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There's an old saying in China that "wealth cannot last three generations", and most people are poor, or have experienced poverty, or are heading for poverty. What kind of influence poverty has on mentality depends on personal and family education, not poverty.

As far as family conditions are concerned, my family has been heavily in debt since childhood. My family used to be the "richest man" in our small place, but our mentality is completely different.

My family has been in debt for as long as I can remember. Not to mention my parents' professional ability. Since they got married and separated, and were assigned a debt of 200 yuan, my family's debt has been increasing and rolling. 1985 parents separated. My dad told me not to back down when I was young. You can't stop anyone from covering their eyes. As long as it is right, we must do it bravely. My hometown is in the mountainous area. In the fourth grade, I went to school in Zibo with my parents. On the first day of the new school, my uncle, who was doing well in Zibo, lent me his son's clothes, saying they looked good and others looked down upon them. The native chicken wears phoenix feathers and is still a native chicken. The first Chinese class put me back to my original shape. Other students in the class recite the text loudly, and I am no different from talking to myself. At that time, I didn't know it was called "clear pronunciation and mellow voice" and "loud voice". I just thought that loud voice would get applause from my classmates. As a child who grew up in the mountains, I was most afraid of competing with my own voice when I went to a city school for the first time. As you can imagine, before I finished reading a paragraph, the teacher asked me to sit down and the whole class burst into laughter. A year later, in the fifth grade, my father found me an English teacher, who was a big sister. During a recess, she asked me to recite Mao Zedong's "Bodhisattva Man", and I startled him as soon as I opened my mouth. Clear pronunciation, loud voice, clear articulation, cadence ... Well, I really can't find other words. Anyway, it's good.

I was admitted to Dongying junior high school from grade five. At that time, there was no cyclist in the whole class or even the whole school like me. Girder bicycles in the 1970s (many people don't know what a girder bicycle is) and Shanghai Phoenix brand can't land at the same time, so they can only ride from one side to the other. At that time, when I met students who didn't ride bicycles, I would use it to drive my classmates home. What is a standout? At the school gate after school, among a group of mountain bikes and recreational vehicles, I think the "girder car" taller than others is the crane. For three years in junior high school, I only remember spring, summer, autumn and winter. At the top is the school uniform, and there will be no other clothes to change. Every time the school uniform is too dirty and needs washing, it is my most depressed place. I don't know how to say the clothes on the lower body. I have worn those clothes for seven years. People living in the countryside should know this habit. That kind of cloth was used by close people for the dead, some were torn from wreaths and some were hung at funerals. Yes, during my seven years in junior high school and senior high school, I wore pants made of mourning cloth and never changed my shorts in summer.

After graduating from college, I bought a pair of sweatpants myself, which was in 2008. I took a picture of it and posted it in the space. The high school deskmate said, "You finally learned to wear other pants." Strangely, when I don't feel anything.

I will never forget the year when I wanted to tear myself to pieces, which happened in Zibo (when I was in the fourth grade). It was not easy to find a job in Zibo. Father left 100 yuan and went to Dongying to find a new livelihood. That summer, my mother and I were helpless in Zibo, and the weather was very hot. I'm still wearing spring clothes (no summer clothes). My mother didn't resist the request and spent more than 30 yuan to buy me a summer dress. There are too many mosquitoes at night, and there are no mosquito nets at home. I begged my mother to buy mosquito nets. My mother only has 100, and has spent more than 30 yuan. I can't help it. My mother begged her neighbors to take me in. She was alone at home. The next day, I came home. It's very hot in Zibo in July (just look at the recent temperature in Zibo). My mother wears long-sleeved clothes and covers her arms. I was curious and helped her roll up her sleeves. Two arms are slowly turning red, both bitten by mosquitoes. I didn't go to my neighbor's house for more than a week. My mother and I went to the wild to find some weeds and light smoked mosquitoes. When the smoke cleared, we went home to sleep.

Poverty at home has led to my living conditions, which are reflected in all aspects of daily necessities. Even when I got married, my parents couldn't afford the bride price, and they couldn't afford to buy a house or a car, which almost led to my separation from my wife. I still don't hate them.

No matter what kind of scene I encounter, what kind of things I encounter, and how big the identity gap is, I can still live so optimistically because of my parents' education.

Don't back down when you are in trouble, you are you, and hiding can't stop anyone's eyes. As long as it is right, we should do it bravely.

I once wrote a poem, which is the most direct embodiment of my parents' education.

The long wind broke through the sea for nine days,

Wan Li Jiangtie Treadmill,

Robbed the world,

Brush your robe with a smile.

Let the wind hit my face;

Let tears put on clothes;

Qian Shan is full of water,

Any change is a setback.

Ask for money, take it;

Damn it, take it;

Confuse my heart, humiliate my soul, bend down, bend your back, lower your head,

That's impossible