous. It takes three minutes to do things.

Bloody children are common, and this temperament can be found in almost every child. Children are naturally playful, so blood will always have an impact on children.

Because a bloody baby will be too enthusiastic, parents often reprimand their children for being naughty and force them to be quiet. Although naughty is wrong, enthusiasm is not a bad thing. Parents should distinguish between enthusiasm and naughty, and don't push too hard, which hurts their children's enthusiasm for getting close to their parents and exploring the world.

The emotions shown by sanguine are very ups and downs, and children will have many emotions, and they are always not afraid to expose their emotions.

Because hot-blooded children are easy to accept new things, they often give people a feeling of vigor and vitality. However, blood babies also need the care and care of their parents when they are sad. Don't think that children don't need to care just because they look heartless.

Gallbladder: independent impulse

The personality characteristics of choleric and sanguine are similar, and children are enthusiastic, cheerful and energetic. However, compared with bloody children, children with guts are more independent, have goals, and will always stick to it when looking for someone or something.

Children with bad temper are also impulsive, and they are led by the nose as soon as their emotions come up. They often suffer from not knowing how to control their emotions.

Bold children are very easy to make decisions, giving people a very refreshing feeling. They often "speak amazingly" because they don't think twice before speaking or doing things. In this regard, parents should attach great importance to it, set an example to educate their children to think calmly, put down their impulses, and let their children suffer less.

Children will like simple and clear fairy tales, like being neat and ethereal, and will not take the initiative to feel the feelings of others. Many times, a grumpy child is not liked by his peers, because other children will think that he has a bad temper and will not play patiently together.

Bold children need an example, and such an example should be made by parents. Parents should first learn to be patient and educate their children carefully. If parents often criticize their children impulsively, it will only accelerate the outbreak of their bile characteristics.

Parents must remember that temperament is not good or bad, and everyone's personality characteristics are good or bad. Never judge children by a single and one-sided standard.

Every child has a unique "temperament type". What we have to do is to accept children's unique temperament and help them change their shortcomings and improve their advantages.

Almost all of these special qualities in children are determined by heredity. This is like a person's appearance and height, which have basically been shaped by nature, but cannot be forcibly changed the day after tomorrow.

Temperament type is only a rough classification, not an absolute judgment. In fact, every child is a mixture of four different temperaments. He may be like bile and mucus, so parents don't have to prefer a certain temperament type.

When parents educate their children, they can prescribe the right medicine according to the "temperament type" and find the most suitable education method for their children.