We can't change the weather, but we can change our mood.

1. We can't change the weather, but we can change our mood. Similarly, we can't change our lives, but the only thing we can change is ourselves. Despite the impermanence and ups and downs of life, life is bound to be full of many unsatisfactory places, but there are some things that can be completely grasped by ourselves, and that is our attitude towards work and life. Some people say that everyone has an invisible magic weapon, one side of which says "positive mentality" and the other side says "negative mentality". A positive mentality can make you reach the peak of your life, while a negative mentality will make you poor and unhappy all your life.

2. Therefore, we must learn to work actively and live optimistically. If a person has a good attitude, even if his current job is not ideal, he can be satisfied and calm. And this positive attitude will bring a good working attitude, and its working effect will be good, and guide us to the road of success step by step. Actually, it is not. We must have a positive and optimistic attitude in our work every day. It is absolutely impossible to do a good job without these two States. However, this mentality will not only affect the work, but also determine the fate of a person's life in the longer term. One of the three important topics in life is to be yourself. However, no self is more advanced than "being yourself". It is a state of getting rid of narcissism and establishing a deep connection with everything in the universe after finding yourself and realizing yourself. It's what Li Ka-shing said, "Create self, pursue no self". At this time, the "I" seems to have disappeared, and it seems that it is infinitely integrated with everything. You no longer pay too much attention to the evaluation of others in the relationship, no longer worry too much about the success or failure of the ego, and no longer project your inner darkness on others. You can be aware without judgment, and keep the awareness when observing yourself. No matter how strong your physical feelings, emotions and emotions are, you don't think of them as "me", which is called "flowing" instead of becoming ".

3. Make yourself a channel, just as Michael Jackson said, I often feel that I am just a channel, and God expresses through me. No self is the premise of * * * love. And * * * love is to close your mind, and your body and emotions are directly connected with others. At this time, the warmth you can convey is the warmth of "starting from his needs", not the warmth you think. At this time, wonder will occur, and the true self and the true self will meet. "I am looking for the object, I am looking for you", and the wonderful moments of energy flow all happen in high-quality relationships.