We can't change the weather, so can we change our mood?

We can't change the weather, but we can change our mood. Similarly, we cannot change our lives, but the only thing we can change is ourselves. Although life is impermanent, ups and downs, life is bound to be full of many unsatisfactory places, but there are some things that can be completely controlled by ourselves, that is, our attitude towards work and life. Some people say that everyone has an invisible magic weapon, saying "positive mentality" while saying "negative mentality". A positive attitude can make you reach the peak of your life, while a negative attitude will make you poor and unhappy all your life.

Therefore, we must learn to work actively and live an optimistic life. If a person has a good attitude, he can be satisfied and calm even if his present job is not ideal. And this kind of positive attitude will bring good working attitude, and its working effect will be very good, which will guide us to the road of success step by step. Actually, it is not. We must keep a positive and optimistic attitude in our daily work. Without these two States, it is absolutely impossible to do well. However, this mentality will not only affect the work, but also determine the fate of a person's life in the long run. One of the three important topics in life is to be yourself. However, no ego is more advanced than "being yourself". It is a state of getting rid of narcissism and establishing deep connection with everything in the universe after finding and realizing self. It's what Li Ka-shing said: "Creating self and pursuing selflessness". At this time, "I" seems to have disappeared, and it seems to be infinitely integrated with everything. You no longer pay too much attention to the evaluation of others in the relationship, no longer worry too much about the success or failure of the ego, and no longer project your inner darkness on others. You can be aware without judgment, and stay aware while observing yourself. No matter how strong your physical feelings, emotions and emotions are, you won't think of them as "me". This is called "flowing" rather than "becoming".

3. Make yourself a channel, as Michael Jackson said, I often feel that I am just a channel, and God expresses through me. No self is the premise of love. And * * * love is to close your mind, and your body and emotions are directly connected with others. At this time, the warmth you can convey is the warmth of "starting from his needs", not the warmth you think. At this time, a miracle will happen, and the true self and the true self will meet. "I'm looking for someone, I'm looking for you", and all the wonderful moments of energy flow occur in quality relationships.